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simran345

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  1. Lol no thanks paji I don't believe in caste, I'm sure Waheguru will assist them in finding the right partners.Te mere tho sare reference number mex up hojane.
  2. Thanku penji, will find some kale recipes, not sure how to cook it. Also broccoli sprouts can they be cooked? Hm rice milk never heard of that one will try it, and oat milk.
  3. Yes paji is right here, if ur parents disown u will they help u after? Just saying yes doesn't mean they will support u all the way. And vice versa for girls, make sure both parties are agreeable. Have u thought about the future too? Where will u live, who will support u when u need help? It's not just about getting married and hey ho away we go. Also ur parents will get older n need some support. Some people agree due to wat family can offer and when they can't help that's when things go wrong. So do it properly.
  4. It's very hard nowadays finding a suitable match, as there is more freedom of thought, but on other hand there isn't as ur parents want same caste. Have u told them about her, or they seen her? That may make a difference, or are they just saying no full stop without knowing about anything about her. I think u should provide them with more information, if u really want to marry this girl. And also ask why it makes a difference of caste. You don't want to end up marrying the wrong person and regret it later, and have problems later on if u don't want to marry somebody from the beginning. Explain to them why u want to marry her. And caste should not be an issue. A lot of people marry in caste due to pressure and end up with problems, as they didn't want to. Not saying rebel against ur parents, but this caste issue seems to create tension in families, all need to be happy, and u know ur parents better than anybody, I'm sure they will understand when they see her qualities and she makes u happy. If u are serious to marry her and know she's the one, if they don't listen to u or u find it hard to explain, then do it with an elder member of ur family who understands, sometimes they understand better from same age group.
  5. I respect those that believe in God and don't mislead to worship themselves. Just because a saint or person is from a different faith does not mean I should not respect them coz they believe in God also. Exactly who are my own? I respect who Maharaj ji defines as good and lead us the right way to Waheguru as in Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji, they have bhagats from different faiths bani. I'm not worried about them, I think u are. It's the fake ones I don't respect. Awwal Allah Noor Upaya Qudrat Keh Sub Banday Aik Noor Keh Sub Jag Upajiya Kaun Bhale Ko Mandhe God created light of which all the beings were born And from this light, the universe; so who is good and who is bad.
  6. Sorry I meant that are not nut based wrote it wrong. Is kale gud for health, better than broccoli?
  7. A saint can be from any religion and we should respect that. I have also heard the real one was a saint, found this too. But some fake ones exist. http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/54383-shirdi-sai-baba-not-a-fake/
  8. Yes paji they doing seva for the needy, the ones that need it. Seva.: There are three different parts of seva : Tan: physical service, eg, working in the langar and helping to look after the gurdwara. Man: mental service, eg, studying the Guru Granth Sahib Ji and teaching it to others. Dhan: material service to other people, eg, giving money to charities or giving time to help people who are in need. All of these must be done because a Sikh wants to serve Waheguru and not for personal gain. So by performing sewa Sikhs serve God and the world.
  9. That's ok paji I probably misunderstood, no problem nothin to maaf I'm not God. So don't worry bro.
  10. I used to get bairaag too, I think that's wat it was, but then things went wrong and totally opposite, now don't feel that I feel lost and sometimes hopeless. But have to leave it to God, as I'm not in control of how God wants me to be. Just hope they put me on right path instead of wrong .
  11. Aww I get so much help from here. A lot of things I don't bother askin but wish I had now coz I learn from u lot. Ps: mera phone Weird hogea keeps copy pasting so just ignore th extra copies.
  12. Thanku penji I understand u now. That's wat I thought, we only know him thru a cousin but this is wat it felt like somebody we known for ages like our own family but then changed into somebody else as th communication became less. It's just an eery kind of feeling and like Sat paji said about th black arts felt like that towards th end this creatin th scary feeling. But it didn't help as I said few things I shouldnt of but that's me. If I feel somebody is messin around with me or taking advantage I explode. Now I will just ignore things like u said wat th scenery go by.
  13. Yes seen him before this guy is soo fluent. Reminds of a European lady Anita Lerche, she sings in punjabi and shabads too. I like her voice.
  14. Wat are black arts? That's wat I thought, but don't know why before he was ok, and when I asked about how he knew in advance, he became angry and said Doesn't know wat I'm on about, like a totally different person. Didn't bother after that as I got this scary feeling from it, like I heard it all and it was totally denied. So I thought let it go as don't have th energy. He says he doesn't pray, but maybe hiding that aswell, but believes in God. Oh well guess it will be another mystery. He mentioned something about his mother had him after many years and think they went to a mahapursh, but said doesn't know who it was. And it's so weird my family says same thing like they know him but don't know where from. Oh well I'm gonna forget this otherwise I will be thinkin n thinkin n get tired.
