Kaam

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i need help with kaam its really bothering me lately and i hate it is there a certain bani i can do or a shabad that i can read over and over i want kaam not coming to me, not even the though or situation please brothers and sisters help me

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Vaheguroo Ji Ka Khalsa, Vaheguroo Ji Ki Fateh,

First of all, do ardaas, its such a powerful asset for a Sikh...so often, we look to sikhsangat.com when we should be looking to our Guru Ji to provide the answers/solutions...

Then Jaap as much naam as possible, read as much bani as you can, the same or different...

Take yourself into the sadh sangat...

Do seva of the sadh sangat until your so tired you can't do or think of anything else...

Sorry if i've offended anyone...

Vaheguroo Ji Ka Khalsa, Vaheguroo Ji Ki Fateh!

[Mindless]

um, well i listened to this really good katha a few days back, and the singh explained that if you keep your mind as busy as possible with bani, any, you wont have time to think about anything else. continously, anytime, plug in an ipod in with bani maybe, or just recite some when u get the feelings, jus keep your mind REALLY busy, and you wont have the time to waver. BANI BANI BANII...it doesnt just stop with nitnem.

and there is also a sankat mochan Gutka sahib which i have heard have, having numerous shabads for differnt things, i've never handled that bani, so i dont know any details, just the faint name popped up

hope that helps, and i know everyone says do ardaas, take a hukamnama, e.c.t e.c.t, but sometimes i really dont think we know the tru power of ardaas, if done with proper sharda and pyaar, and if you follow the hukamnama to the T, your problem will be sorted in no time, just gota trust it.

bul chuk maaf, i'm jus another wanabe.

[jassa]

guru gobind singh ji looking at you when u indulge ur slef in some sort of wrong action ... just keep this in mind .... and u will be saved ....

[Guest peacemaker]

guru gobind singh ji looking at you when u indulge ur slef in some sort of wrong action ... just keep this in mind .... and u will be saved ....

So it's ok to do bad things like cheating if you keep Guru Gobind Singh in your mind when you do it, right?

[jassa]

well it depends on thinking ... like in class if ur teacher is looking at u will u hit ur benchmate no ... u will hit him when teacher is not their .... same way when u steal some thing u will make sure no one is looking ... if some is looking u will not steal ....

if ur doing something wrong say cheating or some kaam activity .... and u make sure and force ur mind to think dasmesh pita is standing one foot away from u ... force ur eyes to make an image ... once u see him their .... u will not be able to continue ....

like if ur dad is standing near can u even dare watch porn on pc ???? nope ....

if we make our mind that guru sahib is standing here we cant do anything wrong .... and its more a fear ....

its always worked for me .... always dont know bout others ....

[Crazy Baba]

i fink what jassa meant was just imagine guru gobind singh is watching ya 24/ 7 if u think guru is always watching ya you would refrain from doing something wrong.

[Guest peacemaker]

i fink what jassa meant was just imagine guru gobind singh is watching ya 24/ 7 if u think guru is always watching ya you would refrain from doing something wrong.

I think I misunderstood him at first. LOL

[Guest Glasgow Singh]

veera/bhenji u can recite this tuk

Nimakh Kaam Suadh Kaarun, Kot Dinas Dukh Paaveh,

Ghuree Mohut Rang Maneh Phir Bohur Bohur Pachutaavey

IN satisfying your lust for even but a minute, you shall suffer for innumerable days

You may enjoy the moment, but shall after repent/ be very sorrowful...

im very sorry about my translation to english, i find it hard to use english to describe Ilaaheey Baani,,,

[Guest Glasgow Singh]

found it!

inmK kwm suAwd kwrix koit idns duKu pwvih ] GrI muhq rMg mwxih iPir bhuir bhuir pCuqwvih ]1]

nimakh kaam suaadh kaaran kott dhinas dhukh paavehi || gharee muhath ra(n)g maanehi fir bahur bahur pashhuthaavehi ||1||

For a moment of sexual pleasure, you shall suffer in pain for millions of days. For an instant, you may savor pleasure, but afterwards, you shall regret it, again and again. ||1||