I try and visit the gurdwara on a Sunday. Ive found that I just cannot relax and listen to the katha, keertan or path.
when walking in im smelling strong perfum that a non practising sikh girl/woman is wearing then when i look shes dressed like a slapper. Short arms, bright dress! Hair out and a see through chunni And tighest kameez. Why!!?
Then i take my shoes off and after being nuged by others as the gurdwara is full i eventually reach the divan only to see everyone stairing at me like im wearing a pair of knickers on my head! Then eventually when i sit down im cramped between people or someones talking constantly next to me. I just get so frustrated and leave. I see the singhs all in the banaa. Then look across to see the women just dressed like its a fashion show and seeking attention. Its so wrong. And its getting worse. I dont feel like going to the gurdwara anymore. I often go when theres no people as its peaceful and you aint listening to there crap.
Wanted to know are other gursikhs or sikhs finding the same when attending the gurdwara??