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  1. I'm offended. But since you ask, I follow Divaism. The Diva is the main Godhead. And I put my Diva in the air and wave it around like I just don't care. Now, Veer Ji, forgive me if I offend you, but I just wanted to know...why do you like your own posts? Just wanted to know because I didn't know that there were people who like their own posts on here too. Jai Diva Di
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  2. VJKK VJKF Mostly, it will be you that pays for your Karam because Maharaj also says "Karamee aapo aapne, kaaey nerdhe kaaey ddhoor". But if you do ardaas that you are deeply sorry and that you want to be forgiven then Maharaj will forgive you but that Karam that you've created by committing that sin has to go somewhere and that is where it may go to a family member. Passing to a family member will usually happen if you do ardaas in front of Guru Granth Sahib Ji with family. Then you may all get a small bit of Karam to go through each. For example, if you have a massive rash and you do ardaas in front of Maharaj, your family might all get a spot each and your rash goes away. This is what I've learnt Ji. Hope this helps Ji. Vaheguru Ji.
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  4. orthodox jews do the same and it purely money control, even now p'stani have started marrying their daughters to the prophet so they become like nuns just hold on to money and land
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  5. VJKK VJKF There are 2 things which you can/should do: 1) Tell her boss immediately and let him know what is going to happen but tell him to keep it quiet for now because you are going to carry out Step 2) 2) Anonymously, tell the police and let them know this could happen. Dasmi Paatshah gave us the kirpan to remind us of fighting injustice daily. This is a test Ji. Hope this helps. Vaheguru Ji.
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  6. And you are a fool who comes onto a Sikh forum, who firstly showcases your immense knowledge on Sikhi, but then does not have any sharam when boasting about your gay preferences... on a Sikhi forum lol. Then you have the nerve to try and act like a victim and use the whole 'I want to cut my kesh' baquas. Our community may not be perfect, but which race/religions community is perfect? Oh wait... let me guess... the gay moneh community is perfect according to you LOL
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  7. Divorce her and get her out of your life now. The reason you’re feeling suicidal is because you’re feeling helpless and cheated. Don’t be helpless! You have a way out of all this, divorce her and take the kids and good riddance. I highly doubt any court will allow children to visit a philandering mother. Don’t feel cheated, because you have beautiful children that are yours, and that need you. Staying any longer with this women will only increase suicidal and depressing thoughts. Ending your life over someone else’s mistakes is absolutely not worth it and to be honest is pointless. Do not let her failings and actions dictate your life, get out of this relationship now! Adultery is forbidden in Sikhi, so not only has this women cheated you, but she has cheated herself and the panth. She deserves no place in your life at all.
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  8. You still don’t get it, do you? It’s because you write your fantasies on here. It doesn’t matter what you are straight, gay, bi, whatever, the same would have been said, no matter whoever it was. Messed up? Maybe. Hope you’ve included yourself as part of it too. Oh yes, you wrote we, so you have. Can Admin/Mods explain to him why people are offended.
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  9. Bhai ji I would suggest couple counselling where a qualified advisor can give appropriate guidance. Session is private where you both can discuss problems separately as well as collectively. Suicide is no solution, here are some proven treatments for depression Have faith in Almighty & think about your boys rather than your wife.
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  10. I'll explain my interpretation in a bit paji, a bit roped up with university
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  11. Vaho Gurmukho_/\_, REHITVAAN EQUALS GYAN, THUS, GURU GOBIND SINGH JIO DECLARES REHIT MORE PYARI TO HIM...because, gyan that rehitvaan Sikh WILL BE ENDOWED WITH, is to unite with Vahiguroo Naam atey Gurbani, and deny human body comfort el al.. SO, REHITVAAN WOULD NEVER DO ARDAS FOR SELF COMFORT, MATERIAL GAIN ETC KURR ji_/\_. REHITVAAN GYAN ALSO ON WEB TO SHARE GYAN, AND GUIDE KEEN SEEKERS TO SEEK VAHIGUROO IN GURSHABAD, REHIT, FREEDOM FOR KURR CAPTIVITY ETC KURR DUKH...by denying kurr dukh, not expecting justice from kurr lovers...KEEP UP WITH REHIT ATEY BHAGTI, despite stumbling while trying to win Vahiguroo game of love and duty to worldly love ones_/\_ Gyan information courtesy Dhan Vaho gurmatbibek.com, per my toree matt understanding ji_/\_
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  12. 1)Die without me, never thank me. Walk right through me. Always watching, Never speaking. Always lurking, Never seen. What am I? 2) I shrink smaller every time I take a bath. What am I? 3) What room can no one enter? 4) I never was, am always to be, No one ever saw me, nor ever will And yet I am the confidence of all To live and breathe on this terrestrial ball. What am I? 5) A man is trapped in a room. The room has only two possible exits: two doors. Through the first door there is a room constructed from magnifying glass. The blazing hot sun instantly fries anything or anyone that enters. Through the second door there is a fire-breathing dragon. How does the man escape?
