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WJKK WJKF I'm 16 and this's a question I struggle with. Becoming an amritdhari is the first step in Sikhi and everyone says you don't have to be perfect to take that first step. I really want to give my head to the Guru and be committed. I do nitnem, kirtan, Simran daily, I follow everything I'm supposed to and I'm always trying improve as a Sikh. Kaam is my only problem, I'm trying so hard to get rid of my habits, but they've been going on for a few years. Although, in the past few months I've significantly reduced my kaami actions. At this point it's minimal but it still hits me now and then. Will it be ok for me to take khande bate di paul? If not, any tips to help g…
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Is it OK to have non-sexual affairs outside of marriage?
by Guest Amrit Gill- 0 replies
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I want to help my best friend, I want to know if Gurbani has a tukk or explanation about situation like this: My best friend recently told me about a guy she dates online, there is no sexual relation and nor she is thinking of doing anything like that, I do trust her in this. She has been married for 21 years and have 3 kids. According to her, her married life is very normal, good, no fights with her husband but she clams that she have found a person who she can talk about love or share things (again, I am not talking about sexual related things). Also she says her husband is simple guy who doesn't think too much about emotions of any kind so he have never shared anythin…
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Is it ok to listen to Nitnem? 1 2
by Guest Jacfsing2- 18 replies
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Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh! I wanted to know if it's ever ok to just listen to Nitnem without physically doing it due to some reason? Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh!
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Is It Ok To Overnight In(Unfamiliar) Gurdwaras? Read First.
by Guest Singh- 6 replies
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Sat Siri Akaal Sangat ji, So recently I had the Idea of travelling the world /my country . But due to my low budget ( I am still studying) I couldnt afford hotels/motels and all that stuff. So I had the Idea to just overnight for 1 night in a unfamiliar Gurdwara would it be ok ? Would the Gurdwaras (Comitees) even .allow this? Would they welcome me? I am Sikh as well and I wont do any harm to the Gurdwara etc.. its just for overnight ( i dont even need pillows or stuff like that) I would Matha Tekh and everything as usual , And what if none Sikhs would accopany me? ( The non Sikhs are good people as well.. no strangers or smth . I know them for several years) . I thi…
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Is it ok?
by Guest Singh- 3 replies
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I was just wondering if someone could tell me if it's ok to put Akhand Paath Sahib audio on mp3 and listen to it or do you have to still follow Akhand Paath Sahib Maryada even if you're just listening.
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http://www.spiritvoyage.com/shopping/detai...?SKU=DVD-002376 i thought sikhs weren't allowed?
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Is It Okay To Have Kaami Thoughts/Act On Kaami Thoughts Towards Wife 1 2 3
by Guest singh- 20 replies
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Something popped up in my mind not long ago. I was wondering about how people say that if your having really bad kaami thoughts/lustful thoughts etc that you need to get married. So is it okay to have these kaami thoughts for your wife? is it okay to act on these thoughts, i mean is that why people say to get married... does it make it okay? I know it might sound silly. but i just wanted an answer thanks
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Is It Okay To Show 1984 Movie In Darbar? 1 2
by Guest Gupt 84- 11 replies
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Is it beadbi to show a movie about 1984 (such as the one on history channel), i n Darbar, while Parkash of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji is done?
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Any views, shabds or Sakhi/ stories?
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Is It Possible To Stay At Babe Ke Farm?
by Guest Babe Ke Farm- 0 replies
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Babe Ke Farm, Snitterfield. Is this place open to all or it is privately owned. Is it a working farm run by singhs. Is it somewhere where you can live a simpler life? Is there anywhere in the uk which is similar where one can visit?
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I'm here because I now feel that either the teachings, teachers, interpretations or the followers of Sikhism themselves are in the wrong or being guided with malacious intent. My use of word malicious is intentional because I have started to feel the maliciouness. My childhood Sikh friends have closed "Only Sikh" chat groups where they share Hindu jokes about coward Hindus, impotent Hindus, Hindu whores etc. I got to know as a misdirected forwards got sent to our common group. I've stopped going to gurudwaras because I hear and feel a common theme of country of Hindus, government of Hindus, cow-urine-drinking-rat-monkey idolising Hindus, coward Hindus and Lion Sikhs etc. …
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Is It Right To Ask Guru Ji For This
by Guest gupt- 8 replies
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I dont know why, but i have this pull in me, a lot now... I've had this pull all throughout my life, even when I was a little kid to leave the world behind and be in the sangat of Singhs and be given seva for the panth. I want Guru Ji to let me be able to give some type of kurbani to him and have some big seva ready for me in my life, seva for khalsa panth. I ask guru ji to give me strength to punish panthic dushts and if able it would be a honor to become shaheed for guru ji. But while i think about my push to see my life in this manner, is it wrong, I cant understand the push but sometimes i think am i stuck in a fantasy world where i would be remembered as a shaheed …
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Is It Right To Date
by Guest Some1- 1 reply
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Okk... Im not sure if this might sound right to you guys... but i need to know if it is right to date girls. (im a man) It happens alot today but that does not mean it is right. I don't know if it is wrong if u just be friends and watever and like go out and have a good time like have dinner or go to a movie or etc. i know messing around is wrong but wah if u dont mess around? cuz u feel an urge to have a boyfiend or girlrfriend and can't stop it cuz it's natural and GOD put it in u. Like can't u jus be friends or someting? I need replies!!! WJKK WJKF
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Ok so where do I begin? Umm, well I have many problems but I think the biggest one for me, the one that makes me cry to sleep would be school. I used to be a munmukh back like 4 years ago and I always had good marks I was a role model everyone in my family including relatives loved me. I eventually took Amrit and started facing some problems with guru Ji's Kirpa I stood tall and ignored everything. I went to India 2 years later and I got very sick there my body started shaking a lot, especially my head and I cried a lot. I went to many different hospitals and when I finally came back home to Canada we found out that i was dealing with depression. I got hooked up on medic…
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Is It This Hard To Find A Gursikh Singhi? 1 2 3
by Guest Gupt_singh- 25 replies
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Vjkk vjkf, So iam in my mid 20s. I am searching for a singhni to marry. I got a solid job. But the more i look the more i am getting confused. Most matarimonial sites want to know your caste and other stuff. These are issues which always beeing brought up: Caste? Maryada? Which jathebandi are you? I get the qeustion to ask if the guys has a solid job etc. Thats normal, without a job you can not provide. Am I the only one whos is confused about the caste qeustion coming from a amirtdhari? Is it this hard to find a simple gursikh singhni?
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then.
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Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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