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  1. the only cheap thing there is th vacuum cleaner, but maybe its a hand held one to catch th petty cash tht flys away.
  2. To some its not right, to others it wont matter, but to God everybody is equal, for example, its like if somebody helped somebody thru a bad time, and th person would be grateful for it, and thank god, if they found out after the person that helped them was gay, would they stop believing in god? To god all are equal, age, religion, jaat-paat. Pjs paaji has said it all.
  3. found this online http://www.turbansdirect.com/tyingstyles.htm, its in uk, but i'd check if its a proper website, it has a phone number too. also
  4. simran345

    Need Advice

    She is 100% jealous of u thats y sh is doin it, and i feel sh dont even care abt u. I know th signs, and thts wat i went thru with many ppl. But sh reminds me of one person, who used to do it on purpose everytime, even after i cried n told her im gettin hurt by wat sh does sh did not stop. I say keep ur distance from her, sh is doin it for an excuse too, so tht u lash out at her and get angry, thats wat sh wants, to prove ur insecure then sh can "win". I'd be careful of her too, coz u dont know wats goin on in her mind, dont give her a chance to belittle u when sh does dont keep it inside, i'd have a serious talk with her b4 its gets too far. good luck...
  5. well u know women, main vi hoo, teh baut fussy hoo, but dnt worry abt it, una de dhimak ch nauksh hai jeria nai interest kardia, maybe its not ur sanjog yet. but dnt take tension of it. theres lots of women that like men with beards, th ones that can be bothered to find out abt th guy and their personalities that go tht extra yard, and that one will come one day.
  6. I think one pehar is 3hrs, such as amritvela example, but not sure somebody can correct me. Madhyan not sure if its in sikhism, somthinto do with periods i guess like pehar.
  7. hmm i came across this one too one day, I just thought that like it says, jera rab nu yaad karda, ohi sab tho vadi akal hai jo kise nu chidee, kio ke sirf rab da naam jana nal hor kuch tha jana ni sade nal, na hor kuch, naa paise, naa rishte, na education wali akal, jera pass hogea, oh hogea, jera rehgea, oh rehgea. Thts wat i thought but i could be wrong. And there is another meaning to it too, but i dont know how to describe it.
  8. thnkuji paaji eh aspirant ki hunda, sorry my vocab is not too gud, • ASPIRANT (noun) The noun ASPIRANT has 1 sense: 1. an ambitious and aspiring young person Familiarity information: ASPIRANT used as a noun is very rare. • ASPIRANT (adjective) The adjective ASPIRANT has 1 sense: 1. desiring or striving for recognition or advancement kind of understand now. thnku
  9. paaji wat does abhilakee mean? sorry i dont know this term.
  10. simran345

