Can you take Amrit if your partner does not?

[Guest Confused]

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh

I would like to take Amrit, maybe not just yet but I really want to, my wife does is not into the idea. We are both into Sikhi, as is my wife, we do Parth go Gurdwara but she does says she doesnt want to take that extra step. Guru Kirpa that we both take it. But if she doesn't, will I still be able to?

[savinderpalsingh]

WaheGuru Ji Ka Khalsa !! WaheGuru Ji Ki Fateh !!

Waheguru ji ,

as per maryada you can but you will not be able to have physical relation with your wife until she takes amrit too

for more maryada ,

please visit following link

http://www.damdamitaksaal.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=80&Itemid=68

[sat]

Speak to your local Gurdwara

[savinderpalsingh]

Waheguru ji ,

dont follow changed maryada . follow how it is supposed to be

[gurdeepsinghjohal]

Check with Akaal Takht Sahib Rehat Maryada.

Akal Takht Sahib Maryada is the only maryada one should look into.

[savinderpalsingh]

Waheguru ji,

Akal Takhat even says Ragmala is not creation of Patshahi 10vi

They even say read 3 bani's in morning .

do not believe such people who change maryada .

stick to what it is

[gurdeepsinghjohal]

Only Akaal Takht Sahib has authority to judge and decide for sikhs.

Ragmala is not the issue.

[savinderpalsingh]

Waheguru ji ,

No one and i mean No one has the right to change maryada passed by our father not even akal takhat

see the video below and see the actions of so called akal takhat

still think highly of akal takhat controlled by sgpc?

Sikh pyaara nahi !! Rehat pyaari mujhko !!

Patshahi 10vi.

[gurdeepsinghjohal]

Akaal Takht Sahib is the highest authority of sikhs.

Any other Takht comes afterwards.

Panj pyare, if you know the concept.

[luckysingh99]

It's no good trying to justify the different maryadas.

The akaal takht is the official umbrella over all sikhs and their conduct.

The ddt, akj..etc. have differing maryadas going into more detail for their own jathabandhis and this is within their own circles.

They don't impose these on everyone yet akal takht maryada is for every sikh.

What one should do is first look at akal takht maryada and if that doesn't answer your question, then go check if you are under a jathebandi depending on where and which panj pyaras do amrit.