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Everything posted by Jacfsing2

  1. You could've used the P.M. system instead of making this awkward for everyone who would be reading this.
  2. No. But I know exactly where you should. The doctors office. 😏 He'll probably give better tips, on controlling that. And you will hopefully be better.
  3. The Anti-Islam groups are probably more rational in that aspect than we are, our people have become too soft, that the idea of Sikhs being the best isn't being what Gurdwaras bring-up anymore. We have also lost the ideas of exposing,(as in revealing), our faith to the potential of truth, and to expose everything elae to the potential of falsehood. You can read the entire Quran and not feel spiritual at all, while reading even one line from even Bhai Gurdas Vaaran, will give you more spiritual knowledge than the entire Qur'an, (not even Guru Sahib, Sarbloh Granth, or Dasam Granth, even though they are greater). If someone wants to read some good fantasy a good source of fictional entertainment, than I'd recommend the Qur'an and other religions books, because what I've learned about other religions books is it's all Sakhis and no heart. (Some of their works are so legendary that even the most popular books do not compare, and some of their stories are so influential that people actually live out the fantasies involved in the religion).
  4. This is true to an extent; however, someone who's carnivorous and doesn't bother to build muscle will be fat, and those who eat only vegetables or even vegans will not build muscle as fast, (but it's more effective than not working out and eating meat). That out of the way we should do whatever we can to preserve Jhatka wherever Sikhs are, or else this Anti-meat groups will be causing our own political collapse, when you compare it to Halal.
  5. Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh! I made this thread as a way to give my own personal tips on how someone can limit the influences of massive increase in Kaam, these being pornography and masturbation, (Note: not doing these 2 does NOT mean you beat Kaam, but that's where the problem is started.) This is also the male version of the problems, I don't know the causes of females going towards these things, so I won't discuss too much on it, but; hopefully I can assist them as well. Also I'm not an expert on any of this stuff, just felt the need since it's a big topic to provide legit assistance. I will be adding more on, the first post is just intro. Some important things to note: 1. Why does someone have Kaam? Since the beginning of time, you have been carrying the power of Haumai, and from Haumai comes the 5 evils, one of these being Kaam and Kaam especially effects us, because of we have usually wanted to stay productive with reproduction and so in possibly many animal lives, we've been having sex like crazy people, these traits carried on till we became human, (which in a way tells us why some people have crazy fetishes). 2. Is Masturbation and Pornography related? My experience on this has been that they are only slightly related, but the reasons for them are different. Porn acts as a depresent; which means it's meant to take something from you; while masturbation happens due to circumstance-based. You can do both exclusively, but due to the nature of porn both usually go together. 3. Is there hope? This is the good news, and something we can be grateful for. That is the blessing of the greatest Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Nanak Dev Ji holding our hands and freeing us from all our past deeds, and gives our life true meaning instead of being Ghulamis to our own problems. The greatness of being a Sikh can not be comprehended into normal thoughts or words, and even Kaam himself surrenders at the name of the blessed Guru. This is just a tiny intro on the basis of the issue, I plan to delve further into it, what my experience has been, why it's not going to be easy, and why there is hope for anyone if there can be hope for someone like me.
  6. Vengeance is something happened to you, so you are going to do something in return to get back at them. But when the time comes for punishment, you run like a coward. Revenge is a form of Krodh Justice is when something is happening to you, and instead of you getting something from them to get your satisfaction, you will use the least amount of punishment to achieve that justice. But when the time comes, you accept your punishment and not try running away because you believe it was right. Justice is a form of Dharam/Himmat. Examples include: Revenge: Someone kills your son, you kill their son and them, maybe entire massacres, and you try running away when someone wants to give you a punishment. Justice: Someone kills your son, you bring justice by only killing that individual who killed yourself. And when someone gives you a form of punishment you accept it and will be ready for the consequences. You can only stand-up for justice if you feel like you can accept the consequences, otherwise it's badla.
  7. I actually agree with Nanak Naam on this one. You can only really retaliate if you have an opportunity to retaliate, (example is right in front of you), if you don't have that opportunity it's not wise to be going in looking for a fight, but when it comes to you, you must defend what is right. But the whole everything has a reason idea will be our downfall, this is an idea not included in any major religion, but rather people wanting to believe there is a reason.
