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" Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! " I want to know that: 1) Are Amritdhari women aloud to wear bridal bangle's (Churah)? 2) Is an Amritdhari women aloud to wear a langha, saree, etc... on their wedding day? 3) What type of jewelry are they aloud to wear? That's all I want to know for the time being, but I'll contact you all for more topics that I am confused about. " Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! "
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i am not but i do paath daily,i am doing this since a year(wake up at amritvela and do paath) but nothing special has happened,now i am bit confused with the existance please help me if you can,if god exist i dnt want to leave path,but if it does not i dnt want to spend whole life in confusion. I was thinking about the existance of god and how we know that the god exist. Following points come in my mind:- 1.if waheguru loves us then why makes us suffer in the pains of birth and death,if i loved some one i will never do to him.or does this mean waheguru dnt love us. 2.why they created so much vikars and obstacles in this world it just make more difficult to reach them …
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Hi, This has probably been discussed before but it's something I can't really wrap my head around. I'm a singh with full beard and have cousins who are the same, we are finding it difficult to find Sikh girls as life partners. The ones I've been introduced to have a problem with me not cutting my beard and being vegetarian etc... few have asked me if I would cut my beard etc... this coming from supposedly Sikh girls and it's quite disgraceful. I've had more interest from girls who are not Sikh...i.e Gujarati, English girls etc.. who don't seem to care about me being a full singh, it's raising questions in my head about the future of Sikhi as a whole, our Sikh g…
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WJKK WJKF I am a Sikh guy from Delhi. I want to ask a question about Sikh girls, virginity and sex before marriage. But first, I want to tell you about what has driven me to come here and ask this question. I used to like a girl in the final year of my school. She used to like me too. We used to blush a lot while talking to each other and We used to talk to each other a lot. We told each other about our feelings and felt good about it. Later we went to different colleges. One day there was a cultural event in her college, I came to know of it from my friends in that college, and thought I should surprise her. I went there with my friends and saw her with some …
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Sanjog, Marriage, Destiny, & Free Will 1 2 3
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I just have afew questions that I would like your help and thoughts on, as I have been thinking alot about life lately and on this aspect. I believe/think that in terms of marriage your sanjog is already. Your husband/wife is already chosen for you at birth (like the saying in wedding cards) and it is just a matter of Waheguru brining the two people together on this earth. Then I question and think of how come so many people are getting divorced even after they have been married 10/15 years or more/less. But then I think of someone couples, how they met the situation etc and think no sanjogs are written, its true. First of all, if sanjog is written then how come in thi…
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh I found an article on another forum about a Sikh who embraced Islam. So i decided to write a topic about this issue so that the sangat can understand why they converted. Based on my own personal experiences too so that the sangat can get there head around this issue. So why do most of the Sikhs who have embraced other religions, what were there reasons?: MISUNDERSTANDING SIKHI. For starters few either got misguided that the Guru Nanak was a muslim because he performed the hajj and try to say that Sikhism is a sect of Islam. ANSWER: Guru Nanak when he was asked by a muslim what are you hindu or muslim his answer was neithe…
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Why Do All Marriages Between Sikh Women And Non-Sikh Men End In Divorce? 1 2 3 4 7
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I've noticed virtually every sikh woman who foolishly dated and married someone outside their faith have had their marriages end in divorce. Most of these women tend to have married white atheist/Christian men and it always ends very badly very bitter divorces. There was this one punjaban i got to know called [ModCut- NAMES ARE NOT ALLOWED] she married her white boyfriend and divorced 2 years later after she caught him cheating and now shes letting herself being used and abused by guys in clubs and one night stands in online dating sites. Another punjabi girl i knew who was from south england kent she dressed up like a goth and was into the satanic dark heavy metal scene…
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I am getting married but my singni is very very shy. I remember when parents told her to hold my hand to engagement then she was not ready to hold it. when forced whe started crying. I was wondering how should i proceed on wedding night. we have been talking for baout 9 months but she is very shy. Should i just talk to her little and just sleep normally for few days and wait for her to get comfortable. Or i should wait untill she tell me. I am confused. Frankly speaking after waiting for very long time , now my urgew for sex has been finished and i am very less interested in it. I can even spend months without touhcing her. But then will the girl feel bad about that …
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No ninda just straight facts and truths 1-swearing in maharajs presences last year when he challenged damdami taksal 2- He pooped and peed his pants when he was being beat up by singhs and had to hide with bahyai until arrived to find him trembling 3 - He has security forces from government and speaks much trash with ego nowadays 4 - When he went to america he made sangat take off big kirpans or sri sahibs Etc. I cant recall much more information but I think taksal mehta is innocent. Sant baba harnam singh 1- no security guards or government cars besides singhs just lies by dadrianwale. 2- Shaheedi Yadgarh. No one else could make…
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WJKK WJKF So i was wondering was it Khalistanis that killed Chamkila? I don't think anyone has been arrested, i don,t even think there was an investigation! but lots of people say it was khalistanis who did it because he used dirty lyrics etc I have nothing against Khalistanis, but if it was them then wasn't the murder outside the realm of religion, politics, Sikhs being suppressed etc Killing a corrupt politician or any man in power who has murdered Sikhs is understandable, but a singer and his wife? ...
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Sex And Sleeping With Kirpan 1 2 3
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VJKK VJKF Pira Saadh Sangat please help! I have a few question about the wearing of the Kirpan. I undarstand once we take Amrit it becomes a part of the ank (body part). So when we have sex what are we ment to do, and also when we go to sleep. To help keep my faith and sanchaar I have 2-3inch kirpan which i waer around my neck at all times as a back up. Am I doing anything wrong what should i realy be doing. PLEAS HELP THIS SIKH bull chuck maff VJKK VJKF
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Hello Everyone, Can you prove there is a God???
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Hello, I wanted to know how someone could control masturbation and lust. I'm currently having this problem and would like to stop.
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I recently have been to a wedding at a Gudwara and was amazed to see so many Sikh women wearing the wrong type of clothing inside the Gudwara. I saw many women wearing low cut tops, sleeveless suits, sarees suits, low cut suits on the back, tight trouser suits and also when sitting in front of the Gurugranth Sahib their heads were not covered or half covered. I very much thought this to be extremely derogatory and a huge lack of respect to our Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji. Its not a fashion show to go to the gurdwara!! I wanted to know what are the sangats views on this and what can be better done to put sense into these people who do these things. Is this the modern Sikh…
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waheguruji ka khalsa waheguruji ki fateh! i want to chuk Amrit soon....and even though i follow the sikh principles...i want to make sure that i keep my rehit pakheee from now..so i need some help please...could someone post all the rehitname or provide the link where i could have a look at the rehits that an amritdhari should be keeping please? im tryin to prepare my-self before amrit sinchaar... thank you waheguruji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh!
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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