very well said simmal jee,
dear gupt singh.
once the girl said that she is not ready.
i think you should understand and you should not go to the extend of forcing her.
Sometimes, girls get more irritated once a guy starts to force things on her. expecially this kind of things.
Just give her some time, just be a friend to her, perhaps there is something about you that she does not like or afraid. Maybe by getting to know each other in a longer term might get things going.
If you a true gursikh, you should take this as a bhana and leave it to Guru Jee to decide and pleaaasee do not force her, okay.
i think i know who you are and i hope that things will work out between you two.
i even suggessted to her about you once but after i had some problems with you i did not say anything to her, cause i dont want to break your feelings for her. i am not a bad person after all.
adarsh
fateh kaur