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  1. Keep your nastik views to yourself. You don't know the power of paath/ardas. Who says paath is good? Paath is not some average solution that is not necessary. Gurbani says ardas/paath is my only strength.
  2. Do you have any elders in your family, group of friends, relatives who you can speak too? if you can't find someone in your circle, then contact Sikh helpline or some other trusted agency.
  3. Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji was not a spiritual leader. He is the only leader of this universe in every aspect. Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji is Vaheguru himself and the Guru. The power that made Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji who he is and why he did things in a certain way was because he was the divine and he had divine reasons. Karl Marx did not believe in a higher being. He said religion was only there to give false hope to the oppressed. Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji said religion is the only thing that matters. Religion, Sikhi, is your breath of life and without it, you are dead. Such harsh words from Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji for the atheist and harsh words from Karl Marx for the religionist, puts them at odds. The base of Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji's teachings is Vaheguru, to believe, worship, love, devote, sacrifice yourself for Vaheguru. Karl Marx denies the existence of Vaheguru. Does not the reason behind why both did what they did matter? Any person who studies philosophy and religion know the reason behind the act is the most important component and the act is a product of the reason. Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji spoke against the caste system because people were being denied equal right to religion and resulted in not merging with Vaheguru. Bhagat Namdev ji was thrown out of a mandir. Lower caste and women could not enter religious institutions. Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji taught Sikhi so every human being knowns he can merge into Vaheguru by following the Guru's teachings. The product was getting rid of the caste system. Now look at the other side. Karl Marx saw people suffering and wanted them to be treated fairly. Go back to the original point, living is only worth while if Sikhi is your breath of life. If Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji was about bringing equal rights and discard the old social systems as Karl Marx. Then he, Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji, might as well created a perfect universe from the beginning, where no one suffers and there is an abundance of wealth for everyone to have and use. The powers of Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji are limitless and can change this world in a split second. Any person who tries to view Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji from a human being perspective has not read Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji's writing. They have superficially gone through Gurbani and have been biased against Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji. If all humans are equal, how would a person like this ignorant child explain, Satguru Nanak is the greatest, who has saved me? How can there be a greatest, when all humans are equal? His simple logic is lacking any depth of Gurbani or understanding of Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji's teachings. Ignorance breeds ignorance, wealth has never been a problem in Sikhi. The attachment to wealth is described by the Gurus as the problem. Wealth in Punjabi is not called maya. Maya is the things that take a person away from Vaheguru, which means this instragrams users ignorant thoughts are maya because they take him away from Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji true teachings. He better spend all his ignorant thoughts on his atheist teachers because that is the only way, he will see the true wealth of Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji's teachings. Wealth necessarily does not take away a person from Vaheguru. Next remark by him is the ultimate half retard moment of his life. Capitalist system does not create mayadharis and neither is mayadhari the same as capitalist system. If it did, Bhagat Ravidas ji would have been lost in his sales of dead animal skin and his Bani would not be in Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji. The Gurus used the capitalist system. They owned land, their own houses and other material goods. Again it's the reason why a person own these things through any system. Through the capitalist system, Sri Guru Gobind Singh Sahib ji acquired a lot of wealth to fight battles. A lot of Sikhs donated, but where did you think these Sikhs obtained the goods given to Sri Guru Gobind Singh Sahib ji? The goods didn't fall out of the sky or magically appear after saying Karl Marx the atheist three times. The Sikhs worked hard and acquired the wealth. He goes on further on the topic of honest living and again he takes the wrong approach by not exploring the reason why Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji said to make an honest living and share what you have with others.
  4. Let's take your class difference for a test run. The Punjabis who came in the 50s, 60s, 70, and 80s have children who were raised here in the west. Their lives are primary based on western culture. Their parents have become wealthy. They were raised with Punjabi culture at home, but that was pushed aside because an average child and youth spend 80% of their time around western institutions and around western people. From their teachers, classmates, coworkers, and bosses their interaction is with western people. These youth were educated in the west and now these educated people are giving their body away for one drinks at the bar, club, house party. They are very much part of the drug culture, yet around their parents they behave as bibaa putts. The western education they value and you value as the be all and end all, has not provided them with the mental ability to not take drugs, alcohol and then lay with a random guy after ditching their boyfriend at the bar. The Sikh way of living is unique and eastern values have some similar values when it comes to marriage and how guys and girls should behave. Yet in a different thread you said sexual intercourse has some spiritual experience. This is your brainwashed western thinking.
