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  1. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji I don't represent Sikhi though Singh ji. I represent my opinions, and I changed my views regarding a lot of stuff from the past. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  2. love

    Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji You do not have to marry him, just be friends with him. Whats wrong with just being friends with a good person..? I read that you have kids, do keep that in mind because your decision will change their bhavishia. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  3. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji If our own Sri Guru Sahib ji said Buddha is an avatar of Sri Vishnu ji then what is your problem with that. Go read why bodhi dharm was even made in the Sri Dasam Granth Sahib ji. Don't say anything you will regret Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  4. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji I think it's one thing to be paid to run a Sri Gurdwara Sahib ji at majburis if there are no sevaks (reading paath/kirtan etc), but to go out and do parchar and try to spread the dharmic message of paath for money seems to be different to me. Like would they give us gyan if they were not paid? Anyways, I apologize. bhull chuk maaf kijye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  5. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji The mentioning of "Without that paath, an average person...", was not directed at you Singh ji. It can be a solution, my friend. For example, there have been people who have been healed physically and mentally with sri gurbani sahib ji without medicine. Look at the chamatkars that happen at Sri Harimandir Sahib ji, my friend everything is in Sri Guru Sahib ji's hands. The 1st step is sri ardas sahib ji, and then afterwards they are directed to do whatever next. People can keep trying to do something, but it all comes down to their luck, and luck is only here for sikhs when we live by gurmat. If I have offended you, I sincerely apologize. bhull chuk maaf kijye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  6. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji But with Sri Ardas Sahib ji we are guided to do what is best. Without that paath, an average person can carry on doing wrong without guidance. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  7. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji From my memory of reading Sri Chaubis Avtaar, Buddha ji was an avatar of him that was here to make people go offtrack because royal people were abusing riddhi siddhis through hinduism. Or of course, if you'd like to know more about it you can read it yourself without assuming things, Singh ji. Go to buddhist mandirs, they have images of devtas everywhere. Sri Indra, Sri Brahma, Sri Ganesh, Sri Mahadev, Sri Saraswati, Sri Uma Devi, Sri Devi are all known to them. Just look at this video of a jagrata they have in their own culture: Those countries do believe in hinduism, they are actually believing in hindu traditions while being buddhist such as MURTI POOJA which is an hindu custom. They have jattheras for their ANCESTORS just as hindus do. They have versions of ramayan in their languages that they used to read. bhul chuk maaf kijye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  8. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji Veer ji, these stories were told orally to me. If someone lives off of donations of sangat, then whatever pains the sangat has is transferred to the person who live's off their work. Even in my Sri Gurdwara Sahib ji, they tell everyone who is rich or poor that 'lohr matavic langar shako' (aka do not always live off of donations). Parchar is something that needs to be done for free, rather than for money. Look at all these people who use sikhi as a way to make money, buying 1st class plane tickets to travel etc. It would save us from people who do Parchar and literally say anything just because they will receive $$$ afterwards. Now people are having paathi sahib jis doing paath at their house for money as well, if the reciter's motive is to achieve money and not actually do paath for free then what energy are they really spreading while doing paath? Energy matters, even when making sri karah prasad we are told to try to keep the most positive energy while preparing it. These are just my views, all are free to believe in what they want, but as per that saakhi I would rather live a simple life and earn little money, rather than making money off of sri guru sahib ji's sikhya which is free for all. Free for all.. Sri Gurbani Sahib ji is not invented by us, why should we sell it in the name of dharma. I think people who do stuff as hobbies have true prem, because they are doing it for the love of it, rather than the ones who have $$$ on their mind. bhull chuk maaf kijye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  9. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji
