When you are taught to avoid communication with the opposite sex at a young age, believe it or not, it registers, and now years later, it doesn’t help in situations where you might want to get into a relationship. Because we were prohibited to explore our options at a younger age, it becomes much more of a battle when we reach the age of expected marriage.
HOW do our parents expect us to automatically throw all the rules out the window and find ourselves a mate.
I mean how are our parents expecting us to find a significant other when they prohibited communication with them our whole lives. Then leads to the where question: where do they expect us to find them. Now I am not saying that being able to date in high school would have landed me my future husband today, but perhaps it would have narrowed down the search.
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