I find this intriguing
ਦਾਰਾ ਸੁਖ ਭਇਓ ਦੀਨੁ ਪਗਹੁ ਪਰੀ ਬੇਰੀ ॥੧॥
For the sake of pleasure, you have become subservient to your woman, and now your feet are bound. ||1||
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What message is Guru Tegh Bahadur Sahib ji giving whether to marry or avoid ?