Family Problems

[believer]

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[Guest guptbhenji]

Do nothing, dont talk to them at all thats wat i say. If somebody says bad about ur family, doesnt matter whether they are amritdhari or wat they are the same as everybody else, the fact is they have hurt u in some way. It is best to not talk to anybody like that they are not worth wat u are even if they are older, they disrespected ur parents and ur parents are the ones that u need not them.

Dont even argue with them coz if u do say anything back it will look bad on you, and may cause repurcussion which u dont need,if u are sure 100% they did this I wouldnt give them the time of day let alone respect them.

This world is full of hypocritical ppl and we have to keep away from them in order to make ourselves happy and as long as u dont say wrong to them ur ok. Put it this way they just washed some of ur families karm by doing wat they did, so their loss not urs.

[Whitehorse]

A key question is who told you that they said bad things about you and your family. Can you trust what that person said?

Once you have addressed that question - and if the answer is that you can trust that person - then, I think you should not break off being polite to these people - but don't spend much time with them either.

It is smarter in life to keep your friends close, but your enemies closer...

[believer]

yes i can trust caus it wasnt 1 person who heard them saying bad stuff...

and ive also seen chathistory with bad talking...

but on gurbani support...should we keep talking to someone who things bad..does bad??