MansWisdom

Yes penji the world is too much for me I still have not managed to concentrate my mind on the shabad yet. I have basically wasted 20 years of my life. Now it is time for me to change and leave and never return until I get hukam to do so. The gurus were never against the root of a behungum, otherwise they would never mention bhagat dru, bhagat pipa, dust daman etc. Penji doing bhati away from the world is very hard maybe not mentally but physically. Trust I have been practising this for awhile. Also I am not saying grist jeevan is wrong but it is to much for me.... Anyway goodluck sangat Ji I hope chardikala for the sikh sangat. Good luck this is my last post here as I am leaving and going to India to never return as tomorrow is my flight. Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji ke Fateh. I want to follow the path of bhagat dru and bhagat pippa, I hope waheguru looks after me.

I don't want to get married either I want to be a YOGI or sadhu that meditates on waheguru 24/7. But I'm far from it but will get there through kirpa hopefully with couple of years. Peeps do u know of any good jungles to go and meditate in especially in uk or India lol?

I can't believe there is a thread on this. I've seen the sing along shabad on sikh channel many times and I still can't understand what is wrong with it. "YES ITS TERRIBLE...GURBANI BEING TURNED INTO SOME LITTLE KIDS LULLABY" You joking? how can you say that all I see is guru de pyareh sikhs singhing with prem. If you feel that way why don't you go to the kids and tell them they are being anti panthic and turning gurbani into a lullaby lol? I bet you won't dare to ever do this...(I hope not lol don't know some ppl as it is KALJUG...)

Dhanvaad for telling me what sant jajit singh ji said. I know it is hard to follow because we're not used this kind of practice. But if we try then it will become easier over time..... Personally I don't think you will get better advice then sant ji has mentioned.

If you keep dietry bibek it really helps you especially when concentrating in simran/ bani etc. I also believe that following bibek or even better sarbloh bibek it helps you have better control over the panj chor and penji rather than increase your ego it actually helps decrease it. I think bhai sahib randeir Singh ji has written a book on gurmat bibek and books about sarbloh bibek. Also bhai sahib followed sarbloh bibek himself. "I mean they must do a lot of bani, but how does one not get EGO or think of themsevles as superior if they do not even accept langar such as DHan Dhan Guru Raam Das Langar at Harmandhar Sahib,?" Penji I think that others around you have insecurities when you start to follow bibek as they start thinking your above everybody. But they don't understand how difficult it is to follow and 1 does it all for guru's blessing and happiness with you.

Kam1825 veer ji is 100% correct. There is no problem with the Faridkot Wala Teeka, the problem arises due to our misunderstanding and lack of knowledge.

Marriage is for children, you think you are in love with someone but it is actually your soul that is crying for waheguru's love! But the deception of maya and kaam is unforgiving. BE CAREFUL! Kaam is very strong these days and 1 way to help you from falling is to practice this technique I learnt. Basically never look at a woman and vice vera always look down etc. To avoid dodgy thoughts as if you don't see them then it really helps. Try it

Yh I know ji but what daas was saying is if I could.... lol Also some mans I know have ridhia and sidhia by doing simran and they use these powers to get money. Not very good is it?

Mohinder pal do you know which sant said this? You can pm me if you don't want to tell others. Safe

Bare mans, I know many who do this for free out of true love.. Anyway I wish I got money for saying waheguru... All my money problems will be solved and I wouldn't be soooo poooor....

Your lucky to get advice from a brahmgiani, follow it to the t and you will be able to forgive & forget in no time. Lol Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

Lol The pain is unbearable how can someone do such a horrific thing?! Edit EDIT But tbh it really depends on harinder if he wants to follow bibek or not....

Hence we can conclude that: There is no difference between the gurus and krishan avatar, ram chandar, raja janak etc. Har harjan dohi ik he bib bechar kich nah God and gods lovers(brahmgiani, avtars, gurus etc) are 1 comparing them is futile

Just to let you know the mahapurakh that told me this was pooran and is very well known to the panth. Brahmgianis do not "brainwash" you rather they give you true gian of gurbani NOT JUST THE MINUTE GIAN YOU GET OF THE ENGLISH TRANSLATIONS OF THE INTERNET. Singh I humbly request that you dig deeper into gurbani rather than just plugging english translations of the internet your not interpretating them right. The reason is that the term satguru doesn't just mean the sikh gurus only it means any avtar, pooran brahmgiani etc. The term satguru has been discussed by mahapuraks many times and even brahmgiani sant jagjit singh discusses the meaning. Please please listen to the veechar it can be found online. Now replace the definition of satguru with what the brahmgianis say now it makes more sense doesn't it ji? Sant Jagjit singh ji, sant isher singh ji, sant dalel singh ji, sant harnam singh ji, sant karam singh ji etc all mention satguru was in the existance in nirgun saroop from the beginning. They came as sargun saroop of ram chandar, krishan avatar, Guru avtar etc to spread naam. All avtars were pooran brahmgianis in their past life before they took form as avtars. For e.g. Guru gobind singh ji's past incarnation was dusht daman and his "satguru" was a rishi who gave him "nam" or charan paul amrit. Then once he became 1 he came as guru avtar in kal Jug. Also if you have a chance to study any of the brahmgiani's writings above you will come to understand this. I used to think sikhi is the ONLY WAY. But after veechars and getting personal bachans from pooran brahmgianis daas has noticed how universal all brahmgianis are just like how universal waheguru is for everyone not JUST SIKHS. Also this is what sant jagjit singh ji said when a premi asked them that are sikhs only accepted to meet waheguru(Sachkand)? He said no, anyone from any dharam can. Making all the avtars sachkandis themselve otherwise the followers of another religion cannot meet god if their avatars won't sachkandis. Santji further explained that if waheguru favoured the sikhs more then he would of given the sikhs further privileges such as wealth while ppl of other religions would of been made poor, given them water while other religions would of been left thirsty and hungry. Clearly this is not the case and my point being all avtars and guru are the same comparing them is futile and all religions are equally pleasing to akal purakh. Singh Ji you need to listen to veechar by brahmgianis as their knowledge is true and the english translation don't compare to their knowledge that are found on the internet as it was not written by gian vadis. 1 premi once asked how much more knowledge does a brahmgiani have compared to a person that is agiani? The answer given was a metaphor as the knowledge comparison can't be described. The metaphor given was that the agiani's knowledge is equivelent to a drop of water while a brahmgiani's knowledge is equivelent to the vast water of the oceans! Also 1 more thing all the avtars and guru avtars were not born nor did they die. Veechar is done on this as well so please spend your time learning what this means. Look out for how the avtars bodies differ from ours and how they came into existance etc. You will get your answer. So please please listen to veechars and educate yourself.

Being gupt is not a bad thing.. Bare people keep gupt so do I lol.. On a serious note quiet a lot of high avasta people I know keep gupt especially in Birmingham. I know some singh that sits in his room in samadhi all day but no one knows that he is such a high spirtual soul. Going even further a lot of brahmgianis remain gupt from the world they have even become pooran. The reason they remain gupt is because they haven't got hukam from waheguru yet to teach others. While some mahapursh such as sant isher singh, sant nand singh and sant basant singh etc were given hukam to do so. So chillax to what makes you happy...