unfortunatly pritam that is a very narrow minded look at things, now although i no u wernt "originaly"(i put it in quotes cuz every one is originaly sikh) sikh, i am not sure if u have been through many different religions...all dharams have the hard ships, it is only those who see from the out side, seem to presume it is easy. Such as some one see's a sikh, on the sunday they get up they go to the local Gurdwara dit in the hall, come downstairs and eat FOR FREE!!! people would think that is chilling, but clearly there is more to that than meets the eye