I find that comment really insulting.
FYI im a divorcee myself and also a mona. My ex was having an affair and is now living with this man.
As a guy that is very much into Sikhi but has not got there yet i find it very insulting that you say a person in my situation can not get married in a gurdwara.
Thankgod you are in the minority or else perhaps i myself would think twice.
We are not the taliban. Its 2014. Religion must also progress with the times within reason.