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satsriakal sab nu i am thinking of trimming my beard and i am not sure to do it or not.please anyone suggest why to do it or why not? dhanyavaad
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where to keep Gita? ramayan? vedas? 1 2
by Guest veer- 14 replies
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WJKK WJKF i have copies of some hindu scriptures like the gita, ramayan, upanishads etc. i just bought them basically to learn about them. in my top self i keep zafarnama bani, jaap sahib bani and shri dasam granth. its right at the top above head level. im not sure where to place these hindu granth though! couple of shelves down i keep all my other random books about art, history, magazines etc. and thats where iv stacked all the hindu granths i have. its just the other day i was thinking should i keep these granths with more respect rather than just stacked like any other book!
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15th Is Guru Gobind Singh Jis Avtar
by Guest ?- 6 replies
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waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh sangat ji sorry, but on the 15th is the avtar of guru gobind singh ji, what does this mean? is it when he first became guru or not? BHULL CHUKK MAAAF KARNI JI!!!
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Does this require pesh? I am confused and concerned 1 2
by Guest Confused_Singh- 10 replies
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I did post this yesterday however I am not sure whether it didn’t come through or the admins thought it was a joke or someone being silly and did not allow it. However I can assure you that albeit it sounds quite silly and quite yucky I am genuine asking this question to the cyber sangat for advise as I don’t know whether this scenario requires to be brought for peshi or not. There is two parts to this: I know this sounds silly and a little yucky but I tend to pick my nose regular as I get a build up (possibly because I have a lot of nostril hair) and many times when I pick my nose some nostril hair gets picked out with it. Is this wrong? Should I be more care…
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Which Uk Party Should Sikhs Vote For ?
by Guest gill- 5 replies
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Please who should uk sikhs vote in the coming european mep and general election, which parties is for the sikhs.
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Loss of faith after marriage and depression
by Guest Incompatible- 9 replies
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Thoughts are on what people do when their marriage is troubling and not the greatest feel God has forsaken me
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I want to move to London for my University course? 1 2
by Guest Kaur- 14 replies
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So im 22 years old and i am thinking about moving to London to do a postgrad course. But as a sikh girl that isnt married i just feel like it would not be appropriate. What do you think ?
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Results from Higher School Certificate - someone help
by Guest lost- 4 replies
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I got my results from my Higher School Certificate today.... they are horrible. I was expecting somewhere in the mid 90's, but all my marks are in the high 70's to low 80's. I honestly dont understand, I worked really hard for this. I didn't do too great in the external exams, but this is rock bottom! I believe I am a decent Sikh, I have never really committed a kurehat, I do my paath and simran daily. I have yet to chakk amrit, but I try to follow the path of a Gursikh on a daily basis. I got an ardaas done at the Gurudwara for my results, did 201 jaaps of Chaupee sahib and numerous other paaths and ardaas. I know that I shouldnt have expected much, but I seeked the…
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Should I Leave? Should I Punch Him? Should I Completely Ignore Him?
by Guest -Confused-- 9 replies
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Vjkk. Vjkf. I would like the honest opinions about this post from the sangat, please. I really, REALLY need to know what I should do, & I'm not about to ask my parents what they think. My uncle (youngest brother of mom) married my aunt 2+ years ago. Exactly 4 weeks ago, my aunt announced that she was 7 weeks pregnant. She didn't seem too pleased & we were confused 'cause we know that she & my uncle really wanted a child. 2 weeks ago, she told us (the extended family), that 3 weeks ago she found out that her husband, my uncle, has been cheating on her, & that he still is. She told us that she found out he has been cheating on her since half a year ago.…
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Forginess/hurt
by Guest *- 6 replies
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i know this isnt sum sort of aginy aunt thing bt i have no 1 else to turn to..mm i reeli feel hurt n upset with some1...they did sumthing to me nt purposely bt wich cudnt b helped...they are one of my closest gursikh freinds..and now i cnt bring myself to talk 2 them ..even tho they have apologised n no that they hurt me..i dnt no wt 2 say to them..i feel if i dnt talk 2 them soon..my sikhi will suffer reeli much..i cnt even do my nitnem or concentrate on bani cuz of wt happened..bt i jus dnt no wt 2 do...please cn u help me sangat ji..i have no1 else to turn too.. Bull chukk muaff.. Daas..
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Negativity 1 2
by Guest _gupt_- 10 replies
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Gurfateh, Okayt this might seem abit wierd to ppl here but some days I feel real good but sometimes i don't. For instance, im currently in my second year at uni and when i'm at home or with my close friends outside of uni then i'm kewl.However when i go into uni, when it is rammed. sonetimes my mind kinda picks up all the negativity around me which brings me down. Does anyone else ever experience this, like at uni or anywhere else.???
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Real Kirtan Instruments?!?!
by Guest Sikh- 2 replies
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Sat Siri Akaal ji veere, I just have an urgent question. Can you please tell me which Kirtan instruments were used before the british "Vaaja/Baaja" came? I mean what kind of instruments Guru jis played with , bhai mardana etc.. I really want to learn - I have this strong feeling and this is my only chance because my parents are recently in india and I hope I can beg to them that they can buy me a instrument.. Because I dont kno where to buy.. I just saw a video on youtube which instrument is this?? Sarangi , Tanti Saaj? I dont know the real diffence please tell me.. I really want to learn it.. because I can identify myself with these vibes and tunes... please!! …
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Tabla Problems
by Guest Kirtani- 7 replies
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh ... I was hoping that someone would have a useful tips for me ... I've learnt how to play the vajja but find it slightly difficult to keep in beat with teh tabla because i don't get any practice with a table..... theres nobody i know who can play the tabla or help me out..... i was hoping if theres anyone in the sangat who can suggest anything... Thank you, your help will be appreciated
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Where To Sit?
by Guest Kaur- 7 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka Khalsa vaheguru ji ke fateh I have a question I hope you can help me with. At my local gurdwara in the langar hall there is mostly tables and chairs, and a very small area for eating langar whilst sitting on the floor, say for about ten people max. Hardly anyone sits on the floor to eat langar, however I choose to sit there and also my children sit with me too. Many times we are the only ones eating langar whilst sitting on the floor, whilst rest of the sangat is sitting at the tables and chairs. Now should langar be eaten all at the same level? Therefore should I be joining the majority by sitting at a table and chair? I do feel sometimes feel I am singl…
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How To Improve Confidence
by Guest Shy Guy- 9 replies
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SSA well I am having some confidence and social skills problems. Since I left uni I have not had a job and basicaly just not had much interaction with people for a long time hence i think my social skills have gone down. I have also never had a job and just been supported by family. I just wanted to know that does working, improve your social skills and confidence? Sometimes I feel that I am a step behind people who have worked for years. and have built up their scoial skills and confidence from years of interaction with people. Hence I was thinking they have a head start on me. If I got a job would this improve my confidence and social skills And improve my abilit…
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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