Lionesswoman

I never said follow white culture. You've seen the op ask if she'd be a good sikh if she left- her question had nothing to do with Sikhi and everything to do with Brown culture. Most asian women I know around my age who are married are unhappy, at being beaten, treated badly, cheated on etc. Theyre too scared to leave their spouse's because they think it would look bad, they spent so much money on the wedding, how will they make it on their own etc. There is No Price you can put on freedom, the Gurus taught us that when they refused to convert, when they stood up for hindus who were not free to practice their beliefs. To live in fear because of a soul who has chosen to treat one badly is choosing to live in fear. Only the OP can decide but she should at least have called the police and dealt with the situation.

What are we in a third world country? If u leave and dont have a job, get benefits till u find one. If you can't afford a flat, rent a room in a shared a shared or house. Your parents sound retarded. Why on earth would any parent ask their own child to stay with a spastic and be beaten up.

My gosh, youd be a bad sikh if u Didnt Leave. Do you really think the Gurus would have taught for a woman to stay with an abusive spouse? Rubbish BROWN CULTURE has nothing to do with practicing Truth.

Stop being so Brown and Leave. I got beaten badly and left my family, and its the best thing I could have done. Life Isnt complicated, we ourselves complicate it.

Yes. But the Guru tells u what's already in our hearts but our ego doesnt want to hear. The cause of us thinking we're seperate is our ego. Who do u think taught Guru Nanak Ji?

Guru Nanaks first teaching was that there is no Hindu or Muslim, and hence no religion. Truth is One, it cannot be confined to a religion, it is All Pervading, the powerhouse of the Universe and the knower of hearts. The Gurus knew this, we all know the Truth really deep down, the answers all lie within us, where else did Guru ji get them from if not from God within. The Guru taught us to treat others with respect and to respect the freedom of humans to practice what belief they choose. But they glorified Truth, hence when they saw someone adding rubbish to it, they called it out. When they did many listened to their own hearts(God) and knew it was the Truth.

Lol, definitely do NOT go to Marbella or Ibiza. Lol. Marbella was so beautiful but turned to hell on earth in the evening! But then i went with a bunch of chavvy Indians (who have alot of Money and good jobs but still chavvy) so I deserved it. Bad sangat. I was the only one who didn't drink or act like a tramp.

Wish I could draw some of things ive seen! If people only knew what kind of horrors lie in the afterlife, they'd think twice about sinning! I had an experience once kind of similar to the drawing where two people, a man and a woman were throwing kids down a tunnel leading to hell. I knew if I was thrown down, I would die. My turn came, although I was around 17yrs old and i was so scared and screamed for help. And basically I was saved by a good soul.

Awesome post The mind is the ego- the identity and is home of the five thieves. Silence the mind and they are also silenced, a Silent mind is a Free mind. Look at this site www.satnaam.info, read the writings section from the menu, don't worry about the teacher or the group on there, just read the writings, it explains everything beautifully.

Is this a hell realm?

Look at this site: Www.satnaam.info Don't worry about the teacher or groups on there, read the 'writings' section from the menu and the breakdown of the gyan of Gurbani, it is the best out there.

Hi, you Did meet Guru Ji, believe that 100%. I had a dream about Guru Nanak Ji a few years ago, and I've never been the same since. We humans waste time loving and hating each other when the real lesson is to Detach and love Truth. Rid yourself of worldly attachments and maya, it's all just procrastination from finding Balance/ Truth. Make an account on here and PM me.

Hi I'm not sure. However, I've been thinking for a while that someone should open a gurdwarra in Central London. There are Gurdwarras around central London but not actually In central London. Or one in Canary Wharf would be good aswell. Somewhere that City workers can go to meditate and do paath on the morning, lunchbreaks, evenings etc. Does anyone else have any thoughts on this?

? Intent means everything, going to the gurdwarra knowing youre going to get drunk in the eve is bad. But then your body's Gods temple aswell.

And your definition of a Sikh? Is it brown people who get married in the gurdwarra in the morning and binge drink in the evening at the reception?

