waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh....
im in a bit of a dilemma. im 26 year old amritdhari kuri and my mom and dad have been talking about my marriage alot now i have completed my studies. we live in an area where there arent a lot of gursikh boys unfortunately so they are having some troubles finding someone.
there is a singh ive seen in sangat who does a lot of sewa and looks to be a good match for me, but i recently found out he is 3.5 years younger than me. he has also completed his studies and acts and looks much older then he is. he and i attend the same gurbani santhaya classes and i have conversed with him. he calls me bhaanji. I have mutual friends (not close to me) with him and i think our life goals align but then i wonder if girl being older is right..i don't know how to approach this subject and with whom i should speak to. i don't know if he is even considering marriage or anything.
i dont find the singh very attractive in terms of facial features (being honest) but he appears to have a beautiful heart. given that im of marriageable age he keeps presenting to me as a potention prospect but i dont know if what im thinking is wrong and if i should pursue this and how please guide me sangat ji.