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Wjkk wjkf. So........the girl in the end asked me out.

When she come to ask me out..,,there was alot of people with her. So i told her to come with me on her own. So she did. I told her that i like her an want to get married to her. But i sed no to the "going out" proposal. However she understood and sed "i have the same feelings for you, lets try and get married". So i sed "yes,OK". Believe me. She is really nice and good looking. She is the girl who every other girl wants to be like in the year.

Did i do good or bad??

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Payarey younger brother, as per Gurmat, this is completely wrong. You are only 16, there is still probably about 10years before you can get married. To concern yourself with marriage at such a young age simply does not make any sense. Concentrate on Sikhi, studies, sports etc which will help a great deal in finding a good mate when it's time to get married. It will also help you get over your little crush on her.

Another thing to note is that people change completely in a matter of months, one can only imagine how much change 10 years will make to a person. So even though you may think she's a good person right now, who knows where she and you will be in about 10 years.

If all of that didn't make any sense, ask yourself this question. Can you tell your parents about this girl without any fear and shame?

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