Cant Stop

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i dont like it i just wanna keep doing it its not porn its those live cams i like feeling incharge im a sikh but dont have my hair cut u just dont eat meat and do patt in englsih twice a day idk y i cant stop i just want to keeep watching it plz help

[Mat Pulo Rai]

Ive said before Kaam was a problem for me in my Teenage years but through the guidance of a Gur-Mukh hasnt bothered me for years, not during the day or at night, if you would like to know the routine and the reasons of why Kaam is a obstacle give us a Pm and ill help in any way I can.

Fateh

[VanHelsingh]

Ive said before Kaam was a problem for me in my Teenage years but through the guidance of a Gur-Mukh hasnt bothered me for years, not during the day or at night, if you would like to know the routine and the reasons of why Kaam is a obstacle give us a Pm and ill help in any way I can.

Fateh

P.s can i get a msg from a Admin i might do a type up of how and why Kaam is a problem and how to over come it, ill send it to a admin if its worth it put it up as a sticky

Considering the frequency of these kind of topics on this site, I think you'd be doing a great seva for all youngsters who have such issues.

But like you said best to get the all clear from the mods first.

[HDSH]

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[Guest gupt]

These topics are so embarrassing. You should feel ashamed to tell us this! Nobody wants to know. Just search through previous topics. PLEASE!

[HDSH]

These topics are so embarrassing. You should feel ashamed to tell us this! Nobody wants to know. Just search through previous topics. PLEASE!

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[_singhni_]

Think of the below everytime you want to do such thing or any other anti Gurmat activity:

Vaheguru je is watching your every single move. He is with you every single second of every day. Now would you really do such things in Gods presence? I think not. So keep that in mind because God is with you every second

[S1ngh]

Maya (distractions) follow us in many forms during our lifetime; money, addictions etc. You have to fight against all these urges.If you take a look at this world, all is slave of maya. Maya controls your mind. Make maya your enemy. In morning when you want to wake up early but one side of your mind force you to hit snooze on alarm.. THAT is one example on how you are being controlled by your mind and your mind is controlled by maya.Discipline is important in order to get rid of any type of addiction.

Take revenge on maya and do opposite of what your -ve mind tell you to do.

Spends lots of time reading sikh scriptures (english is fine), occupy your mind with different sikhi/positive activities; maybe start learning punjabi.

You already one step ahead in fighting a war against your addiction by recognizing the problem you have. Next step is to create STRONG WILL POWER !!

[Guest gupt]

Dont just read the english translation, read the original gurbani aswell... read it again and again. do ardaas again and again. don't lose faith.

Shabad on ang 1159

ਗੁਰ ਸੇਵਾ ਤੇ ਭਗਤਿ ਕਮਾਈ ॥

Gur Saevaa Thae Bhagath Kamaaee ||

Serving the Guru, devotional worship is practiced.

ਤਬ ਇਹ ਮਾਨਸ ਦੇਹੀ ਪਾਈ ॥

Thab Eih Maanas Dhaehee Paaee ||

Then, this human body is obtained.

ਇਸ ਦੇਹੀ ਕਉ ਸਿਮਰਹਿ ਦੇਵ ॥

Eis Dhaehee Ko Simarehi Dhaev ||

Even the gods long for this human body.

ਸੋ ਦੇਹੀ ਭਜੁ ਹਰਿ ਕੀ ਸੇਵ ॥੧॥

So Dhaehee Bhaj Har Kee Saev ||1||

So vibrate that human body, and think of serving the Lord. ||1||

ਭਜਹੁ ਗਬਿੰਦ ਭੂਲਿ ਮਤ ਜਾਹੁ ॥

Bhajahu Guobindh Bhool Math Jaahu ||

Vibrate, and meditate on the Lord of the Universe, and never forget Him.

