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WJKKWJKF, Sadh sangat ji I need a genuine advice on my personal matter.I have been blessed with a baby boy two months back.My husband has been raised by his mother alone as his parents got seperated during his childhood.Since the first day of my marriage I have observed that my husband due to his parents seperation is not a balanced person.I mean he always favors his mother due to which I have suffered a lot.He never shares any important thing of his life with me,it s always his mum who he confides in which upsets me because I have never seen so much secrets between spouses..anyways I tried to change my husband but I couldnt and now I dont even want to .But now my concern is my child..my husband wants to please his mum by letting my baby stay with her most of the time.Initially he wanted to send my son alongwith his grandmother to India for early years for which I revolted but now he wants his mother to spend more time with my son.he wants me to join my job soon and leave my baby to his mother..I am not very strong person so I cannot revolt and argue everyday.Doing path from Gurbaani is my solution to all the problems.I just want Maharaj ji's kirpa on my son ,I want Maharaj ji to be with my son all the time ,to nurture his mind with good thoughts. Can anyone tell me any shabads or paths from Gurbani which I should do when my baby is with me so that I dont have to worry for anything in the time when he is not with me.I love my child a lot and I want him to be raised as a gentleman.I dont want him to learn anything which is not rational like his father has learned.and above all I want him to love me also,I have been gripped with this sense of insecurity that he will not love me as he will stay with his grandmother for most of the time because his father never loved me in all these years of marriage due to his mother's influence..My husband's only motive remains his mother's importance in the house.I understand the reason behind this but these things have always effected me and my relation with my husband.