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Waheguru Ji, I have worked in a fertility clinic myself and I can say that from what I've seen first hand, I understand that it is the single most hardest thing a couple goes through. Not to mention the amount of money you have to give in order to have a child. I apologize ahead of time as I haven't read all the other posts so I'm sorry if this may be a repeat of what someone has already suggested. I would suggest a few things and please try to follow them as best you can: 1. Try changing both of your diets. Eat as vegan as you can. The reason I say this is because we really don't know what half of the ingredients are in what we eat. These chemicals do so much damage to our bodies and we don't even realize it. Organic is the best way you can go. 2. Cut out stress. Stress releases hormones. In a woman, hormones are produced in the lower abdomen. These organs need to balanced between progesterone and estrogen. Too much or too little of these will make the organs out of complete balance causing other issues asides from just infertility eg. Endometriosis. 3. Meditate. Meditation is the best form of soooo many things. So you can never go wrong. 4. Hukham. As hard as this is, we also have to learn to just simply trust that everything is as is in its perfectist (if that's a word) form. 5. Smile. To help overcome the anger and other negative mood symptoms you feel. Just by physically smiling or laughing can instantly change your entire body language and how it feels.

I've felt it for the longest time. Your in a good need of balance. Easier said than done. Balance you intellectual, emotional, and movement/body brain. So read gurbani and understand what is being said. Feel the love and power of your Guru. Practice sitting and doing simran. Make your daily life a conscious one by recognizing where you might be going wrong. I've brought only a little bit of information here from what was a 2 hour lecture that I listened to. If you would like to hear it then I will gladly send it to you =) We usually feel down when we are totally out of balance. How is your amritvela? Its a good starting point for someone who's feeling down and scared about the future. That and staying absolutely positive no matter what....again, easier said than done. But that doesn't mean its impossible right? Take one day at a time.

What if your the ONLY Sikh in a small town. Your with a bunch of friends and the only place to hang out is the bar? Do you expect a Sikh to sit at home and do nothing? There are a lot of questions here but if a Sikh is strong and does not let the harms of negativity get in the way...is anything wrong with that? Bringing a bottle of water from your home. Laugh, have some fun. Isn't life about balancing life and Sikhi? If what I say is wrong, then what should a person do in such a situation?

im kinda confused on this...wat is manter??

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i think u sohuld get ur friend to do alot of simran, as simran helps in any sort of situatin. tell him/her to do ardaas for his/her dad and to help his/her family. sit down as a family and disscuss problems...if u dont they could get even more seriouse. i hope this helps, im sure the sangat has better ways to give u advice though

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when you read the really inspiring posts, there is not much you can post esp when you are just a learner. keep inspiring manmukhs like me :thumbs: i agree with both of u

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its not only singh's pride, its also singhneea's pride as well. i see that many girls wearing a distraar are starting to become more materialistic. They used to be so chardikala, and follow their rehit maryada no matter what others said... and now i see them either bleaching or laser removle, even taking their distaars off! it really hurts to see girls doing this kind of stuff. There's younger kids who used to look up at them and see true singhneea, even kids as young as 5 got inspired and started wearing a distaar, now they see their 'hero' bleacing etc... i think that we just need to remind our selves that as long as Guru Ji knows ur the most beautifull person on this earth...then nothing else matters. It really truly hurts not only people who look up to u, but Guru Ji as well....y should we be embarrassed with something that Guru Ji gave us??

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Waheguroo Jee Ka Khalsa! Waheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!! i found this on another forum and thought it would be important to share with all u guys... Singh's Pride Author: warrior*princess Date: 01-21-05 07:48 vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh I'm not really sure how to start what I need to say and have been wanting to say this for a long time amongst other issues that the sangat really needs to take serious note on. It may sound like a minor concept, but somehow it means everything. In regards to Singh's, my plea is; please be proud of your beard. Just the way a lion looks so brave and courageous, the same way the beard on a Singh makes him look beautiful and true. Any Singh who is willing to leave his beard flowing, has some sort of pride and deep bravery towards Sikhi and life. This is what makes another Sikh proud upon seeing such an image. There is no need to feel alienated when walking the streets. So what if some people don't like the beard, do/did you really need their acceptance or approval!!? I think that it is all to do with self-esteem within yourself. If you wear something with pride, you will be percieved with the same notion by other eyes. Having the beard is one of things that makes a Singh complete. I have seen those that tie it back or attempt to do a tuck.. frankly it is not attractive but more importantly it seems as though the singh wants to hide and not be courageous. Ultimately, this style seems to hinder the pride of the dastaar and very image of the Singh. For those that do tie it, I don't want them to feel that i have misjudged them...who am i to judge another.. but do consider this, if you do think you are truly brave inside, then why not leave your beard free. Maybe we are lackking self-esteem here. Now Think! If this message came from a Singhni... why do you fear the opinions and thoughts of others when there are Sikhs who approve of a Singh with an open beard. Afterall, isnt being courageous one of the true features of a Singh! Let everyone see what a true Singh is made of! here's the site: Singh's Pride

this is a great site in remembering how great sikhi really is. When great gursikhs leave, many of us come together to support one another. As guru ji said "When one leaves, thousands will rise" (can't remember if thats the exact phrase)

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wahegurooooo thats such an AMAZING story veerji!!!

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