Ranjeet01

Girls even when they are friends are very competitive with each other and they try to take each other down. They will sabotage. There is so much jealousy there and they jostle for attention. They bring this behaviour into womanhood.

A girl needs a strong masculine father. Girls mature quicker than boys and get easily very rebellious in their teenage years. When they are younger, you know their friends and their friends' parents. It is when they are in secondary school that it gets very difficult because they make new friends and you have no clue who they are. With teenage girls, it isn't always the boys you have to be aware of, it is other girls in their peer group.

Disagree all you want. Your solipsism doesn't carry much weight. I have learnt long ago not to follow people by what they say but what they do.

Raminder Vig is the headteacher of Khalsa Primary School. This school was also in trouble a few years ago and he helped to turn it around back into an outstanding school. What you might not know is that Khalsa Primary School was set up by Nick Kandola back in 2007. He was booted out by the trustees and board of Governors. It was after this that he was looking to set up the secondary schools. The story with these guys is a lot more complex than you think.

There must be tax revenue earned from it. Why do you think there is a push to legalise marijuana?

Nishkam have been very successful school group and it is important that the school maintains it's Sikh ethos.

I have heard good things about Mankamal Singh and Atam. Hopefully, the school can get back on track and thrive and flourish.

The reason why women cause arguments is because they prioritise emotion. It is part of a woman's firmware to have highs and lows of emotion. It is better for women to have a bad emotion than being bored. Why do you think women love drama shows on TV and gossip, because they get off on the indignation.

Nick Kandola helped to set up Khalsa Aid with Ravi Singh back in 1999. They had a falling out. This guy seems to be bad news.

Puzzled, did you go to the school that current headteacher of Khalsa Primary used to be headteacher for. That school used to exist. The headteacher's name is Raminder Vig and a lot of parents and students rated him.

It is Nick Kandola.

We may not have Sikh care homes but we do have Sikh daycare centres. You might be familiar with them, they are known as Gurdwara langar halls. Many a bizurg and bibi who come from India to visit their kids and grandkids are oftened dumped in the gurdwara.

There are various reasons for this. You talk as a son wanting to look after your parents in their old age. But will your wife agree to this? Historically, it is the daughter-in-law that does the looking aftering. We hear this a lot from Sikh women that their brothers don't care about their parents and only themselves as daughters do. However, these same daughters who love and care about their parents so much don't give 2 hoots about their husband's parents. They will engineer scenarios to ensure that the son (her husband) does not look after his parents only for her nannan to gloat that her useless brother could not be bother. A lot of these daughter-in-law were treated quite well by their in-laws. Let us be aware that daughter-in-laws can be abusive. These daughters-in-law who feign abuse are also nannans who can gang up with their sisters and mothers against their bhabis. Beware of the female double game. They are the loyal dutiful daughter who complains her brother does not do the right thing whilst at the same time ensure her husband does what she does not want her brother to do. Then you have the jealous sisters who crave the attention that the brothers get. You hear this all time from these girls always complaining about the double standard in treatment. But as people live older they develop dementia. Traditionally, in Punjab people don't seem to get dementia like here in the west. Living with someone who has dementia is very hard as they need around the clock care. The social contract between parent and child is what is key in our families, your parents look after you and then you look after them. This is broken in gorah society. But we see goreh dump their parents into care homes. Just remember that same gorah as kid was kicked out of his family home at the age of 16 because his parents could not support him. What goes around comes around.

It is also promoted to defer employment. There aren't enough jobs so you place all these kids into university for 3 years. It keeps the unemployment rates down. Most jobs can be learnt by actually doing them and you don't really need a qualification. That is because your degree is largely useless that you don't actually use most of it. The accreditation is largely a barrier to entry. You realise that unless you are entering something like law or medicine, Universities are useless.

It is fact that a successful blue collar worker is seen as lower status than a lowly white collar worker. I knew of a guy who dropped out of university but started his own business and built up a rental portfolio (he bought several houses on rent ) but girls would decline him because he did not have a degree. I think society needs a serious re-think actually regarding university. It gives someone undeserved status boost without actually adding any value. It also breeds a sense of entitlement. The real truth regarding women entering university was not about gaining an education but to have access to high value men. However what has happened is that whilst the number of women in universities has grown is that more women have higher expectations of the type of men they think they deserve. My mum used to tell me that perhaps it is better for a guy to find a girl that is not particularly educated (left school at 16 or 18) and worked in a bank.

