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  1. How could they be so heartless? S*l* ku*e b**t**ds. First time had to swear and dont care if it sounds bad on my part. Didn't the nurse think once what she was doing, and the docs being educated probably have children, how the hell could they do that for money then sleep afterwards? Titeh khuh ch geyi una di paraiyee, doctor eho jehe nu ki karna, jis di atma na hove. They inject anybody for nothing, s*le jeende jam.
  2. Both are good. Daal is very good, that's why our ancestors until now ate just daal with roti. The most healthy food, that's why they were strong built. Legumes and Nutrition Legumes provide a range of essential nutrients including protein, low glycemic (GI) carbohydrates, dietary fibre, minerals and vitamins. They are: An economical dietary source of good quality protein and are higher in protein than most other plant foods. Legumes have about twice the protein content of cereal grains. Generally low in fat, virtually free of saturated fats and contain no cholesterol. Soybeans and peanuts are the exception, with significant levels of mostly monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fatty acids, including alpha-linolenic acid. Rich in energy-giving carbohydrates, with a low GI rating for blood glucose control. A good source of B-group vitamins (especially folate), iron, zinc, calcium and magnesium. Low in sodium sodium content of canned legumes can be reduced by up to 41% if the product is drained and rinsed. Abundant in fibre, including both insoluble and soluble fibre, plus resistant starch for colonic health benefits. Rich in phytonutrients (e.g. isoflavones, lignans, protease inhibitors). Soy beans are particularly high in phytoestrogens, with research over the last 20 years linking soy foods and/or phytoestrogens to a reduced risk of certain cancers including breast and prostate cancer, heart disease, osteoporosis and problems associated with menopause Gluten free as such, legumes are suitable for people with celiac disease or gluten sensitivity. Legumes contain relatively low quantities of the essential amino acid methionine (which is found in higher amounts in grains). Grains, on the other hand, contain relatively low quantities of the essential amino acid lysine, which legumes contain. This is why some vegetarian cultures in order to get a good balance of amino acids needed for growth and repair combine their diet of legumes with cereal grains. Common examples of such combinations are dhal with rice in India, beans with corn tortillas in Mexico, tofu with rice in Asia and peanut butter with bread in the US and Australia.
  3. Different names in different countries
  4. Thankuj paji, i think i know which gurdwara it is, but will inbox u..
  5. I think a lot of people keep their surname as to keep a connection with where they are from back home in India, being their pinds. I think they are not purposely showing they are this caste or that, but to hang on to their ancestory roots which they are proud of. But i hate it when there is discrimination due to caste in marriages and friendship. Caste de lagde.
  6. You are not useless, you are passionate about your faith only. The radio idea seems good, free radio miljana lokha nu, but how long would they listen before using it to listen to somethin else? Although it was get awareness rolling. Just make sure you are actually allowed to do that in public, give out radios to Create awareness, great idea. Families always make it harder for the kids to get into Sikhi. There was a time when they wanted them to, now its the opposite, the kids having to teach the elders. Request to all parents, dont stop your kids from learning Sikhi. Time is being wasted in family arguments over dharm, parents get off your backsides and research yourselves too instead of stopping them. Sorry sounds harsh, but why are kids having to go thru so much obstructions in this day and age too They are lookin at you strangely as you look cool, an Amritdhari stands out from the rest of the world and probably makes them feel guilty of their karms, as Sikhs are associated with the Truth. Dont worry about that, if one is in Bana, it will make them want to know why and what it means. Smile at them when they look at you.
  7. I have noticed a lot of Sikh families in india will have pictures of other dharm avtars etc, in their houses. Like they respect all dharms, and make it part of their lives too. this is so confusing, and this is what our family ended up doing too for a while, rather than to follow one path. It must be hard for u penji to have different views at home, and its understandable end of day are ur parents and u dont want to hurt them either. But whatever u do, i will only advice for u not to give up Sikhi.. Once u have found it u are so lucky to have this experience, not belittling any other faith, but i spent years not knowing about Sikhi, being confused all the time. Embrace Sikhi and the reason u are gettin angry is because you dont have the support u need. Its like you are being picked on little things and having them related to what u believe in. They dont understand what u are going thru.. Jis ghar ch santokh hove us ghar ch gusa v nai aunda, jis ghar ch raah vakre hove, soch vakhri hove, fir tha fark te hona hai khaylaa ch, te gusa kalesh hona te hai.. Waheguru da nau leyi jaa ki pata sare badal jayuge ik din.
  8. There's actually quite a bit about it on the net: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Maladaptive-Daydreaming/154172987955944 http://www.healthguidance.org/entry/15944/1/Can-Maladaptive-Daydreaming-Be-Treated.html
  9. Thankuji if any brahmgianis in uk, plz msge me in confidence if u would rather not name them here...but i guess i wont be gettin any replies, thought i'd try anyways.
  10. When they put the same program on both channels, and miss the sofa factory advert that was a catchy tune.. and the fireworks ad, buy one get one free, buy two get one free...thats so annoying it dont come on nomore...
