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Everything posted by simran345

  1. This is Randhir Singh paji, of Midland Langar Seva Society, as always doing a great seva for the homeless. 🌸
  2. I'm not sure how or if this group can help you, but it's worth a try to contact Sikh Youth Birmingham, do a search for them on fb. Call them and explain your situation and ask if they can put you in the right direction. Also contact your local council, and find their website online. They will have the appropriate sections on there, who you can contact for advise on any help you can get, housing, moving out, etc.
  3. Even if Ajeet paji was from Canada, USA, Australia, or UK, his parents would still have the same view. It would take them a while to get round to the idea of him being gay, because that's just how people from Punjabi community are. It will still be the same, apart from his work colleagues. Its not easy for him, so belittling him by saying he's feeling sorry for himself isn't a good thing. That's not very understanding and very insensitive. Until one is in another person's shoes, they have no idea what they go through. He's sharing his problems to get help not to be told to get on with it. Please understand, it's not that easy.
  4. Sounds more like you're having doubts about the tattoo.
  5. Have you considered consulting a pharmacist? That would be the best thing to do. Also a visit to the the doctor, to see if there's any other treatment, or assessment needed.
  6. Good advice by Singhbj paji, contact one of the above organisations he's pasted. Keep hope and trust in Waheguru.
  7. Don't be put off by other rishtas. Good job you didn't go into that one, and was stopped before time. Thank God, their true colours came out in time, maybe God has something good for you later on. Not2Cool2Argue paji's advice is good.
  8. Thank you Jacfsingh2 paji for ur time and effort to do this. Very much appreciated. 🌼
  9. Kira paji, that article is not opening for me. There's a grey box instead, as same with other articles from that list 🤔
  10. Ajeet paji, another tool you could use, is to think Guruji is sitting in front of you and recite to them. That way, you will get more contentment. And God does hear you anyways, it's just that we may forget sometimes or think they don't. Also thank you for the pangtis you pasted, as one of them were said to me by a mahapursh I visited, but I just couldn't remember afterwards what the whole pangti was as I only heard the first bit. I've been looking for it for ages. So thank you ji 🙏🏻
  11. And when the police come, they're going to ask: Police - "what's the problem?". Loud lady - "arrest them all, they're using Fairy Liquid" Police - " 🤔😏, what do you think we are, the Ecover Squad or wat? "
  12. Paji Ajeet, the next time they insult you or your faith, just tell them that they not do that. And if they still don't stop, say to them, what kind of Insaan are you, to insult another faith/religion and person. But say it with trust in Waheguru, and defend yourself when you feel you are being taken advantage of and insulted that it hurts your soul. Nobody has the right to say what they are to you. I'm surprised the HR Manager is ignoring it. Just shows their discrimination against other faiths and sexual orientation which is wrong for educated people at least to do that. If you can make notes of dates and times if this occurrence, in case if it comes to going into a tribunal for unfair dismissal, at least you will have some evidence. Dont worry, I know easier said than done, as I've been through bullying too but through a different environment, and it stopped when I defended myself. And there is no need to curse anybody, although when one goes through that situation, it's hard not to, as they make life difficult for you. But God sees everything that is happening, and everybody has to reap what they sow. This happened with me once, to the those people that used to insult me and hurt my soul, things went wrong for them, way after I had stopped contact with them. God does hear the crys of a dukhi person, whether we see it or not. Hope all goes well. Waheguru 🙏🏻 Some shabads for you:
  13. If you add the Gurdwaras on Facebook, their events come up automatically and you can contact them from their contact information on there.
  14. Put your trust in Waheguru, and they will help you. Now is the time to connect to God, not 20/30yrs time. Kal kis ne dekha? Who has seen tomorrow? Keep doing benti to Waheguru to lead you to the right path.
  15. Nice picture. This shabad came to mind when I saw it: Ang 262, SGGS ji 🙏🏻 Dhan Guru Arjan Dev ji ਸਿਮਰਉ ਸਿਮਰਿ ਸਿਮਰਿ ਸੁਖੁ ਪਾਵਉ ॥ सिमरउ सिमरि सिमरि सुखु पावउ ॥ Simra▫o simar simar sukẖ pāva▫o. Remember, remember God, ਕਲਿ ਕਲੇਸ ਤਨ ਮਾਹਿ ਮਿਟਾਵਉ ॥ कलि कलेस तन माहि मिटावउ ॥ Kal kales ṯan māhi mitāva▫o. thus thou shalt attain peace and efface from within thy body, strife and anguish.
  16. Did you say to her "will u merrej to me?" Kudi viah nai karna chaundi twade nal. Kini vari daseh twanu? Stop thinking about her. Full stop.
  17. May Waheguru bless him and his family 🙏🏻 Waheguru. I learned a lot from his parchar and videos, sad to hear this 😢
  18. Hanji I know, the target for the day they were on tv is the target I meant.
  19. Yes it's very good news about the centre in Amritsar. It was good watching them reach their target last night. The only thing that concerns me is they say it's an independent project, but when it's set up and goes into action, that others may take over it. I hope they get to do what they planned for the sangat.
  20. Not been on Qatar, but an alternative is to Delhi and then plane to Amritsar, Air India, but I didn't like their service going. Coming back was better though. Delhi airport is better than ATQ though in regards to facilities staff etc.