Serious Question For Couples And Elders Only Is This Allowed

[Guest Jelabi Singh]

WahegurooJiKaKhalsa WahegurooJiKiFateh

Sat Sangeet Ji, I have been married to my wife for a saaal year. We both have taken khande de phul together, our panj pyare told us to jap naam always but we are kind of confused, since our panj told us to naam jaap 24/7 is it right to recite raabbs naam while we have a shower? *edited*

bhul chaak marf if daas has said anything wrong, daas is just a moorak.

WahegurooJiKaKhalsa WahegurooJiKiFateh

[MokhamSingh]

ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂਜੀਕਾਖਾਲਸਾਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂਜੀਕੀਫਤਹਿ

When we take Amrit and embark on the Naam Simran path , our spiritual awakening goes through several stages before we become totally infused with the Lord. If anyone Gursikh can spend about twenty hours a day for about three months on Simran they will reach a stage where Prakash has taken place and as such they will feel as if Naam Simran is taking place inside without actively engaging in it. There also comes a stage where Naam becomes so sweet that the material pleasure tatstes all seem tasteless.

There is nothing wrong with physical relations with one's spouse. The only time it would be wrong is when the kaam vaashna (sexual desire) takes us away from nitnem/naam simran etc. Sri Guru Tegh Bhadhur Ji Maharajh said that a man should show his love to his wife and vice versa but never ever in the wildest dreams should one contemplate extra marital sex.

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