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Arranged Marriage
by Guest _nobody special_- 5 replies
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Hiya theres something thats been buggin me and i wanted ask people here on what you thought.......well ive never had a girlfriend/boyfriend and was thinking that if i had an arranged marriage would that i was a failure and that i couldnt attact anyone one on my own???..............ive also never done ANYTHING physical with anyone so would my husband/wife look down on me or think negatively if they had been with others before me???.....i would like to ideally marry someone who has also waited BUT with todays people i dont think that gona happen......should i in the end wait for someone has waited or just you know ( not trying to be offensive here but its come out like this…
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Anyone Know This Tune?
by Guest guest**- 2 replies
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Vaheguru Jee Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Jee Kee Fateh! I am looking to find a keertan track/video of this tune; normally Sant Baba's sing it at smagams etc: "Dhan Hai Dhan Hai Dhan Hai, Guru Nanak Dev Jee Dhan Hai" If anyone can post the link for me please or post the vaja notation for this tune, that would be great! Thank you, Vaheguru Jee Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Jee Kee Fateh!
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this is not a good thing for an amritdhari to say but hanji: me and another singh are very close now and we want to take it to a dating level. someone told me it is wrong and i always thought it was wrong but then how do you get married? i will of course leave that to guruji but logically you have to know the guy first! we are both amritdhari. we are 18/19 so not to young and not to old. i plan on getting engaged aroung 21 so this is a good age i think. but i do not want to dissapoint my guru. could i get some input and sangat jeee please dont run around the bush and judge. there is no space for retarded comments. jus give a st8 answer in which this low person can under…
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Concert In Gurdwara
by Guest Dhan Guru- 4 replies
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Do you think its right to get a Gurdwara hall and then hold a concert in it when you could easily do Kirtan in Gurus Darbar? Is this not a violation of maryada? I hard Raj Academy are holding yet another concert in a gurdwara
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hey bro's and sisters i need help. i was always a reli happy person always laughing and joking nothing used to get me down. but like 2 years ago things changed. i was having sum fam probs and it was reli getting me down. i used to punch walls and just not talk to anyone. this happned for ages. when i used to get upset i used to talk to my g/f about it all and it helped so much. i know its wrong 2 have a g/f but we both wanted to marry each other. anyway we had a fight and coz of the porbs at home i just didnt trust any1. i left her 4 2 months we wer both upset. i started cutting myself to relieve the pain. after 2 months i finally sorted my head out a bit and wanted to g…
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vjkk vjkf! sangat jeeo, im taking amrit soon and i am seriously thinking of the dastaar. But i was going to start with the patka for many reasons. A dastaar carries many responsibilites as in you are now respresenting so you have to be perfect ..kinda. i think i should wait for it maybe a couple of months. but now i was think of the patka becuase it accomplishes keeping your head covered and it would be less of a shock for my family memebers and stuff. My dad is also against dastaar in a way so i thought a patka would like cool him down at first and then slpwly. so my question here is is it okay to wear a patka? any advice ?
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Parents Vs Marridge Issue
by Guest Sikh Girl- 3 replies
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Hi Guys i didnt no where else to type all my stress so i thought id type it here Im 22 yrs off age last year at uni , and iv been with my bf for 5 years now who is 23 , We talk about marridge alot and both would like to get married one day maybe in another 5 years time once we have graduated , got jobs and are stable etc i no your probably thinking alot can happen within that time dont get me wrong this isnt another CASTE ISSUE thing , because my parents dont mind who i marry aslong as he is 1 Sikh / hp 2 Good guy 3 NICE PARENTS BUT it not all rosey number 3 worries me alot as my bf does not get on with his dad and step mum but theirs reasons to why my bf does no…
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Shiv Sena Splits; North Indian Leaders Resign
by Guest _hmm_- 1 reply
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Shiv Sena splits; North Indian leaders resign New Delhi (PTI): The Shiv Sena on Wednesday split, with the outfit's North Indian leaders resigning en-masse protesting its "outrageous conduct" towards non-Marathis in Maharashtra and announcing they would form a separate party. "Shiv Sena is no different from Khalistan and Jammu and Kashmir militant groups which are trying to create a rift between people along regional lines. The main aim of these forces is to split our country," Shiv Sena's North India chief Jai Bhagwan Goyal told reporters here today. "The outrageous conduct of Shiv Sena towards non-Marathis and North Indians in Maharashtra has deeply hurt the sentiment…
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GIRFRIENDS AND BOYFRIENDS 1 2
by Guest Surinder Singh- 12 replies
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I've noticed that there is many Amritdhari Singhs and Singhnis who have relationships with each other. Is this right? I am an amritdhari Singh and this Amritdhari Singhni asked me out many times but I think it isn't a right thing to do. One excuse she makes is that I bring her closer to Sikhi and I just don't know anymore I am so confused.
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Amrit Sanchars In California Soon?
by Guest _Sinner_- 3 replies
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Need to know if there are any Amrit Sanchars in California soon (like before Vaisakhi) please. Thanks.
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Does anyone know where i can get a gutka shaib with dasam granth bani, such akal ustat, 33 swaiye, chandi di vaar etc in english. in the uk or a website i can order it from Thanks in advance Fateh
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Need Mp3 Of This...
by Guest _iam_me_- 1 reply
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'' thum maath pithaa ham baarik thaerae '' the one on sikhiroots isnt the full version! can anyone help?
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wjkk wjkf i have a wedding next week, it is close family, but i dont WANA GOOOOOOOO cant get out of it going to hate every second, .. the loud music, people drinking, arghhhhhhhhhhhhh! what should i do? please, will try to keep simran going, but im dreading it :console: gets to me more, seeing gurujee;s sikhs acting like freaks!! dancing, drinking, chit chatty with others, arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, duno wat to do pls give me advice. and sorry mods, u can delete if u want.
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Two choices....respecting and following wishes of family or following what you know is the right way to go. How does one handle this situation. Do you follow the respectful wishes of your family? Do you ignore what you know or 'feel' is right? Do you ignore your family? From a Sikhi point of view, I would imagine that the family options is always right. But how does one deal with choosing the latter...and ignoring the family? How do you deal with those emotions and how do you accept the pain and sorry you may be causing them? I've kept this quite open so it would apply to many situations, I guess the most obvious with be Amrit...but perhaps lets consider other optio…
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i am expecting a baby to a 36 yr old sikh man in august and he chose to have nothing to to with me when i told him I couldnt go through with a termination I am a 39yr old white christian woman but have been told that his family would not take the news very well and that his decision to walk away without trace has to to with the fact that his family woul be ashamed. Im left heartbroken as I love this man very much. I respect people of all faiths and find it hard to accept that him dating a white woman is ok, just not having children with her. anyone any advice? apart from searching the streets of Derby to find him
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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