  15. Yes Jagsaw paji u r right th prob is in India, n abroad people r speaking it.
  16. I understand th pichle karm of Bhagti bit now. But I was asking about him, would he know he has ridhian sidhian? As I'm wondering maybe he doesnt know and said things without knowing wat he's sayin maybe that's y he doesn't remember? Mere tho tha hunda v ni nam jap, jad v krdi continuous ni hunda. I didn't even know wat ridhian sidhian is, until I researched it. I'm wondering whether he has got them but not sure if he aware of it. Thanku penji for explaining, understood bit better.
  17. Penji kind of understanding it now, but still confused sorry. So does that mean in his past life he would have done a lot of bhagti n some of that is carried over in this? The person is not a bad person, but not even like somebody that's drunk either, but that's wat it felt like u said th scenery passing by th window like I known th soul n got scared of it. Would somebody with ridhian sidhian know they have them? Another thing which got to me, said doesnt say Gods name has vishwas and that I believe in God but still don't have vishwas. I just got so scared from some things, not that anything bad or fearful was said, but like oh my God I've heard this before, but don't know where. Thanku penji,
  18. Yes penji it was said as I heard it, but wat I can't understand is the person sometimes drinks alcohol and not a Gursikh, just a normal person but something doesn't seem right and I thought people who drink don't get ridhian sidhian. I think it's a distraction, or that person only uses th same words with everybody lol and hor koi dialogue ni aunda Hona. But it's more than one sentence it's like a déjà vu is happening if u know wat I mean. I'm not going to think about it, as it's really confusing me. Ur right focus should be on Waheguru only and not on people or wrong stuff. Thanku penji, feel bit better.
  19. Ok so something weird is happening with me. Somebody mentioned some things last year exact words like then I didn't understand wat was on about, and this year those same things are happening and same words being said by th same person but to other people. When I said oh yes I remember u sayin last yr, and they completely deny anything was said. And that I'm making it up, after listening to them. I know I'm not making it up, and remember exactly wat I heard. But how would somebody know wat job they are going to get, exactly wat is going to happen a year in advance? I thought n thought n can't come to no answer. Either that person can foresee th future for themselves and is denying ever said anything. But I'm thinking maybe mind games are being played. I don't talk much to them now, coz of this issue, as kept being told I'm imagining things and it was never said. But I clearly remember it word for word, and then after a year those things are happening with that person. Question is, is somebody able to foresee their own future? And why would they about it if it's already planned wat they are to do and make out did not say it. The other weird thing is when we were talking last year I realised like all of a sudden would pop in sentences, that had no relevance to our conversations. I did ask if a third person was on th phone n same again,swears no. So I'm thinkin I'm havin mind games played, or that person wants to stay Gupt in forseeing things. Anyways now keep away as I got scared. Ps: put this in wrong section
  20. The older generation is ok, but sorry to say th 2nd generation n below just dont seem to care about anything, there's no respect no more. No compassion as long as they get wat they want. Not sure whether coz they been spoilt or it's th norm nowadays. Seems to be an issue of jealousy n hatred towards westerners, even if they got it good. And schools there tend to speak Hindi not punjabi. So th problem is not just abroad but in th very land where punjabi originated. Here people want to know about their roots th ones that do. But over there they are being modern and see punjabi as low standard in some areas. Even my cousins won't speak it, although they are in pinds n their grandparents speak it. So it's all changing in India no wonder here nobody wants to know. The love has gone n it's all about money now.
  21. The difference now is our parents and those came before had to learn th language to live in th country, but nowadays they don't wAnt to try. And they talk this weird kind of punjabi now, not th gud old punjabi our elders spoke. Like a slang type, and it's all about th latest iPhone or sunglasses not about compassion or care within relatives, that's probably why some westerners think oh wats th point when they don't get no gratitude when they give it, but r expected to give iPhones laptops BLA bla latest toys, yet some families here get their toys from charity shops or th cheapest one for their kids as they r expensive. India has changed with kalyug, vice versa so has western countries, but like th sayin goes, thaali dho hathan nal vajdi, ek nal ni. Rant over.
  22. @panthicunity paji, wat do u have instead of milk and yoghurt? Any gud alternatives, that r nut based?
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