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my friend say this very good site for sikhs with problems. i have problem and need advice of sangat. I am jat and in romance with lady who is chamar. i proper sikh in London. We have been in romance for six month. I have no problem with chamar; in UK they are ok and do not behave like chamar in India.

My romance is very close. We do not do sleep together but enjoy each other very much. In India, my father will not be happy about chamar lady. how can i change his mind?

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I'm closing this thread, if you do a search on the forum this has been discussed plenty of times. If you do not currently have an account, I suggest you sign up. You should then be able to use the search feature.

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