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    about my sister..

    wjkk wjkf, Im 19 and my sister is 18. my family is quite religious but also quite liberal. My parents and I are amrit dhari but my sister is not, i guess it was to do with sangat, i was blssed with amrit at a young age (15) a few years after my parents were. to cut a long story short, ive become aware of what my sister is like outside the house and it breaks my heart. shes never been religious but she has kept her kesh n doesnt drink or smoke etc but ive recently found out she messes around with gore guys and goes on dates etc. shes in with the wrong sort of crowd, her sangat is kind of unavoidable bc she works full time and her friends are her collegues and she says she loves her job n will never quit I didnt know what to do so i told my parents. (who are very liberal and will pretty much let us do whatever we want )but they dont beleive me, my dad said even if its true, theres nothing he can do about it. they asked her if its true and shes lied straight to their faces without flinching. I'm mostly just really confused right now, i dont know how to feel. ive lost respect for her and cant look at her in the same way, shes not only putting shame on our family but also on the panth by being a kaur but then i also feel if i completely neglect her its like im running away from my responsibility.but i still dont know wat to do. i try to see it from a worldy point of view view and try and tell myself that im overacting and what shes doing is not really that bad compared to everything that happens in the world but that just doesnt sit right with me eaither. she doesnt know that i know this stuff and i cant really tell her coz shell just say something like mind ur own business, and i sometimes feel like it isnt really my business. but what kills me is she can do all these things and lie straight to my parents and she can do it without feeling any guilt what so ever!! i guess shes become so used to it from lying all these years. cant beleive ive been so.gullible tbh. i wouldnt be able live with myself if i was in her shoes. can someone please tell me what to do or how to feel. feeling really lost right now :'(
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