Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh
Please someone shed light on the following situation:
I understand that waheguru ji is everywhere.
This is what I feel: when I go to gurughar to do ardas, most of the times my ardas is accepted and when I do from home, sometimes ardas is not accepted.
This makes me believe that i need to go to gurughar to do ardas in order to fullfill the ardas wishes.
Now, here the problen is, I do regular path and ardas at home and when something is important, i do ardas at home and go to gurudwara sahib to do the ardas and if i don't do that i feel something bad will happen and my wish will not be fullfilled.
Sometimes the list gets so big, i had to write it on a piece of paper and look at the paper while doing ardas at gurughar.
Sometimes I get frustrated because sometimes there is hukumnama, sometimes ardas happening, sometimes sukhasan, sometimes there is a big crowd (lineup) that I can't peacefully stand and do ardas and wait until everything is over.
Also, i think if I do full ardass (means like the way the pathi sahib do), that's the only way fullfill my wishes. I think if I don't do full ardas and simply request for my wishes to be fullfilled (point to point talk without full ardas), waheguru will not listen and won't grant me those wishes.
This all is driving me crazy with frustration and mental peace.
is it real that only ardas has to be done at gurughar to be fullfilled or it can be done anywhere anytime?
Kindly advise what should I do and please guide me to the right path.