ਮਾਨਸ ਜਨਮ ਕਾ ਏਹੀ ਲਾਹੁ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥

Maanas Janam Kaa Eaehee Laahu ||1|| Rehaao ||

This is the blessed opportunity of this human incarnation. ||1||Pause||

ਜਬ ਲਗੁ ਜਰਾ ਰੋਗੁ ਨਹੀ ਆਇਆ ॥

Jab Lag Jaraa Rog Nehee Aaeiaa ||

As long as the disease of old age has not come to the body,

ਜਬ ਲਗੁ ਕਾਲਿ ਗ੍ਰਸੀ ਨਹੀ ਕਾਇਆ ॥

Jab Lag Kaal Grasee Nehee Kaaeiaa ||

And as long as death has not come and seized the body,

ਜਬ ਲਗੁ ਬਿਕਲ ਭਈ ਨਹੀ ਬਾਨੀ ॥

Jab Lag Bikal Bhee Nehee Baanee ||

And as long as your voice has not lost its power,

ਭਜਿ ਲੇਹਿ ਰੇ ਮਨ ਸਾਰਿਗਪਾਨੀ ॥੨॥

Bhaj Laehi Rae Man Saarigapaanee ||2||

O mortal being, vibrate and meditate on the Lord of the World. ||2||

ਅਬ ਨ ਭਜਸਿ ਭਜਸਿ ਕਬ ਭਾਈ ॥

Ab N Bhajas Bhajas Kab Bhaaee ||

If you do not vibrate and meditate on Him now, when will you, O Sibing of Destiny?

ਆਵੈ ਅੰਤੁ ਨ ਭਜਿਆ ਜਾਈ ॥

Aavai Anth N Bhajiaa Jaaee ||

When the end comes, you will not be able to vibrate and meditate on Him.

ਜੋ ਕਿਛੁ ਕਰਹਿ ਸੋਈ ਅਬ ਸਾਰੁ ॥

Jo Kishh Karehi Soee Ab Saar ||

Whatever you have to do - now is the best time to do it.

ਫਿਰਿ ਪਛੁਤਾਹੁ ਨ ਪਾਵਹੁ ਪਾਰੁ ॥੩॥

Fir Pashhuthaahu N Paavahu Paar ||3||

Otherwise, you shall regret and repent afterwards, and you shall not be carried across to the other side. ||3||

ਸੋ ਸੇਵਕੁ ਜੋ ਲਾਇਆ ਸੇਵ ॥

So Saevak Jo Laaeiaa Saev ||

He alone is a servant, whom the Lord enjoins to His service.

ਤਿਨ ਹੀ ਪਾਏ ਨਿਰੰਜਨ ਦੇਵ ॥

Thin Hee Paaeae Niranjan Dhaev ||

He alone attains the Immaculate Divine Lord.

ਗੁਰ ਮਿਲਿ ਤਾ ਕੇ ਖੁਲ੍ਹ੍ਹੇ ਕਪਾਟ ॥

Gur Mil Thaa Kae Khulhae Kapaatt ||

Meeting with the Guru, his doors are opened wide,

ਬਹੁਰਿ ਨ ਆਵੈ ਜੋਨੀ ਬਾਟ ॥੪॥

Bahur N Aavai Jonee Baatt ||4||

And he does not have to journey again on the path of reincarnation. ||4||

ਇਹੀ ਤੇਰਾ ਅਉਸਰੁ ਇਹ ਤੇਰੀ ਬਾਰ ॥

Eihee Thaeraa Aousar Eih Thaeree Baar ||

This is your chance, and this is your time.

ਘਟ ਭੀਤਰਿ ਤੂ ਦੇਖੁ ਬਿਚਾਰਿ ॥

Ghatt Bheethar Thoo Dhaekh Bichaar ||

Look deep into your own heart, and reflect on this.

ਕਹਤ ਕਬੀਰੁ ਜੀਤਿ ਕੈ ਹਾਰਿ ॥

Kehath Kabeer Jeeth Kai Haar ||

Says Kabeer, you can win or lose.

ਬਹੁ ਬਿਧਿ ਕਹਿਓ ਪੁਕਾਰਿ ਪੁਕਾਰਿ ॥੫॥੧॥੯॥

Bahu Bidhh Kehiou Pukaar Pukaar ||5||1||9||

In so many ways, I have proclaimed this out loud. ||5||1||9||

[Guest Guest]

Ive said before Kaam was a problem for me in my Teenage years but through the guidance of a Gur-Mukh hasnt bothered me for years, not during the day or at night, if you would like to know the routine and the reasons of why Kaam is a obstacle give us a Pm and ill help in any way I can.

Fateh

P.s can i get a msg from a Admin i might do a type up of how and why Kaam is a problem and how to over come it, ill send it to a admin if its worth it put it up as a sticky

are u posting on this topic........it would be awsm....... would help many ppl here.....