Wow. Racist.

God Is All- He came to Guruji in humility asking for help and it was granted. Langar was served to all castes and creeds, to sinners and saints. Sajaan Thug became a Bhagat of the Guru. Everyone's a potential Bhagat and everyone's learning as he wills them to learn. Sikhs need to practice a more advanced psychology. He is All, God is One, and theres no Hindu and no Muslim.

Admin take this picture down immediately. What a disgusting thing to do. Sick of fake Sikhs acting like theyre good souls. Our Gurus gave their lives to save the lives of hindus and you do this. Such Ego when a real Sikh Lays his ego down and commits himself to being a slave of the universe. Even a single word of Nindya is a Huge Crime in His Court, yet you indulge in it like its your favourite past time.

Hi I am in a similar situation myself, similar age and I've found it difficult to find the right guy, mainly because of morals. AIso, I went through a few periods in my life with family etc which made me lose my self confidence and I became basically the opposite of how I used to be. Get your confidence and self belief back, we are Sikhnis of the Guru, there's no time or need to be shy in this world, love and respect yourself, you're great as you are. Try and read the book, the Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine N Aaron, I've just started reading it. I bet you're kind hearted and a good soul, and people like that are rare in this world. Find a guy who is worthy of you. If you're looking for a guy with morals, try and find a man who is spiritual and who holds morals dear to his heart. I've learned that it doesn't matter how desirable a guy may seem to women, if he doesn't strive to be a good person and treat a woman with respect, the rest doesn't matter, don't settle for a bad soul. And don't give up, I know women in their late 30's and early 40's who are looking so you're not old in comparison. While you're looking, discover yourself, we come alone and we go alone so try and be innately independant and focus on your own life before you marry. Feel free to make an account and PM me on here if you need to talk.

Do naam Simran from 12:30/1am onwards, it's a really powerful time to do it. When you read paath, understand it, read a translation if needed, and apply it in action to your life. Don't lie, not even white lies, practice good deeds-do bandgi. Mediatatmeditate on the meanings of Gurbani, Japji Sahib Ji is beautiful, it mool mantar is really all that's needed- Gurbani is an extension of mool mantar. Japji Sahib tells of different beings, of different khandhs, of what's needed to be a good soul. God bless you

Read the paath, understand it, read translations if needed- and apply it to your daily life. That's what Gurbani is for, it's to Apply and to be practiced in action, as the Gurus did. God hears every prayer we make, he doesn't always answer them because everything is karam, and all is for our betterment. But if you do Ardas with a pure heart and its in line with Truth, it may be Don't worry about anyone else, no curse or threat can affect someone who practices Truth, practice it and you'll be fine.

To do this, detach from the Maya of the khel, from the five thieves and to teach others out of it is divinity. The Gurus wanted us to become Sants and brahmgyanis, to share our experiences with the world and to teach the world out of darkness. The Gurus are the greatest examples of this, this is true love, the sharing of Truth with another, as God has done for us.

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Good post I would add that a part of not holding a grudge is having compassion for the fools, because they know not what they do, that's why they're fools. And to pray for them to learn the errors of their ways. That's what we can do for our slanderers and those that cause or wish us harm. Also, a Bhagat doesn't Need protection. Yes the Bhagat can pray for help. But God is everyone, everything, everywhere. If we practice this psychology, who is there to get protection from for All is Him. Chaupai Sahib Ji prayers should be made with the knowledge of this. Bhagats and Gurus have sat on hot plates, been tortured and killed with this knowledge, in acceptance of shaheedi, for it was all Maharaj Ji.

Keep going, don't let anyone stop or shake your faith. My whole family turned against me when I started Naam Simran and bandgi. They all tried so hard to stop me from doing it, so much so that It got to a stage where I made a choice, either I stick with Truth or I drown in their bulls*ht. Bhagat Prahlaad Jis own father tried to kill him on many occasions and each time he was unsuccessful, God eventually sent Narsingh to tear him apart. Your family is just your karam, all is karam- don't let the khel fool you and don't let anyone stop you from believing in Truth.