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  13. when it comes to translating a person is to translate as what the original is saying and not as he see's fit. The latter is the wrong way of translating. If the definition of Aarti was implied from the beginning. When I provided the line of Bhai Gurdas ji, you should have said the candle lighting was implied and their was no need for you to go searching for a different line from Bhai Gurdas ji vaars. Since no other word in the first line I provided would have inferred anything on the word aarti as it clearly implies for you; candle lit aarti. If you had believed from the beginning aarti implied candle lit aarti, then you would have not questioned what ਕਰਿ means in the line you provided of Bhai Gurdas ji vaar. Let me remind you what you wrote: That's the worst comparison I have read. Chaur sahib can't be compared to aarti as you see it, with candles. Again you are making assumptions about the candles being part of aarti. Gurbani directly tells us to wave the chaur sahib over Guru Sahib. One of the Gurus waved the chaur sahib over the other Guru and carried water for him. This is specifically said in Gurbani. Yet in Gurbani there is no mention of aarti being done with lit candles or candles at all. Hence the two cannot be compared and you can't see the difference for some reason. If aarti was clear cut, a Gurmukh would not have had to write in a book to specifically say, do not light candles and do aarti. Bhai Gurdas ji would have been precise because he was writing about what the Gurus, Gurmukhs, and manmukh did. It is no mystery Bhai Gurdas ji vaars provide us with how Sikh practices were done. One example being how charan pahul was administered. Aarti is a very important Sikh practice and Bhai Gurdas ji would have not left it to ambiguous interpretations.
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  14. Adding to what @jkvlondon said about akirtghan and exactly how bad it is: ਨਾ ਤਿਸੁ ਭਾਰੇ ਪਰਬਤਾਂ ਅਸਮਾਨ ਖਹੰਦੇ। Naa Tisu Bhaaray Prabataan Asamaan Khahanday | The sky-touching mountains also are not of much weight (than the ungrateful person). ਨਾ ਤਿਸੁ ਭਾਰੇ ਕੋਟ ਗੜ੍ਹ ਘਰਬਾਰ ਦਿਸੰਦੇ। Naa Tisu Bhaaray Kot Garhh Ghar Baar Disanday | The visible forts are also not as weighty as he (the ungrateful person) is; ਨਾ ਤਿਸੁ ਭਾਰੇ ਸਾਇਰਾਂ ਨਦ ਵਾਹ ਵਹੰਦੇ। Naa Tisu Bhaaray Saairaan Nad Vaah Vahanday | those oceans in which will the rivers merge are also not as heavy as he is; ਨਾ ਤਿਸੁ ਭਾਰੇ ਤਰੁਵਰਾਂ ਫਲ ਸੁਫਲ ਫਲੰਦੇ। Naa Tisu Bhaaray Taruvaraan Fal Suphal Faladay | the fruit laden trees are also not as heavy as he is ਨਾ ਤਿਸੁ ਭਾਰੇ ਜੀਅਜੰਤ ਅਣਗਣਤ ਫਿਰੰਦੇ। Naa Tisu Bhaaray Jeea Jant Anaganat Firanday | and nor those innumerable creatures are as heavy as he is. ਭਾਰੇ ਭੁਈਂ ਅਕਿਰਤਘਣ ਮੰਦੀ ਹੂ ਮੰਦੇ ॥੮॥ Bhaaray Bhueen Akirataghan Mandee Hoo Manday | In fact the ungrateful person is burden on earth and he is evil of evils.