  5. You will not find any answers to your questions here.what you will find is "normal" advice. Your mind is going to be filled with a lot of dirt from this forum. You kept your hair again. Now work on the internal issues by Gurbani. No advice here will help you. They will judge you and set you on the wrong way and the result will be more depression. A lot of the "normal" people dont deal with depression as often as others and in your case. They are blinded by worldy attachments that will drag them into hell. When they do deal with episodes of depression, they cover it up by taking a worldly ways out. The worldly garbage keeps them "stable" and they live a so called balanced life of secular and religious ways. They can't help you understand what you need to do is lift yourself out of a hole you are in. Currently you feel good but it may not last long till you are facing depression again and its very hard to focus on Gurbani. You're in a vicious cycle of ups and downs at this time and life is hell. There is only one way out of it. Through Gurbani, read listen contemplate and stay in sangat who have a desire to be with Gurbani, actually live the teachings. In this way you won't be bothered by bad thoughts. Sleep with Gurbani playing as well. This will clean your subconscious of filth. Gurbani will strengthen your mind and worldly garbage will not flood your mind with trash. You need true inner strength of faith, love, compassion, contentment, and self worth. These blessings from the Guru will make your mind tough. No one here can give you these things. Listen to the teachings of sri guru granth sahib ji.
  6. The literal meaning of the shabd was explained to you and the man in the literal meaning is the Guru as the lines before defined Guru Sahib as the one who satisfies. And the person is the woman, which would be you in the literal meaning. Do you not know how to read Gurbani? You and rest of the lot want to leave the parents because you want to leave the parents. Majority of the time is because the wife wants to have alone time all over the house with the husband. Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji did not leave because he wanted to leave the parents. Guru Sahib went on udasis to teach and created new Sikh places to teach out of. Completely different and they can't even be compared in anyway.
  7. Traditional values are modern values by Sikhi standards, which make a person modern. The values (people) you are calling modern are actually backward because they have no respect for parents. How independent was your decision to lower Gurbani to your animal instincts in the other thread and then to mistranslate Gurbani? For a fact you were influenced by your so called modern values to disrespect Gurbani. It takes balls to stand up for Gurbani and for the parents who raised you. Any brainless child can leave their parents behind and society is full of such people. Short sighted thinking and two seconds of satisfactions has got you in the mess of mistranslating Gurbani to support your lustful act.
  8. You have brought forward no new or alternative view at all. Parents who migrated to the west see what the girls of Punjabi families are up to in the west. They know of their fake han ji han ji attitude. So they say, hell with these promiscuous women, better to search in india. Tell me this, why does a Sikh woman wear a dastar on her head when she is going to wear a skirt? Was it a cover one and reveal the other sale or something? Selfish brats is what Punjabi women grown up in the west are. They don't care for anything other than their selfish animal instincts. Then you have the girls going around saying everyone is my brother and meeting these brothers with big hugs. Rainsabai kirtan sessions have at least 2 to 3 of these type hanging around....they be checking out the merchandise with the fat pockets. Few weeks later she is breaking up with one of her brothers to date another one and its the talk of the rainsabai kirtan. Then there are the ones saying every boy is just a friend. It's similar as the brother scenario, but this time their is more friends in an interval. I have to ask again, what the hell is the point of wearing a dastar or covering your head in a different manner and the Sikh woman breast are almost hanging out? I am waiting for the selfish attitude......how does it go again....its my body I can do what I want with it. Just the other day a soft spoken Punjabi girl from the west was saying how she would marrying a guy only if the guy's parents will not be living with them. This the affirmative action taking woman every man wants, kick those no good parents out for raising you and giving you a roof and paying for your education. And keep the brat in the house. I'd rather put a gun to my head and take the easy way out. Have you ever read Kalki Avatar, if not, I really recommend you do and pay close attention to when Guru Sahib says the roles have changed, which means the world has a backward mentality. Or as a western women disregard Guru Sahib's reality and stick to your view........how does that go again....... Western girls can never cover their tracks on social dating sites. There double shifting parents are always on the new and latest dating sites spying. They be making those dating apps for their young daughters to lose their self respect on. Get real, one click and in a hour I will find at least 5 Punjabi women looking to hook up on social media. And give it couple more hours and there will be a dastar wearing one as well. Western Punjabi women have changed their values. They find it acceptable to date, have boyfriends, have a fling with no strings attached. They want to be experienced in this aspect of life before they find the right guy to choke to death with their messy past. Then lastly, there are a few punjabi women born in the west and they don't act or behave like western women. This is because they don't hold to western values and value eastern values. They rather have the guys parents living with them. They don't mind taking care of the children, doing house choirs and being a part of the family unit. They don't have the selfish behaviour as the western punjabi women. They don't see the benefit of hugging random guys and calling them brothers, only to date them later. They value the Gurus advice or have a moral compass telling them it is wrong. Their demeanor is very different from western women. These are the western punjabi girls a guy should be looking to marry. Everyone else should be on a 10 feet radius and stick a pole out so she can't get near you status.
