Relationship Dilemma

[DalbirSingh]

I know quite a few people who intermarried with tamils they are running okay, guess people find common ground and carry on. It is not something to advise and push forth it can cause problems if you don't have the same page to run with. For those thinking about it before they do, understand being born a sikh is a great privilege, the awesome culture, food, traditions, history, philisophy and metaphysics. Sikh men and women are full of lots of rough and tough behaviour full of love, some people can't take it but that is how lions behave hence why they are king of the jungle. You need to be more concerned with what your parents are going to say rather then religion says. If she believes in sikhi to the extent where you can share your life together then you have common ground, if she is going to make you go to pandits and brahmins all the time and stop going gurdwara then allow it. If you both can do your thing on the side it is okay. Sikhs that married hindus both men and women in the past were on the same level of belief, it is mainly in abrahamic world were what religion you are is a believer or non-believer. Loads of hindus naturally grew up in gurdwaras and practiced as sikhs, they also married in gurdwaras and spent life in gurdwaras the only reason they choose not to call themselves sikh was mainly because they didn't keep kesh some still kept dastars and even abit of dhari. These days it is difficult to know the difference in an integrated society. Some tamil mandirs actually have photos of guru nanak and they are doing pooja of guru nanak. Depends if you can connect with sikhism.

[Guest lol]

If your religion was important to you then you wouldn't be going out with her to begin with . break up with her

LOL ur n extreme singh yet ur DP is of a cartoon character out of madagascar! :O looool

[jaswinder singh]

LOL ur n extreme singh yet ur DP is of a cartoon character out of madagascar! :O looool

every one including the guy u r refering to has right to is own pov.but the matter is are we

going for ghetto -isation of our community , what way do we think we can expand our faith?

our faith teaches to respect all ideologies yet we do not, our Gurus tell us we shuld discard

casteism and gendre discrimination , we do not ; what direction we are taking?

omg so many ways of not following the way our gurus taught us , still we are sikhs