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  15. I can only laugh at your immaturity and lack of thinking ability. Hindu concept of Amrit has nothing to do with Amrit which was started by Guru Gobind Singh.
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  16. Get some help to get a better understanding of how to comprehend simple stuff. In your little shallow world hindu amrit can be compared to Guru Gobind Singh's amrit.
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  17. I suggest you become a Sikh first and follow the Sikh Rehat Maryada.
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  18. Pray to God to give you some sense to understand simple stuff. Hope below helps Aarti and Sikh Maryada The Panthic Sikh Rehit Maryada, the official Sikh Code of Conduct, states: ਸ) ਉਪਰ ਦੱਸੇ ਸਾਮਾਨ ਤੋਂ ਇਲਾਵਾ ਧੂਪ ਜਾਂ ਦੀਵੇ ਮਚਾ ਕੇ ਆਰਤੀ ਕਰਨੀ, ਭੋਗ ਲਾਉਣਾ, ਜੋਤਾਂ ਜਗਾਉਣੀਆਂ, ਟੱਲ ਖੜਕਾਉਣੇ ਆਦਿ ਕਰਮ ਗੁਰਮਤਿ ਅਨੁਸਾਰ ਨਹੀਂ[ ਹਾਂ, ਸਥਾਨ ਨੂੰ ਸੁਗੰਧਿਤ ਕਰਨ ਲਈ ਫੁੱਲ, ਧੂਪ ਆਦਿ ਸੁਗੰਧੀਆਂ ਵਰਤਣੀਆਂ ਵਿਵਰਜਿਤ ਨਹੀਂ[ ਕਮਰੇ ਅੰਦਰ ਰੌਸ਼ਨੀ ਲਈ ਤੇਲ,ਘੀ ਜਾਂ ਮੋਮਬੱਤੀ, ਬਿਜਲੀ, ਲੈਂਪ ਆਦਿ ਜਗਾ ਲੈਣੇ ਚਾਹੀਦੇ ਹਨ[ d. Anything except the afore-mentioned reverential ceremonies, for instance, such practices as the Aarti (waving of a platter with burning lamps and incense set in it in vertical circular motion) with burning incense and lamps, offerings of eatables to Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, burning of lights, beating of gongs, etc., is contrary to Gurmat (the Guru's way). However, for the perfuming of the place, the use of flowers, incense and scent is not barred. For light inside the room, oil or butter-oil lamps, candles, electric lamps, kerosene oil lamps, etc., may he lighted. In the same spirit, Sant Gurbachan Singh Bhindranwale, a Gurbani scholar and saint, clearly explains what Aarti means in the Sikh religion in 'Gurbaani Paath Darpan'. In chapter of Akhand Paath maryada, page 168, Sant Ji writes: ਆਰਤੀ ੳਚਾਰਨੀ, ਦੀਵੇ ਨਹੀਂ ਬਾਲਣੇ,ਕੇਵਲ ਸ਼ਬਦ ਪੜਨੇ ਅਤੇ ਕੀਰਤਨ ਕਰਨਾ, ਫਿਰ ਕੜਾਹ ਪ੍ਰਸ਼ਾਦ ਵੰਡਣਾ ਅਤੇ ਖੁੱਲਾ ਲੰਗਰ ਕਰਨਾ। "Do Aarti, don't light lamps, only read Shabads of Aarti and Do Kirtan, then distribute Karah Parshad and have open Langar."
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  19. We don't do Arti with divas. Full stop.
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  20. Absolutely agree with this post. But the problem is that in Western countries, like the US/UK, its hard to have large families living in the same region due to work and financial differences. I think its one thing to be surrounded by fellow Sikhs, but another to be surrounded by family. So its possible to live in a Sikh area in the West, but its very difficult to surround yourself with family. That's why you have Islamic sexual grooming cases happening with Sikh girls so often in the UK. Also, having plenty of siblings is a must. Not only for Sikh population growth, but also for companions that help/protect/share with you. Children with multiple siblings are far less vulnerable to converting out than a single child for example.
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  21. Just had a look. Its amazing. Wish we had a Gurdwara like that in the UK. Amazing design inside out. I liked how plain and simple the decor was. Nothing to overpowering.
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