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Is this possible or not ?

99 % Amritdhari women are Kurehati's and will never do Pesh in front of Singhs doing Seva of Punj Piyaras.

Does it mean they are doomed or can there be an Amtit Sanchar for the women by the women.

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not according to some us and canadian sikhs there is no concept of sin/paap in sikhi, dont believe me go to sikh philosophy network, there are guys who believe this nonsense, so all the innocents who were slaughtered by the mughals but the mughals did no paap/sin. lol be carefull who you are listening to.

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Wow, it's so strange, I was brooding over this last night and this is the first time I've seen someone talk about this. I was upset because I can't go to the panj in regards to issues of kaam. They're all men, and most men (especially Sikh) would assume that kaam is only a male problem. I just can't do it.

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Wow, it's so strange, I was brooding over this last night and this is the first time I've seen someone talk about this. I was upset because I can't go to the panj in regards to issues of kaam. They're all men, and most men (especially Sikh) would assume that kaam is only a male problem. I just can't do it.

Do you need to go pesh because you've committed a kurehit or do you just need some advice?

One of my unmarried friends had a knee operation and went to the panj for peshi..they asked why she had come and she told them but they also asked her whether she had had any physical relations..so they do discuss it with bibia and I think that they will realise that it is serious if you've gone out of your way to seek their advice at an amrit sanchaar.

Also, I don't think they're naive enough to think that kaam only affects men..it does seem to affect men to a greater extent but it takes two to tango so I think they know that it isn't just men that struggle. If you really can't go and see them and you haven't committed a kurehit, maybe speak to a knowledgeable bibi that you trust? I think generally though, we need to wake up and be more aware of how kaam affects girls and deal with it early on.

With regards to the original poster, I don't think women only amrit sanchaars will ever be a thing (in the near future anyway). We can't even decide on having one woman in the panj pyaareh, there's no way you'll get 5 bibia to conduct an amrit sanchaar without serious problems.

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Dad. ........ Y there was no bibi who took amrit wen u were making khalsa?

What ever maharj did was right. There were no women for a reason. We don't know the reason. i have to say the 2pyare are good singhs of high spirits, rab roop. We dont have to be shy from them, tell them everything like a brother. We cannot try to change the maryada to see what fits us, if the sikh women in todays society are doing wrong things then they either ask for muwafi or deal with the guilt. WE are the problem, not the fact that Guru Gobind Singh Jee only had 'Singhs' as the 5 payare-that is not the problem.

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