  11. Sangat ji this may sound a silly question, but do any Brahmgianis or high avasta Sants ever come from india to uk?
  12. That is very nicely written. Munde nu kehde apay parleve ithe akeh, jina time lagea likan nu fir likna pena. Its a shame you have to do the running around thou, why can't he have written all that to you? Aj kal why the girls have to take so much stress to find a partner, it was so much easier in the old days, photo vekni bas ha je na.
  13. Wear a nice colourful suit penji, and no jewellery if you not want and if you year a matching dastaar or patka with nice embroidered chuni on top there will be no need for makeup and jewellery. You will be the beautiful one there.
  14. When one is dukhi that when the karm come in front of them. I know i been here before i feel it, to places i been i feel i have been there before. There is one gurdwara, from day one i felt i have been there and felt the environment and atmosphere around me like i have felt it all before, it was such a weird scary kind of feeling. And now all i do is cry, i know i have been there, but not, if you get wat i mean, nobody believes me, and that's the only place where i feel i kind of belong but the people are different dont feel i ever met them. And its the only gurdwara where my tears never stop running,not matter how hard i try they won't stop like a tap turned on, just automatically when i look at Maharaj ji, that i can't look at them.when one is dukhi they just feel the past karm, either physically or mentally. Then its like a mad rush around to clear them. That's when the suicide bit comes, when you have no moral support. Like me, i know my karm are very very bad, and i got into them deeper and deeper tryin to make them better, ended up doin more bad karm and losing faith in god. Either i hurt people real bad last life or did suicide, thus the reminders popping up all the time towards the hardest time. Also the life you live the karm in this life come up even thou you didn't think they were bad when doing them or did not intentionally do them. Life is based solely on our karm, and god wanting to change them. The only thing keeps me going now a bit is the stories of Sajjan thug and those that were saved by god. If they were saved and god helped them that is wat stops me from doing suicide, and to bhog the karm i have sown, very very hard i but i will not give up even until its not in my control.
  15. I dont understand either. People that want to do suicide probably dont wish to but maybe they are so dukhi they see no other way out when they keep tryin and tryin and then keep doin the bad karm as they are kept be pushed to them no matter how they try not to go down that route. So when they feel god has not listened to them or helped them, its too hard to take the bauj of the karms, so only option left is suicide, especially when one is kept reminded of the bad things they done, and one trys n trys to change, but the dunia won't let thembut do bad themselves and hide it, whereas the weak, nice ones give up and turn to suicide. Eh dunia insaan nu na jeen dindi na marn dindi. I think maybe i did suicide last life that's why i am like this now.
  16. http://m.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2013/apr/15/caste-discrimination-uk-outlawed
  17. simran345

    worried

    If i say to my doc, my condition gets worse when i pray and feel pain after not being able to pray they will just laugh at me. Besides i have stayed in a psychiatric hospital in the past and they concluded i dnt have a mental condition but neurological one being disabled. Now the docs are to test for somethin else, to rule out other things, because of digestive problems and pains. My memory is affected too now, so maybe there is more damage to the brain. Then they will contact my nurse or neurologist. Thankuji for your help. I deleted the video. Guess i am makin myself think its this and that for answers and a solution,only thing that helped was paat and slow recovery physically. Its happened before but i forget i have a health condition which affects basically everything when i go through a bad time. Sorry ji but just worried about the tests. And being on my own does not help. Sorry for the freak out again. Please forgive sangat ji.
  18. simran345

    worried

    Before this time i was doing simran, listening shabads n paat, like feeling wanting to get close with Sikhi and even thou i was not healthy got to a stage being able to cope with gods hukam. Now last two months had lost my faith, not matter how hard trying to console myself its not comin back. So i thought ok maybe depression, but i am very weak physically so put it down to that too not being able to do much. So not wanting to do paat, when put it on like can't stand it, like its too much pressure for me. And when am trying to do bits, my brain is not accepting it. Again i am thinkin its weakness. Going for tests but i dont know why i cannot stop thinkin the worst. It won't stop. Anyways my faith has fully gone n said god leave it to you, as am trying and nothin happening. Then all of sudden last night i felt it coming back k bit, so i started doin as much paat i could manage, like i am freaking out i won't get the chance again. And then last night my body went thru so much hell, not being able to sleep, everytime i tried to say Waheguru like not being able to and not relaxin. So went bathroom tried again and again to get to sleep. But my body was hurting more n more. Husband says its coz my system is messed up and i use the phne before i sleep that's why. Hope its that and nothin else. But before i went to bed, took video of my room in the dark with flash on. Thinkin to myself if its anything paranormal, will catch it, although should not be doing this. But in past used to hear footsteps and like being attacked physically. Nothin happen at first then the view goes completely black and freaked me out. But thought its the metering of the phne, still think that as played it back again, and seems to happen when i was zoom in but only when i zoomed at the window there is little mirror there, not when i zoomed nywhere else. Then a light was peepin thru one blind, me thinkin its a street light or reflection. But now i looked outside no lights near the window. Ok so now i gone paranoid i am possessed or somethin after me thinkin this is why i am so ill now. I went thru this in all the houses i lived. And we are doing paat again more its happening more. But only i feel it nobody else. Have i gone mad? I can't be as i can't physically move, and then go unconscious due to weakness. I am not going to think about it as no energy but anybody any idea Wats going on? Is it my health or somethin else? Waheguru.
