This entire world rests on the back of householders. God and Guru bless all who enter into a cozy home. "Grist ashram mahan ashram" Married life, and I'm talking about a real marriage where two are blended into one soul, is the highest spiritual discipline of all. "They are not said to be husband and wife, who merely sit together. Rather they alone are called husband and wife, who have one soul in two bodies." (Guru Amar Das, Pauri, Ang 788) In this modern world it is not easy to do, but those who are truly blessed by the Guru make it through all the tests of time and space and enjoy the sweetness that lies within the words of the Lavan.