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when animals have sex...they dont get married...but we humans do!..so if we had sex before mariage.....what is the difference between us and animals??Plus.....sex b4 mariage is just PURE lust....just LUST..thats all..there is no love.(no matter what u people say).....Sex after mariage is a resposibility*edit* u learn how love them and live with them as Per Gurmat Maryada.....

Dhan Guru Ram dass jee......

beign married does not mean lust is not their , people get married and divorced nowadays what about them ?

Without being married also doesn't mean lust is there. God made everybdy unique.....every case is unique. You cannot generalize something in one ctegory.

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From a psychologist point of view, if one has sex before marriage, your married life could be messed up. The human mind has a tendency of comparing the sense of pleasure when encountered at different instances in life. So that means, if you "enjoyed" sex with "whoever" before marriage, and did not "enjoy" it with your spouse after marriage, you will remain frustrated and look for other "options". If it was the other way round, your married life will be perfect, but then again you have probably been unfair to your spouse (in case he/she didn't have sex before marriage). So it is advised to abstain until one is married.

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Sexual Intercourse before Marriage is Kureit for those who have taken Amrit The Panj Pyare told me this. For those who havent taken Amrit its not. It is recommended that married couple together take Amrit and those who are not married and take Amrit should refrain from this untill they get married.

I would like to make a comment that Mata Sahib Kaur Ji who was chosen by Sahib Guru Gobind Singh Ji to help prepare the Amrit had no kid and she was considered the puriest for this.

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why is sex before marriage not allowed. we all say its not allowed but why?

'cause i's a part of da Sikh Rehat maryada that we nah allowed to have any sexual relations (including kissing n wha not) outside of marriage (which also means BEFORE marriage)...

also, panj pyaray indicate this at the Amrit Sanchaar as well..

so bottom line, i's Guru Sahibs Hukam :)

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Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh,

Sangat Ji, what if one has had sex before marriage, however when committing this sin, had not taken amrit?

Can the individual take amrit without having been to the Panj Pyarae and admiiting they have commited this sin? Or can they proceed to an Amrit Sanchar?

(if that makes any sense at all!)

Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

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waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ka fateh

oh k thanx ppl did even no i had replies 2 this

llol

now i think thats answered all the questions, bt if sm1 has any more questions that might be abit of a touchy subject

then dont hesitate to ask, cause i kow that sme ppl need the answers, so this is 4 them, js rmbr that

it dnt even hv 2 b ur own problem, lyk this wasnt mine

or ne1 elses that i know infact

bt sm ppl need answers, so just ask huna

together we cn find the correct answer n help sm1 in need

indirectly kinda thing huna

thats all lol

waheguru ji ka khalsa, wheguru ji ki fateh!!

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Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh,

Sangat Ji, what if one has had sex before marriage, however when committing this sin, had not taken amrit?

Can the individual take amrit without having been to the Panj Pyarae and admiiting they have commited this sin? Or can they proceed to an Amrit Sanchar?

(if that makes any sense at all!)

Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

no punj peyar never ask any thing about ur life nor its needed .... but if u want that would be better .... and they will keep it as secret ... when u take amrit its ur new birth .... all previous paap and puuns are not ur anymore .... and if ur taking amrit second time u need to tell them ....

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