  10. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji Singh ji, because of the Gurmukhs who read paath and do sri Ardas sahib ji.. In Sri Ardas Sahib ji they all ask for the well being of Khalsa. I believe in them. bhul chuk maaf kijye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  11. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji! But Buddha was an avatar of him..? In Chaubis avatar I think it does mention him as an avatar oh him! Read about what it is said regarding him in the Sri Dasam Granth Sahib ji. Sikhism is not going the same way, how can you even say that. bhul chuk maaf kijye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  12. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji Kaur Bhenji, I understand what you are saying. I have friends who are from Andhra and they tell me that they don't even think of Sri Guru Sahib ji as an outsider to them (meaning that they too believe in Sri Guru Sahib ji), they don't even think we are different than them. It shows that they accept the teachings as true. My personal belief is that anyone mona 'sikh' is as equal as the hindus who are mona. I consider hindu monays just as sikh as monays who are Sikh. I have mentioned before that even in my city's mandir they do puja with equal respect to the image of Sri Guru Nanak Dev ji. In Sri Sukhmani Sahib ji, it says something along the lines as: "Sarb Dharam Mein Shreisht Dharam Har Ko Nam Jap Nirmal Karam". Therefore, I have no issue with hindus as hindus if they worship Sri Paramatman Sahib ji through jaap. If they are to turn amritdhari, I would be happy, but if they were to do as the Sri Gurbani Sahib ji's message above, then that would make me happy too considering this world's human population today seems to be becoming less and less interested in dharm. & look at how Sri Ganga Devi ji listened to Sri Bhagat Ravidas ji, that is enough validation for me that those hindus who practice simran would achieve benefits as well, considering their own gods/goddesses/teachers also believe in those who practice gurmat such as Sri Bhagat Ravidas ji. Those tweets are odd, I think they just need to be notified about what really happened. bhull chuk maaf kijjye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  13. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji Why are you adding so much bhaar on to yourself..? Why do you complain about dukhs but then you make topics that generalize an entire group of people. To be honest, I think there is a stigma against Brahmin people that you have, otherwise why don't you call Suchanand by his caste as well? Because you are trying to make Brahmins look wrong. Don't taint the title of a Brahmin because: "He alone is a Brahmin, who takes his cleansing bath in the spiritual wisdom of God, and whose leaf-offerings in worship are the Glorious Praises of the Lord."! There are bad apples in almost every group of people, but we should not generalize an entire samaj due to those few people. Also, if caste is not given importance in our religion, then not calling people by their birth caste is wise. Why else do you think Sri Guru Sahib ji gave equal status to all groups of people.. People used to thought all sudras were dumb, and unclean (which is not true and not real), but look at how many bhagats have taken birth in such families. Another thing is, I think you are writing these things because of personal grudges against certain hindu coworkers. My friend, before you say something, see if it spreads shanti, or if it spreads zehar. We receive what we did according to karma, so if you want anand, only spread positivity. Bhull chuk maaf kijye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  14. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji "may be offered a job as a full time Parcharik".. Forgive me, but I thought it was not good to use religion as a way to make money. Someone told me a story where certain pandits went to Sri Guru Sahib ji and asked why they did not have shanti, even though they did katha of their own dharma, & why Sikhs had so much shanti.. Apparently Sri Guru Sahib ji said something along the lines that Sikhs practice dharma for dharma, and those certain pandits earned money with it. Bhull chuk maaf kijye. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  15. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji Same here, they sometimes say some things that don't make sense.. & for a bunch of people to start doing parchar to totally different faith people who know nothing about Sikhi is dangerous.. because what if their parchar was wrong? Then what? Those people will have an odd view about Sikhism & Sri Guru Sahib ji then. I especially think that debating with those mo5lems on that channel was not worth it.. As if the mo5lems took any of it seriously, the mo5lems were most likely there to try to convert people to their religion. &It is such a big remark to call your channel 'Basics of Sikhi', I mean, how sure can they be that they are confident enough to say that their channel is totally the basics of sikhi.? It is such a big claim. I'm not saying that they always say wrong things, it's just that sometimes they do but then they still call themselves the basics of sikhi.. bull chuk maaf kijye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  16. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji! Remember that you are going to the Sri Gurdwara Sahib ji to meet Sri Guru Sahib ji, not necessarily the people who make you feel negative. I think you should follow advice strictly for a week or so, and then come back here and ask again. It takes time to heal for some, you need sharda for dharam if you want to get out of this hard stage. Do seva at the Sri Gurdwara Sahib ji, there is always seva to be done (such as joday ka seva, langar ka seva) & do jaap slowly while doing seva. I myself don't have much amritdhari sangat in real life since I am not in India (& because most of the people my age here think of dharam as least priority), so what I do is do seva and jaap at the same time at the Sri Gurdwara Sahib ji whenever I have the feeling to meet satsangat ji. When seva is being done, there will be people who will just come up to you and start talking, it never gets old! Also look into fitness if you aren't fit already. If you have nowhere to walk, just keep doing parikrama around the Sri Gurdwara Sahib ji outside while reciting jaap. But please remember that you need to do this constantly and then you will really receive peace of mind, because is it possible to live under the teachings of Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji and to still suffer anxiety? Not at all!! I can also suggest that you should look into 100% virgin coconut oil (cold pressed), it helps give positive emotions+health. bhull chuk maaf kijye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  17. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji Sorry you had to experience that. I think the root cause of all pain is forgetting Sri Vaheguru Sahib ji, and partaking in paap. You should read Sri Benti Chaupai Sahib ji 5 times daily, it really helps. & wake up at amritvela (12:30 at night), take a bath, and practice sri nitnem sahib ji then. I would also recommend Sri Sukhmani Sahib ji to be read at amritvela, it cures body&mind related things. I know this may seem like a bit much, but please try it before doubting it. Don't turn to spouse/bf relations in order to get rid of this dukh, Sri Vaheguru Sahib ji is the one who made us and this world.. Why forget the one who have us everything. You are very noble+lucky for asking help from here, remember that in Sri Gurbani Sahib ji it says: "Birthi kade na howai jan kee ardass. Naanak jor govind kaa pooran guntaas."! There is a link on the signature of this post that will link you to a kirtan with lyrics that cures problems related to the mind and body. So many people have felt anand and relief through Sri Gurbani Sahib ji. Another thing is, go to any Sri Gurdwara Sahib ji and do seva while reciting jaap of Vaheguru. I cannot explain how many punyas and good karmas come if someone does seva at Sri Gurdwara Sahib jis while doing jaap. & most of all, try to not become the reason for anyone's suffering, always talk with love to everyone (See Sri Vaheguru Sahib ji in all).. & you are free to dm me here if you need any more advice. Bhul chuk maaf kijye Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  18. dream

    Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji From my experience, snakes in dreams signify that you are about to receive money.. I have had dreams where there were so many snakes, none of them hurt me though & then after in real life I would receive money without effort from a source. Of course, I am saying this based upon my own experience, and not from the basis of Sikhi. Modern 'Sikhs' may say it's just a beham, but whatever. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  19. dream

    Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji A few years ago, (when I wasn't amritdhari) I had it 2 times, and it was super scary as well! That day I was on the bed laying down, and I couldn't move but could only see.. My father was reciting morning nitnem ji outside my room and I tried to move and speak but couldn't. So then I went to sleep again and then I woke up normally. I saw this black circular thing above me in my room as well when that was happening, no idea what it was! Another time, when I had to make a visit to India for the 1st time, the DR gave me this pill to take for malaria (maybe?), and when I took it it was the worst sleep I've ever had! When I woke up from the dream, I could not see anything, could not move from my bed, then I tried to move my arm and it wouldn't move, and then about a few seconds after it moved on it's own. & slowly, I got up like that. Paath can truly cure diseases. In this post's signature theres a link to a kirtan(with lyrics) that people do bhakti on when trying to get healed from mind&body sicknesses. Check it out. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  20. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji Kaur Penji, I think it means something else.. I think the game means life, and the people who are making noise (people in life) are to be ignored if they are a bad influence. Sometimes when it comes to bad influences, it can be a misconception that those people are bad influences, when they really are not. For example, when I was younger, my parents would not let me go out with my friends at 9pm to hang out in the city, and so I thought my parents did not care about my feelings. But in reality, Im thankful now that they stopped me from going out at that time because they stopped me in order to protect me. Sometimes people make mistakes though, and they are to be forgiven because that is what will cause the karmic cycle of pain to stop for us.. I just remember now, that when anyone is rude to me, that that person is also someones child, and so I will refuse to be rude back because it would also just be a waste of time. Or maybe I misunderstood bhai harsharan singh ji's quote meaning lol. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  21. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji Dhan hai Dhan hai. Vaheguru ji! Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  22. Lyrics: http://gurunanakhealing.com/static/guide.aspx Or, lyrics for people without the Punjabi font: Bhull chuk maaf kijye~
  23. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji I understand what you are trying to say, but they are just colors. Even the teachings we have teach us to look for anand and Sri Vaheguru Sahib ji from the inside, so it shouldn't matter if someone decorated the sri darbar sahib ji with colors. I think we can equate colors with raag or music instruments, there is no problem with them. How would you feel if someone truly sang sri vasant raag in an all white sri darbar sahib ji, and see the white turn colorful yellow lol.. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  24. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji You should not generalize a billion people's thoughts.. But I see what you are saying. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh
  25. Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji I don't support those negative nirankari actions, but doesn't "Dhan Nirankar ji" mean the same thing as calling Sri Vaheguru ji blessed (because they are nirankar??)? Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh