vaheguroo jee ka khalsa vaheguroo jee kee fateh
personally, i am totally against long engagement!! This period is very sensitive for your mind as you start to think about marriage and about ur partner. ...If it is to long.. u can find urself drowning in the thoughts and bascially thinking to much about marriage - ... having doubts etc. our minds are not pure nor can they be controlled.
i also agree that it is a trend to get engaged young...i dont know why all these people want to get married so badly! hmm am i missing out? seems boring to me hehe.
while wer not married we should be making the most of being free and doing as much bhagtee as we can... Sangato guru naal joro.. janum saful karo. these marriage issues shouldnt be in our minds.. build a healthy uchaa soocha jeevan and only have one goal in life.. to fall in love with guru jis feet.
vaheguroo jee ka khalsa vaheguroo jee kee fateh!!