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  1. This. People like tend to want to race through Nitnem like we're on a Forumula1 raceway. Of course one's mind is going to wander if you do that. But Guru Nanak Ji did one great favor to denizens of Kaljug: They composed Bani in poetry. This immensely helps wandering minds to focus, but only if we swim the current, not against it. And that's why the 1.5 hour Nitnem I referenced above is so useful for wandering minds. Your mind just stays naturally within the bounds of the music/beat, thereby not straying far from the Shabad.
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  2. Thank you for the links and your search. I have no relatives in India unfortunately. I have been using Sikhistore for the past few years (great service) but there Royal Blue colour is not consistent. It also fades too much. Will check out the other links too. Also came across www.khalsastore.com in India. Might just make a trip to Punjab soon and make a contact to ship over when needed. Thank you. Vaheguru
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  3. Go see a therapist. It's the best money you will ever spend and this issue won't haunt you for the rest of your life. It doesn't get better even after you get married because your addicted. So you will cause a huge amount of pain to the person who you love most. My husband and I are dealing with this now, and i cant tell you how painful and upsetting the whole thing is for everyone involved. Sorry for the harsh words but please believe me.
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  4. bro , you may think going with a pro is going to solve your problem , it isn't, it will increase your conflict internally, because you will feel guilty about giving into your base instincts instead to respecting yourself . Why not let your first be someone you actually care for and want to remember ? why don't you have amrit , it has zero to do with your career ... is there ever going to be a perfect time ? life has no guarantees better to action your commitment to Guru ji than delay it . Do you think you want to get married ? BTW most blondes are bottle ones and they are just the same as other women... sorry to bust your bubble, I know why you fetishize them it's your viewing choices. p.s. with your online viewing habits you should realise it is a very damaging pastime.
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