Lol, honestly i pity tht guy who asked 4 suggestions and instead got bombarded ...lol, the fact remains tht we r supposed to be 'married' to Guru Jee but in worldy aspect, i think its better 4 u to analyse stuff 1st..4 eg, is she gona bring down ur level of faith, baani etc after marriage? n be careful, if shez not amritdharee n u r, she has to take amrit n u shud never break ur rehit...otherwise u'll be patit after marriage if she duzn take it lol. n her parents wish has to be taken into consideration too...dun worry singh jee, when the time comes, all will fall into place.. :D All d best, may Guru Sahib Guide u.