  8. Some more tips: Know what makes you want to masturbate or what the conditions are for you to watch porn: usually this is boredom or loneliness, or some stress going on and no way to relieve it, (these are usually what they are for others it may be different) When you relapse, don't feel guilty, just get back-up and pretend like it never happened; do you paht and maybe listen to some kirtan, (DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE ALLOW YOURSELF TO IGNORE WHAT GURU SAHIB HAS SAID!) Know who produces pornography, these are usually some Non-Sikhs known as Jews who would love to see the world be their Ghulami. Understand why they produce porn, and that is to weaken Non-Jews from the power. Another group is the illumaniti, and their goal is to unite humanity under Paap, (they have other mediums as well). Remember what makes you happy outside of porn and masturbation. Once everyone was a kid, and before we even heard of masturbation or porn, we had other routes to deal with boredom and stress, try to deal with stress with other routes and accept that boredom will be a part of life and just another experience you should realize. (What I will say next will be a little unlike my normal posts), don't try to see yourself beneath anything, (except Guru Sahib that is), until you have mentally been strong enough, (so forget all that humility except if your doing Seva or helping someone, just until the effects go away). If someone could actually masturbate that much, I wouldn't be saying don't masturbate, I'd be telling them to go to the doctor and let them understand why that guy produces so much sperm. Also I'd expect you have some mental problem if you end-up like this guy: http://superofficialnews.com/argentinian-man-masturbates-83-times-24-hour-period-new-world-record/ " 'Growing up he would never leave his room,' Lopez’s mom Evita told reporters. 'He would just stay in his room and masturbate. We knew one day all that practice would pay off for him. Hugo has made all his friends and family so proud.' " I know comparing myself to this extremely low standard is not me, but I don't think I could ever just masturbate. 😒 (Whenever I want to make myself look good, I will just comment about how there is someone worser than me, forgetting what identity they have).
  9. Lions don't castrate themselves, I know this was meant to be funny, but it is better for a lion to masturbate a million times daily, than to accept such Ghulami made by sheep and dogs. (If anyone doesn't get the lion reference it's because Singhs are lions).
  10. I may post more tomorrow. Kaam master? 😢, I am nowhere near winning, as long as I'm not Jeevan Mukt, that is. I'll be glad if this fight ends in this lifetime, my only goal is to assist people,(and myself through my own research and experience), not take them for some victory.
  11. Life probably was happier for you, but the problem is you are taking this guy as a result of Amrit, when they are both seperate things. Life is very precious, and if you were to end it, how would it affect your loved ones? Amrit is not a chance to free yourselves fron your problems what it is, is that Guru Sahib will hold your hand with your problems. Have you tried talking to a counselor or a close friend or family member to discuss your problems? I don't like the whole, "You only live once", but this is the only chance you have to have all your memories and everyone dear to you. Don't give-up life on something because one person did something.
  12. This sakhi doesn't really add-up if you ask me. Many great Gursikh writers did mention this exact incident, Bhai Vir Singh, Bhai Satbir Singh, and Mehima Prakash, (original). Why this story doesn't add-up is because when Amar Das, (Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Amar Das Ji), went to Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Angad Dev Ji he would've been in extreme depression, due to having no Guru and he was desperate to find one, when you are trying to find the truth, meat is the least of your worries. So even if meat was served, there would've been no reason for Guru Sahib to have accommodated a person, (Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Amar Das Ji is beyond human, but for mortal explanations I had to use that word). Once when a Muslim came to Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Hargobind Ji the established rule was no one was allowed to wear a face covering, so she had to take it off.
  13. Vaheguru, honesty is very strong.
  14. I read exactly what she said, and she said "now", she lives in Rehat and doesn't commit Bhujer Kurehits. If she didn't say that word, I would have less doubts on what she wrote. Also the message I'm trying to get across isn't going for Pesh, rather to stop feeling suicidal. A Sikh life is not one that comes easily, it comes through lots of high karma, (even legendary karma is not equal to the blessing of knowing Guru Sahib), and Gur-prassad. Death should be something we are always prepared for, and ready to die is something we should do, but ending your life like she claims here is not healthy nor respected.
  15. This is why we need to save the world, no more of these lies that are liars are repeating so much that Non-Sikhs can go to Sach Khand. When even great Pracharks are making these lies, who's going to take us seriously? Punjab won't be taken seriously until Sikhs stsrt removing Ghulami thoughts on not exposing Pakhandi Babas on a mass scale. The world is currently being saved from Abrahamic influences because of New-Age Atheist movements, and we are here many of us trying to defend the false religions from being exposed. The religions of Christianity and Islam and Judaism are all false, and once we pump that-up we can free so much of society.
  16. If Sikhs are going to have a country in this day and age, they need more than just numbers, we need to think global. An example is Jews, they have a smaller population than us and own almost the entire West, (though they have some advantages that we don't have or could imagine of having in terms of brainwashing, I won't mention this brainwashing thing because we all know who he is and that he's a Pakhandi Baba, if I mention his name we get the "all religions are equal", group coming to defend him). Also these forced conversions, why would they be Shaheed for Sikhi if they didn't really believe it?
