Any Brothers / Sisters Help?

[PranaamShaheedaNu]

Gur Fateh!

Ok so basically, Im lonely in the sense that I cant get sangat anywhere. I know Maharaaj is always with me and when i go to GuruGhar I dont feel it at all. But the problem is i Live in a town where the Sikhs (the elderly and the youth) are more 'Sunday Sikhs' and turn up to the Gurudwara on a Sunday have lanagar and then go. It doesnt help with the fact that my family (parents and bro) are more 'punjabi' than Sikh and think im a bit crazy when i talk about Sikhi etc; and are more mixed (i can expand but its long)

So i guess im asking is therte any Sikhs that I can talk to and build my Sikhi with etc ? It may sound weird but i know sangat mahaan hai !

Please inbox me or reply here

Thanks for taking the time to read

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!

[sat]

Gur Fateh!

Ok so basically, Im lonely in the sense that I cant get sangat anywhere. I know Maharaaj is always with me and when i go to GuruGhar I dont feel it at all. But the problem is i Live in a town where the Sikhs (the elderly and the youth) are more 'Sunday Sikhs' and turn up to the Gurudwara on a Sunday have lanagar and then go. It doesnt help with the fact that my family (parents and bro) are more 'punjabi' than Sikh and think im a bit crazy when i talk about Sikhi etc; and are more mixed (i can expand but its long)

So i guess im asking is therte any Sikhs that I can talk to and build my Sikhi with etc ? It may sound weird but i know sangat mahaan hai !

Please inbox me or reply here

Thanks for taking the time to read

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!

Where r u, sounds like where i live :biggrin2:

WJKK WJKF

[PranaamShaheedaNu]

Northamptonshire! You?

[sat]

Northamptonshire! You?

West mids.

Coventry is not that far or leicester,rugby, but i suppose it not the same as in your own town, there must be some sikhs you can relate to at your Gurdwara, Ngar kirtan if you guys have one get involved do sewa its s great way to get to know people, takes time and if you dont speak to anyone it takes longer keep smiling :biggrin2: .

WJKK WJKF

[HKaur16]

Gur Fateh!

Ok so basically, Im lonely in the sense that I cant get sangat anywhere. I know Maharaaj is always with me and when i go to GuruGhar I dont feel it at all. But the problem is i Live in a town where the Sikhs (the elderly and the youth) are more 'Sunday Sikhs' and turn up to the Gurudwara on a Sunday have lanagar and then go. It doesnt help with the fact that my family (parents and bro) are more 'punjabi' than Sikh and think im a bit crazy when i talk about Sikhi etc; and are more mixed (i can expand but its long)

So i guess im asking is therte any Sikhs that I can talk to and build my Sikhi with etc ? It may sound weird but i know sangat mahaan hai !

Please inbox me or reply here

Thanks for taking the time to read

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!

I was going to post somewhat the same thing on here lol. How can you be attached to sangat and attend Gurdwara Sahib when most of the people that attend cause corruption in the Gurdwara Sahib?How do you concentrate when everyone around you is trying to discuss other things? I often see myself losing my temper when I see people that disrespect the Guru Ghar and Guru Sahib and I am not sure how to deal with it.

[PranaamShaheedaNu]

@HKaur16 no I totally agree with you ! You can't concentrate - te bibiya don't chugli while the Paath is going on etc. I can't jor with sangat because most of the youth around here are punjabi and not sikh and I think there is a difference even though my parents tell me there's not aha!

[JSinghnz]

I was going to post somewhat the same thing on here lol. How can you be attached to sangat and attend Gurdwara Sahib when most of the people that attend cause corruption in the Gurdwara Sahib?How do you concentrate when everyone around you is trying to discuss other things? I often see myself losing my temper when I see people that disrespect the Guru Ghar and Guru Sahib and I am not sure how to deal with it.

Please do not be so judgemental about the Sangat. How can you say most of the people that attend cause corruption. Concentrate your mind on the positive things you notice at your Gurdwara. Do sewa at the langar

and do sewa of the Sangat's shoes. Donot lose temper but always challenge any disrespect to Guru Sahib. May Waheguru grant you the strength to do this.

[HKaur16]

Please do not be so judgemental about the Sangat. How can you say most of the people that attend cause corruption. Concentrate your mind on the positive things you notice at your Gurdwara. Do sewa at the langar

and do sewa of the Sangat's shoes. Donot lose temper but always challenge any disrespect to Guru Sahib. May Waheguru grant you the strength to do this.

You're right I shouldn't be too judgmental. Maybe sometimes I overgeneralize because when I see the people that I know for sure cause beadbi, I assume their acquaintances are like that too. I should focus on positive things and not the negatives.