    Marriage

    seems ok to me too
  11. paaji theres some on youtube if thats the ones ur lookin for. these ones say HD,
  12. Thanku bhenji Teji, u are right too, path should be with every breath, but its just somthin happen to me tht after th incident i didnt want to again after eatin meat. i also know ppl tht do path after eatin meat, but i think its coz i dont know wats rite way or wats rong as amritdhari's dont eat meat, n sombody said to me ages ago, well they didnt say they put me down, givin me a mehna tht u do path after eatin egg, etc tht affected my faith from there. Learned another new thing from bhenji...hugs..
  13. I cant say i fully undrstand wat ur goin thru, but i was vegetarin for 10yrs or more, and then started eatin meat again, as i was gettin weaker, i was not amritdhari, nor am i now, but wat i can say is, please dont give urslf extra burden on ur mind, as u need to keep ur mind relaxed and think of other ways to deal with this calmly, rather than becoming ill or somthin from worryin too much. There could be many reasons for this, but only u will know th real reasons if u ask urslf honestly. Maybe its a phase ur going thru, that may pass n all will be fine after. But watever u are going thru plz dont lose ur love for god. maybe u could try to stop slowly like u do with exercise, like on certain days not eat it, and work ur way up to eatin less, then not at all. I was going to add that its not gud if ur amritdhari, but just read that u state u are not. I'm sure if u give it time, things will fall into place n u hope u become like ur parents.. One thing from my personal experience is i would say is please dont do path after eating meat, but this is frm my own personal experience. God is th only one that can help u here dear, please ask god for help, try to go to th gurdwara, and talk to him as ur best friend. Listen to shabads, ur doin more path than i am thts for sure. Kalyug is like this, pulls one in all directions, but dont give up, being young too its harder to get to the goal u want to. Its not easy, its very hard to be a sikh. If it was that easy why am i not there yet? U have to keep tryin and tryin until u get wat u want. hope all goes well.gud luck..
  14. The gurdwara isnt fake, as it has Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji in it. Its th committee that is fake, or has fake members not realising wat sikhi is.
  15. yes paaji u are rite, i been tryin to look for it for over an hour but cant find it either, although is by sung by others, but cant find with Bhai Chaman Lal ji.
  16. thanx paji, i saved it will look at it later to see if my close ones r in it.
  17. bhenji depends on ur age, even thou in my opnion everybody is equal and i agree too they shld not be seperate, but sometimes our siahne know best, even thou we think thy maybe out of date,etc. Have u ever thought this way from their point of view, wat if, not sayin it will, but wat if somthin bad happens, or somthin then th gurdwara and those sevadars would have to be responsible for it. Also parents takin their children home at 8pm is maybe coz they got lives too, and parents work, so need to keep a routine too. maybe u could talk to ur parents if u think its that strict, and they could talk to th gurdwara abt wat u think isnt fair. But plz dont abuse th gurdwara in any way no offence to ur inner faith. Even thou it is their for our children to learn about sikhi and meet in social settings, dont try and take advantage of it as it is a place of worship, if u ask with sincerity then will be better, hope it works out for both sides.....
  18. Bas karo hun, evi lari jande, i thought sikhi is all about being equal, and havin peace in this world, sharing, its multi-cultural society nowadays. Sant Bhindrawale ji was a gr8 man in with his own qualities, but th world shld not be divided, baaki twanu pata hoga, eh topic tha kade mukni ni, loka ne dunia chadke chalejana, dunia ne lari jana. how abt prayin to god, instead.
  19. paaji, plz dont feel underestimate ur value as a person, im sure u have qualities that others dont have, and regarding th height, dont worryyy im shorter than u, there u go.. height, features, all this means nothin to god. dont worry abt wat ppl think, and dont worry abt ur past, look towards changing, im not amritdhari either, but one thing i know is in this world u have to plz god, not ppl, ppl come n go, u will meet many across ur journey of life. Feel comfortable within urslf, and try to do simran and path, all u need to know is that god loves u and thts it, everything else is cool. maybe u could try goin for a walk then take it from there, exercise little and then try to do more. Listen to sukhmani sahib ji path or try to do urslf, any path watever ur comfortable with, try to get out, if u are physically able to, fresh air does gud, even if its just walkin around th shops or library, or go where there is nature, such as birds, ducks, etc, where u can relax ur mind. U are strong paaji, u will inspire others...all th best....
  20. this is Guru Nanak Academy: http://www.gurunanakacademy.com/ 209 – 7938 128 Street Surrey, British Columbia Canada
  21. Jeevan, jasjot, jaskeerat, jasleen, jeevanjot, jasmeet, japjot, jasnam, jaskaran, japleen, jobandeep, gudluck with th name choosing. congrats....
  22. Thankuji all, i understand wat it means now...
  23. Bhangal ji sounds like u are anti-Sant Bhindrewaleji, he was a gr8 man, and if u try to make an effort of wat he went thru, and how brave he was then i'm sure u'd realise wat a gr8 true man he was.
  24. thnku bir-rass ji, if u listen to th first few lines, thats wat im after, not sure wat the words mean. but thnku nyways tht means a lot too.
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