Is Masturbation Allowed In Sikhi?

[Guest WeirdQuestions]

Well i am 16 and well as a teenager. masturbating is something i do often. But i am wandering is it allowed to masturbate in sikhi? If it is can you tell me whats so bad about it? It rerlives stress, feels good, and relieves sexual tension. so anything wrong with it?

[HDSH]

Benti to all: Please keep the replies civilized, we have all gone through turbulent times when we were that age as well. Let's try and be supportive of our younger brother

[jhooldenishan]

http://www.sikhiwiki.org/index.php/Sikhi_on_masturbating

check out this out..

umm..well these things r VERY hard to control and you need to be really self discipled.. ..even though it is not a bujjer kuret..but it does destroy ur jeevan and makes it harder to get into gursikhi jeevan..

[singhgurj]

Well i am 16 and well as a teenager. masturbating is something i do often. But i am wandering is it allowed to masturbate in sikhi? If it is can you tell me whats so bad about it? It rerlives stress, feels good, and relieves sexual tension. so anything wrong with it?

If you want to stop that there is a technique which is very simple and easy. If you contact me I will tell you.

[Guest be wise]

Masturbation if done excessively is very bad for your physical body but more so your mind. Dont be fooled by the amount of info online that says Masturbation is healthy. Poeple dont take this act seriously and think its funny.

when it is deadily serious. If you do it more then twice a week this is deemed excessive and you can be hooked on doing it. the reason is because you get a dopamine and seretonin rush when you do it. hence its addictive nature.

I was addicted to it myself and is what caused me to have a social phobia. I could right on this all day. but in a nutshell. dont masturbate for one week. and see how you feel. you will notice that you are alot more energetic, confident. have more focus. become more mature.

thats the reason why so many teens are doing drugs and alchol these days. excessive masturbation muddles your mind. it makes you confused and take you away from who you really are as a person.

i was addicted to masturabation. and did it 4 -6 times a day. it was just a routine for me. i never went a day without doing it. its only when for the first time in my life i took a break from doing it. I realed the damgae it was doing to me. unfortunatley I never put to an to togther and didnt realise it was harming me especially my mental state.

If I knew back then. I would have stopped. But you are young. so I am telling you to keep it down to at least twice weekly. if done in this moderation it is actually healthy for you. And i wouldnt advise you to completley stop. but dont over do it. when we mastuate what you are doing is producing a seed of life. do you think if you do this excessivley this wont affect your mind and body. it will.

[xtremesingh18]

haven't been on this forum in a few months before today, and surprise surprise there's a thread about masturbation. I see nothing has changed in this forum then eh

[Guest Kaamstuck]

I personally think it's really wrong because it leads you to kaam and yur mind stays away from gurbani and sikhi...and yu dunt want that! What is the differences between having sex for pleasure and this? They are the same because yu r leadin yourself to feel pleasure in doing it....

I no it must be hard to stop it cos I have been through what yu have...recently I have done that! And now I regard so much that I could kill myself! I feel so low in sikhi and just want to cry! I am bad but yu dunt be one pls! It's for yur own good...since that day and now I feel like mymind is polluted with this! Khalsaji pls control yourself! Do simian! The best way to keep yourself sways

Khalsaji.....it's bit obvious that it would be bad doing this in sikhi because just tell me can yu imagine a chardi Kala gursikh doing this? Think why will it be good?

Waheguruji bul chuck maf karni

[Guest gupt]

your not addicted to masturbations your addicted to the dopamine release that you get when you masturbate. its incredibly addicted. and its not like other addictions like alcohol and drug addiction. where you can keep away from the drugs. with your addiction. you can do it any time so to sepak. you dont have to go to the shop to buy it.

hence you have to stop watching any pornogrpahic content. dont eat any spicy indian foods. or anything with chillie in it. ie onions garlic as this is acts as a aprodisiac and makes you want to engage in these acts.

take up sports. do stuff so your always occupied and dont have to much spare time to make you want to enagage in this act.

your body also needs a rest from the constant masturabtion your doing. its having a detromental affects of your mind as wll as your phyical body.

dont do it for at least a month to give your body time to heal and recover. take up exercise as your going to miss the dopamine and seretonin high that you got with mastuabtion. but your can replace this same high with exercise as this has the same affect.