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Hair all over face
by Guest Ehdjxi- 6 replies
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Hair is growing all over face including forehead cheeks everywhere is that normal and what can I do
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I feel un-necessary sad, frnds contact me when they have some work only. So now distanced myself from such selfish people. But maybe i am suffering from depression now . Is there any path or a pankti that i can repeat continuously to cure this un-necessary sadness. Age 26 I was supposed to marry a girl, but she backed off 5 months ago deserting me behind. But i don't think its because of her, it's a problem regarding my inner self. I know only path can cure it for sure. Sarab dukha ka aukhadh naam Name of Lord is medicine to every problem. Plz suggest something.
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Depression to numbness
by Guest singhni- 6 replies
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Sangat ji, Generally, for the last 2 years I have been dealing with my depression. There have been ups and downs, but I have completely lost any faith I ever had. I was blessed with Amrit 3 years ago, but when my depression started to really get me down, my Paath gradually decreased, and now I can't remember the last time I sat down to read and paath, or to recite simran or listen to kirtan. I have many distractions of which I can't escape from, and I do feel like of all times, now is that hardest for me to try to get back up. But this needs to happen now, I am now at a point where I am so numb when I am talking about all of this - I don't feel like I want to get bac…
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Wedding Questions: Mixed religion & race??
by Guest Abominari- 6 replies
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Hello. My Indian Jatt Sikh boyfriend proposed last month. I accepted. We're very much inlove. I've been trying to look up how mixed race/mixed religions combine their 'ideals & traditions'. I'm a White British atheist but have always wanted the traditional white dress. I also love the Sikh weddings, and of course will be having a very traditional Sikh wedding. I've seen that some people, through YouTube videos, have 2 marriage ceremonies... one Sikh and one non-religious/very western... is this a pretty common option, to have both? Is there not a way to put aspects of my dream wedding within the Sikh marriage ceremony? Or would it be best to do 'my' side of …
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absolute vs relative morality
by Guest Haridas- 6 replies
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What is relative morality? It means basing your morals on what those around you are doing. E.g. everyone else drinks (alcohol) so why shouldn't I drink? Everyone else lies and steals should why shouldn't I? Mindless conformity. And what is absolute morality? Morality that is timeless, that your inner conscience tells you (and common sense) is right, and that is often expressed by higher principles. E.g. Drinking alcohol is immoral. Lying is wrong. Stealing is wrong. And even if 99% of the people around me may engage in these things, I won't, on this basis. This is intelligence based on individuality. The point in this post is that I think too many peop…
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Life...
by Guest ~guru ji's daughter..- 6 replies
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" Really, what good aare people/friends/family? Yes, they do mean the world to us at the time. However, if you were single-handedly alone, would they come? comfort you? No, guru jis is the one. He will never leave any of his children. We are his life, and he is ours." " How do i even describe, what runs through my mind? Well, what runs through someones mind who is confused, worrried, and numb all over? Guru ji will save me." " Why do i feel like im not worth it? Arn't all of guru jis creations worth something? The contentness and joy i used to feel has evaportated. My heart feels heartless, and my soul feels soul-less. Oh!, almighty guru ji sav…
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Simran
by Guest _GUPT_- 6 replies
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Recently, I feel like crying and feel sad when Im doing Simran. Has anyone been through this as well?
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Last night i dreamt of marrying a white man.
by Guest Kaur- 6 replies
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Last night I dreamt I was getting married to this white man. It was a love marriage and i was in my wedding lengha and he was in a suit. All my family were there and it felt so surreal. We were going to cut the cake when he just started cutting it himself into pieces. I tried to tell him that we have to wait and my family have to be here when we cut the cake. He wasnt listening to me and just ignored me. The dream ended with my family talking about this guy and mw saying i think i made a mistake. Btw the whole dream was based in his house. I know there are many people who dont believe dreams hold any significant meaning but i do. Plus this really <banned wor…
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Marriage woes
by Guest Depressedsikh- 6 replies
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Wjjkk wjkf I sometimes wonder if marriage, kids and everything we have been told is a lie. I ended up getting an arranged marriage and it has been a disaster. I know everything is hukam. I had a very happy life and really encourage the Sangat, marry someone who has the same spiritual background as you. To parents, don't pressure your children.
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mobile Personal Hukamnama
by Guest leo sardarni- 6 replies
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Is a personal hukamnama taken/received through a mobile phone via internet still valid ? please explain
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Status if the Gurus
by Guest St01- 6 replies
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What is the main belief in regards to the 10 gurus ? I've come across a few different beliefs and I'm a bit confused - this is what I've heard, can someone tell which one is correct - 1) guru means someone that's takes you from darkness to light ie guide that is divinely inspired - kind of like a prophet of the Abrahamic faiths - they were human mortals that had reached a high as status with waheguru 2) gurus were Waheguru in human form - kind of like Jesus in Christianity - someone also told me the gurus didn't have children conventuallt but all were born like Jesus as God in human form can't have Sex. 3) Guru Nanak was like God in human form but the oth…
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Kesi Ishnaan
by Guest ishnaantothemax!- 6 replies
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vjkk vjkf! Sadhu Sangatt Ji, Das does not do keshi ishnaan every day. I only do pinda b/c with going to school and having a paaree kesh that doesn't dry fast its hard to get ready and dry my hairs and everything. So some questions: 1. Can or can you not do bani / simran while you have your wet hair down and drying.(head still covered) I'm thinking this is a no for sure b/c I know i've read about how the coiled hair on top of the dasum dwar acts similarly to an electromagnetic coil does and concentrates the affect of your abhiyas. 2. How do you guru-piareh who do keshi ishnaan every morning with heavy kes dry your hair? piareh bheneh and veereh yo…
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Someguy
by Guest Rehras Sahib and Cha- 6 replies
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Hey guys. So I know this is gonna turn into arguement but, could someone tell me which rehras sahib(i.e taksal, short one etc) do saints. And for chaupi sahib as well?
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Funny videos
by Guest Kaur 2- 6 replies
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Here are some funny videos that made me laugh. I felt like we needed jusreign on this forum. The eggnog part made me laugh so much. This one is so true when I eat goray food. This one is my favourite. Enjoy!!!!!!! VJKK VJKF
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Desi and other words meaning
by Guest Somrguy- 6 replies
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What doed desi mean. Ive heard it sometimes but dont know the meaning. Also what about salaa?
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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