  19. Hanji heard it before but somewhere else, first time heard Bhai Harbans Singh sing it. Here you go, http://www.blugaa.com/punjabi-songs/ronde-gaye-naam-ton-bina-ypst.html?play=album
  20. Oh okay, sorry dnt know if you penji or paji, but i appreciate it. I think maybe its easier to understand on here in than in real. Its probably because they dont understand the depth of it that other things to talk about are easier. I welcome your advise, but my brain can't cope with too much depth now and some things only when i am lieng down and typing will be able to understand,not when i am sitting. Its just the simple things that one wishes somebody would have told when they do it all themselves. I mean they not like educated n all but they will go to places when they got everything, dont know wat they want, and never think oh maybe i could benefit from some knowledge or if they visit a mahapursh, they will never mention to me. Its like i always hear after from somebody else. Nobody has ever said from their heart that believe in god, do paat or listen to it. Some people seem to get everything like the original poster says without even doing paat. This is wat hurts me, how do they get it? Is it coincidence? karm? And one of my rels s heard took lots of money to see a mahapursh, dnt know if they took it but they seem to have ythnng they ask for.so it affects my faith when i listen to paat so much and with pyar but not gettin more honsla. Lots of times i just want to die, its too hard to carry on, i got the tablets out now but dont have the guts to eat them. I can't do it no more, keep waiting and waiting and cant take th dukh no more, when listen to paat just before its too much to handle. I want it to end.
  21. @tuhintuhin i didnt understand anything u wrote, can u explain in english plz. its not a complaint, its the truth. and i dont think i have said anything wrong. nowadays people dont want to help, coz they are so paranoid they may catch something and yes there are people that only want everything themselves. There is a difference in the people of nowadays and the the true ones that really wanted to help somebody, they would have told me about playing Sukhmani SAhibji all day, but instead i have had to learn it thru a forum on the internet. Its easy for u to say dont wait dont complain, i dont complain, just stating the truth, which is probably perceived as complaining to you. You probably have nice relatives that do give good advice, but i dont, so obviously when there is no sianeh is my house, then it is the job of other sianeh to teach us and not just turn up to funerals. like how else am i suppose to know, i dont go out, i dont have no contact with nobody, instead of just calling up and asking if im still alive, they if they really want to give wise advise such as gods name. and if thats complaining i dont really care, coz everybodys out for themselves only, no matter how much u help them, they will never be there in ur worst time. I am actually grateful i have this site, and if nobody can take the truth in wat i say then thats not my problem. this is the only place i can air out my views, so y should i chup karke marjava? Try asking those that dont have no human contact at all wat its like to wait, coz thats all one can do wait wait wait, either for something gud to happen or for death.
  22. The aaaaaaaaaa wala kirtan is the best kirtan, i love it. they are doing it in surr. Penji do some research on how the Gurus used to do kirtan, thats only way u will know how it was done. The instruments used are on a different level to harmonium and tabla. http://www.sikhiwiki.org/index.php/Kirtan http://www.gurmatsangeet.org/ http://sikhism.about.com/od/gurugranthsahib/f/What-Is-The-Significance-Of-Raag-In-Gurbani.htm sorry this is all i could find, maybe somebody else can help further.
  23. I have heard this today too and that one of our relatives play it all the time. The only place is i am learning anything is from here. All these relatives make out they care etc, but they dont. Its good for them and good luck to them, but do any of them ever want to tell me about doing this? I would if it helps somebody to just have that knowledge. But i guess nobody likes me. What is it with relative why dnt they ever want to tell you the good things that would help you, its gods name, are people jealous of that too, so t hat it dont help somebody? Apparently hanji it should make a difference, you reminded me guest i read a while ago that a mahapursh, can't remember which one said that Sukhmani Sahib ji should be played 24/7 to keep the bad things away. I like you thought that i dont be able to listen all day so how will it benefit me. But today learnt it should make difference as gods name will be continuous, even if its in one room.
  24. Ha ha kamla jea live too. Oops Stress hogea c. And ptc played it like that? Oh no.
  25. Paji Jasdeep i think Singh135 means Santji Jarnail Singh Bhindrawale. Aww that a shame they banned it. Punjab and India is where Jazzy B is mostly heard. But those that will want to see the movie will find other ways and to listen to him too. Just tryin to hide from the world the truth coz they think it may cause trouble.. But the world should know wat happened. There was somethin on Sikh channel earlier but missed it.
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