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The incident happened few days back. It was afternoon. Dad called mom , but mom was bathing after doing household chores , so she couldn't pick call. Then dad called my wife and asked her "What all has pantry run out of . Let me know." to which my wife replied "I don't know . Mom might be knowing" to which my dad got pissed off and said "How come you don't know ? you too work in kitchen. are you just there to eat" . My wife got sulked out of this and maintained the typical 'fat face' till evening. She could have ignored dad's scoldings and even learned from it . But apparently father in law is only good when he brings good things for her and he does always . When my mom a…
Last reply by MisterrSingh, -
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh I would like to take Amrit, maybe not just yet but I really want to, my wife does is not into the idea. We are both into Sikhi, as is my wife, we do Parth go Gurdwara but she does says she doesnt want to take that extra step. Guru Kirpa that we both take it. But if she doesn't, will I still be able to?
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I know eating meat and eggs is wrong. In fact no one in the family does and never has. I know gurbani says it is wrong, but I cant find proof anywhere. Can I get help fron sangat to answer those who say guru granth sahib doesnt say eating meat and eggs is not allowed
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Hi I’m trying to compile a list of old school Punjabi names similar to Ajmer, Zorawar, Jarnail, Bani, Bhago, etc no -deep, -preet, -jeet, -leen, -winder -minder -pals please If anyone has any beautiful Sikh/Punjabi names they like feel free to share ?
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Friends, I have a singh friend who would like to be wedding to a singh. What is Sikhisms saying about this? I know there are very knowledgable individual out in this forum and only these knowledgeable peoples should reply. The question is can a singh marry a singh to further their spiritual needs/can a singh marry a singh who would be willing to become a singhni in the quest for spirituality. These issue has been raised within the local Gurdwara committee and the names of the individuals have been kept gupt by myslef. We have concluded that we need to seek the answers from other prominent and knowledged sikhs around the globe before we appeal to the Akal Takth, t…
Last reply by Mehtab Singh, -
my parents won't let me date. i really like this girl too and she's nice, smart and pretty. i get A's and always listen to my parents. i even do shabaths. how do i convince my parents to let me date? they won'y even let me hang out with girls or talk to them at all!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mature replies only please. To the OP - I would encourage you to search the forum for topics on dating, I am sure you will find the answer to your question in previous topics.
Last reply by KHaNdA_NaTioN, -
Vaheguru Je Ka Khalsa, Vaheguru Je Ke Fateh I have been wanting to tie a dastaar for a few years now and will one day hopefully soon, but I have noticed that some Sikhs, (particularly men and aunties) see a woman with a dastaar on as ugly? I never really gave this much of a thought, however now it's making me think, how will I find a husband if everyone thinks I am ugly? I know how I sound, and I also don't really know what I am asking, but, do we really look, ugly? Do you really think dastaar on amritdhari women should not be allowed? Why is it that amritdhari men are so against having a spouse that JUST LIKE THEM, has respect for their Guru Ji and loves their crown…
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WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA, WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH I have a message to the Sangat Guru Gobind Singh Jee has given us Bana as one of the 5 pillars of Sikhism BANA bani seva simran and shastar but why do i see very few people wearing Bana on a daily basis? why do you wear kalljug clothes when Guru Gobind Singh has given you his beautiful Bana in Sri Sarbloh Granth, Guru Gobind Singh Jee says, Khalsa mero roop hai khas - the khalsa is my true image/form so if you are a khalsa, why do you not look like Guru Gobind Singh? if you have taken amrit and refuse to wear bana, then why did you take amrit? Sri Singh Sahib Yogi Harbhajan Khalsa said 'most sikhs hate bana and some of yo…
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are you allowed to go to the gurudwara when ur on your period? if not, how comes?
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I'm inlove with this guy and I don't know what to do. We both used to be close last year. He hugged me everyday and we used to sit in sangat together like everyday. We did Charan dhoor together too. He told me that I was the best sister ever. I used to think of him as a brother but my feelings changed and I never told him. He made me so happy. Then one day he stopped talking to me I became invisible and I didn't exist for him anymore. I didn't know why and I still don't know why. I became very upset and it took me awhile to put myself together. Recently I started thinking about him and I miss the old days. I sent him a msg telling him how I feel. His exact words were If u…
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WJKK WJKF I am already engaged but I am taking amrit before my wedding next spring, my spouse will take amrit later as she is not at the this stage yet. My question is can we eat eachothers Jhoot once we are married (after Anand Karaj in front of SGGS)? Not asking if we can get married, just asking if we can eat each others jhoot... cuz punjabi culture has wedding ceremonies were couple eats in same plate... I mean if we are going to have a physical relationship, what is wrong with jhoot? Bhul Chuk Maaf. Guru Ang Sang
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waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh Sangat Ji, I'm a regular attender 2 the Gurdwara Sahib, Singh Sabha southall, (the new Gurdwara). I enjoy going to the Gurdwara alot and love to sit there for @ least an hour and find peace, however for the past couple of days I'm not really being able to pay attention 2 my meditation @ the Gurdwara because ther is this new Gyani, he's been in the Gurdwara for a couple of months now, quite young, and I dont like the way he acts, I'm finding it uncomfortable now. I dont know what to do, because at first I thought its just be being stupid, he has a limp and thought he cant be one of "those" people who are Guru Ji's on one side bu…
Last reply by singh_sandhu, -
VahegurooJeeKaaKhalsaa VahegurooJeeKeeFatehe!! So sangatjee Who are Neeldhari? Last month some far relatives of mine who are Neeldhari married off their son in a Neeldhari Dera (as they mentioned it), and the Laavaan didn't take place around Guroo Maharaj but Fire (Havan?). They believe in Guroo Maharaaj but at the same time a Sant, I am sorry but I don't know about his kamaaee so I won't comment. But looking at the videos on youtube the sangat bows before him as well in the hazoori of Maharaaj. I am just confused about who they are. Are they a sect from Namdharis? Or what? I am curious. Also please don't use offensive language, Gursikhs don't need that to get their w…
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well, ive learnt a lot about sikhi..... i used to do my eyebrows, remove facial hair (on upperlip) well ive stopped with all this, and i want to seriously start to follow guru ji's path at first i started with full confidence.. but now the facial hair is getting more....i get very insecure.. it feels like my classmates just stare at the hair,, my family would torture me, even my dad... i just cant accept the fact... that this hair is coming back, and coming back worse.. i feel so sad, but i cant turn my guru ji down some [close 2 me] recommend to do laser how can i do this, this is fooling the world, but not fooling guru ji but guru ji can do incredible things, …
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Would guys like their partners in marriage to be virgins? The reason I am asking is becos I know some girls who have slept around during their time at college and univerisity and are comin to marriage age...and now they are fretting whether if they can find decent guys for marriage.