I can think of perhaps one situation where a woman marries a man who makes less than her. That is if she marries for potential. If he has drive and ambition and can surpass her. A man with drive and ambition is very attractive to a woman. A woman does not want to win, she wants a winner. Generally speaking, the more a woman makes her pool of suitors decreases. The more a man makes, the more options he has. Here is pause for thought for the reality of the marriage game for everyone to ponder, just an example: if I am a wealthy successful man (aged 40) earning 200k a year and I had a choice between a go getter ball busting career driven women earning 80k a year (aged 35) or a sweeter younger more attractive lady (aged 28) that has job that earns 30k a year. Who will I go for? What makes a man attractive for a woman is not what makes a woman attractive for a man.

I do not know what the real issue was with Pardeep and her family but from a superficial outsider view, there are few things that seem clear to me (at least it is my perception ) She has 2 other sisters. Just looking at video, it seems that she is the prettier one (she looks like the middle child) with a chubby older sister and plain jane younger sister. Middle children typically are more rebellious and the fact that she is the prettier one probably means she gets more attention. Her sisters are probably jealous of her. So Pardeep probably has a sense of entitlement. At 23, as a girl she is at her most prettiest (sexual market peak) and she likely gets a lot of male attention. At this age, girls like the "bad boys" and with all the combined factors mentioned above , it must be her parents worst nightmare. Her father living in a family full of woman is probably find it hard to be a strong father as he is likely to be under the thumb and cannot stamp his authority. It could be very well the case that the parents would try to cash the chips in and get her married off (though I don't think it works these days). The fear of her parents is that she will be pumped and dumped and become damaged goods and no respectabe bloke will marry her. Like a lot of girls this age, she will realise that when she reaches her late twenties and she is not as pretty as she was in the younger days, those guys she didn't find very interesting will suddenly look very interesting.

A person has to be missing for more than 24 hours for the police to look for a missing person. She is not under the age of 16 or 18, where she will be seen as a minor.

I always found this guy a bit creepy. https://www.thetimes.co.uk/edition/news/comedy-has-its-metoo-moment-with-claims-of-sex-harassment-ltcp5zdvw?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1593759818 Comedy has its MeToo moment with claims of sex harassment Matthew Moore, Marc Horne, Kaya Burgess Friday July 03 2020, 12.00pm BST, The Times The British comedy scene is facing a MeToo scandal with performers accused of sexual harassment and inappropriate behaviour. An industry organisation said that abusive male comics must be held accountable after dozens of women recounted experiences of degrading treatment. Some have described being molested before shows and mocked with rape jokes, alleging that misconduct by some prominent acts had been covered up by the comedy establishment.

I think we Sikhs should aim for 3 kids for each family. It is above replacement number which is 2.1. 3 is an achievable, realistic and sustainable number. If the family is well off, they could go for 4.

What is happening is that gays and lesbians do not want to be associated with the trans people. They are turning against each other. Even gays and lesbians cannot stand each other. Even in Kaljug, Maharaj's hukam reigns supreme. He will correct things and the balance will be restored.

She's a fake lesbian, she calls herself a non-binary. Non binary means she neither identifies as a male nor as a female. It's a contradicton. Just a bandwagon jumping attention seeker.

Very interesting. If this is the attitudes of your generation and you are in your twenties, I can imagine what the teenagers are like now.

Punjabi as in Sikh and Hindu. But mostly Sikh in this instance.

This particular girl is from Leytonstone which is Waltham Forest which from my memory was predominantly Pakistani area but that might have changed as I haven't been there in more than 20 years. But the existential fear of our people is living in an area in this type of area. Having a Punjabi girl in an area full of predatory muslim males (at least the perception ) is like having a deer in the middle of jackals and hyenas. Most Punjabis in East London in areas like Forest Gate and East Ham have shifted more towards Ilford and into Essex.