  17. I'm not going to start by saying all that SJW weak stuff that people usually say, like, "Oh, don't worry it's not your fault, it's his fault, nothing wrong with you,", (Someone will probably say that to you, and let me say it's plain useless). But what I will say is despite your short-comings, Vaheguru won't judge you, if you feel you were wronged, that's up to Vaheguru to decide. But yes, if you did any of the 4 Kurehits you'd have to pesh. And you seem like the only reason you didn't say no was because you were shy and that's not an excuse. These 4 are in no particular order and intentionally: 1. Kesh-Di-Beadbi 2. Eating NON-Jhatka meat, (no one make the useless argument right now) 3. Intoxicants 4. Carnal Sexual relations outside marriage, (and no one argue what this means either). Understand that the Punj Pyare can forgive you, and that Guru Sahib can take your hand back, there's no need to give your life for something like this, dedicate your life for Seva is a better alternative, you'll help so many people. Feeling suicidal is not a I'm not feeling super elated chardi-kala, it's a much more extreme emotion, it's a I'm going to finish my life right now, unless some miracle happens, type of emotion. Suicidal to depression to like comparing a human to a monkey, they both are primates, the both have brains, they both have 2 legs and 2 arms, but ONE is the command of the other, (humans own monkeys, and monkeys don't own humans).
  18. No, don't worry about that, but if your nose itchy there are some solutions for that, I don't have any recommendations for how you can control that, (hopefully someone does), but no need for Pesh.
  19. Don't agree with Admins reasoning for this reason. The reason people cut their their nails is more complex than the reason for Kesh cutting. The only reason someone would cut Kesh is for appearance reasons; while nails are cut for actually maintaining order, also cut your hair and it was not only grow again, but age as well, while your nails will not age, (it's the only part to not age).
  20. Banda Singh Bahadur wasn't Hindu, (unless you believe Sikhs are Hindus like the Indian constitution claims). There were more Ksychatrias and Brahmin Sikhs percentage-wise then there is now, because of Banda Singh Bahadur taking the time to free those inside Punjab from their faiths. Also if he was so interested in saving people's souls like you claim, why did Sri Mata Sundri Ji not support him? Or Baba Deep Singh Ji for that matter? After all that, the Bandai Khalsas were formed and revered Banda Singh Bahadur, with Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji not given enough importance. If people did convert to Sikhi it wasn't because some king living in the jungles of Punjab, (because that's exactly where he lived, not out in the open), it would be because the Sikhs especially within Punjab did heavy Prachar. As great as his kingdom was, it was mostly skirmishes with the Mughals with only one real battle, (Sirhind/Fatehgarh Sahib).
  21. Comparing physical and mental health is totally different, also not everyone can do that stuff you mentioned for physical reasons, (disabilities and health conditions), so telling them to fight wouldn't be the best start for their fitness. Stretching is more open and you don't really need an instructor or equipment, and if you have one of the physical deficiencies, (apologize for word, not wanting to offend anyone who may have those), then yoga seems relatively accessible. Even though in the above response I mentioned that some people need yoga, I'm going to say that yoga as a whole has become very Hinduized, even the atheists and christians make it a Hindu activity with idols and the AUM symbol, (AUM, not Om, as in the Trimurti, Brahma, Shiva and Vishnu). In the diaspora we should call it stretching, (cause nobody wants to call it yoga, after the whole crazy gora yoga/indian fetish people).
  22. They would have done it anyway, these Muslims go around being barbaric to their own people, what do you expect for them to do those who aren't Muslim. Don't be some SJW Muslim "human-rights" believer. (I know you hopefully aren't, but we got some of those in our diaspora like crazy, even hardcore liberal Sikhs in India wouldn't be SJW Muslim defenders like some of those in the diaspora). Even the light of God, (Guru Sahib), said not to trust the oaths a Muslim makes from the Qur'an/Koran. If even someone like him says stuff like that, what hope is there for us not fully enlightened?
  23. If this is true, why was Punjab majority Muslim and not Sikh, afterwards of the end of his kingdom? Even during the Misl period and Sikh empire period it was Islam that was the majority religion in the empire. Also didn't he get badla from the great being of the light of guru sahib, when he brought Hind Di Chadar's: (Savior of Hind, won't go debating the meaning of Hind), so why would he be having the time to go around saving people's souls, (he despite being a king was living in jungles)? Is there any legit source of this from Sikh sources or even Punjabi CONTEMPORARY sources? (Also if you claim Bulleh Shah, he never said anything bad about the Sikh empire, or Guru Sahib, so he doesn't count, the only one's who claim it was him was radical islamic fundementalists. When we all know he wasn't one of those.)