  9. Sant ji used the word bibi to answer whether women can do certain seva. In that video sant ji says bibi can't do punj pyare seva but let us know if they are being stopped from doing any other seva as they are allowed. Present the video you are refering too.
  10. Aaawwww you guys are so cutie. You have sympathy for the white woman even though she harassed and assaulted a punjabi woman. Not one of you mention how the pu jabi woman was assaulted. Yet in the past you guys attacked and/or stood by while neo called singhs khaliban all because the Singhs were standing up against Gurbani beadbi. Disgraceful people.
  11. I clearly wrote why i stated what you quoted of my post after a member mistook what i wrote. And you still ignore what i wrote and go on a rant. You have been around feminist too long. Your testosterone has been over taken by estrogen. You are the very definition of a social justice warrior. Harsharan wanted to created a popularity contest and again hes on a mental break. Don't go down his road. He gained nothing from it and neither will you.
  12. Your animated outrage is comical. Relax and read it again. Punjabi sikhs were being targeted on this site and called terrorist for favoring singhs who punished people for committing beadbi. As i said in my first post this is the perspective i wrote my post. And now i am calling for suggestions from the original people who called singhs terrorist, names for the white sikhs. Obviously neo won't ever make a name for the white sikhs because he is biased and hates his own brown Skin.
  13. This video shows a true picture of white sikhs. Many punjabis have a romanticized view of how pure white sikhs are; they don't harm anyone. But this clearly shows how aggressive (the white sikh pushes and hits the punjabi lady) they are and now its time for us to invent a name for them as their romanticized punjabi brothers did to Singhs who stood up against Gurbani beadbi. Any suggestions??
  14. Do you remember the last time you tried this game and how it ended with you screaming and throwing a fit. Save yourself the embarrassment and stop using Gurbani as a tool to indulge in your heterosexual lustful act. Since you started, I have to deliver you the message, otherwise some may take your seriously and believe what you said. Poster singhbj singh wants to mistranslate Gurbani for his lustful acts, but lets see what role poster singhbj singh will be playing in this act, which singhbj is begging for. Throughout Gurbani, Vaheguru is the man and the person trying to reach him is the bride. Vaheguru ravishes the bride, this concept comes many times in Gurbani. By ravish, it means to take over the mind and instill Gurmat values in the person. Yet poster singhbj singh wants to take the Gurbani line in a different direction. I directly asked him, how he suppresses his heterosexual tendencies and he responds by quoting the above Gurbani line. He wants to say Gurbani is being literal between him and a woman. Poster singhbj singh wants to interpret as he is the ravisher in this case. This can't be further from the truth because the Shabad starts by saying the Guru gave the satisfication to the women(soul). In this shabad, if we were to take singhbj singh mistranslation, The Guru is the man and the woman is him, poster singhbj singh. So how heterosexual do you feel right now there, Mr. singhbj singh??? Is your face getting flush with blood. Feeling a little awkward maybe bent out of shape!!! I will stop here because I don't want to get too graphic. And don't try to back track, I asked you a direct question, What will help you suppress your heterosexual tendencies? This explicitly asked how do you get rid of lust. And you shamlessly provided the above Gurbani line out of context. You may have thought distorting Gurbani was a fun way to have a laugh, but when you leave this earth, the Singhs will make sure to teach you a lesson of who is the man and woman.
  15. Why don't you answer poster Preet's question. Just in case you skipped over her question here it is: Was the bold supposed to be a question from the Sikh? Since the period confused me.