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hey everyone, i came on here with my probs a few months ago when things started going bad for me. anyway things started looking up 4 me recently. i took on every1s advice.............did exercise, went gudwara more, more phaat and it helped for a while. but why MOD EDIT is life so hard?for the first time in years the other day i was happy. i went out with my mates had such a laugh it was nothing bad just we had pizza and had a laugh. but a few days later sumfin happened that hurts so much. im just sick of everyfin. i keep putting a brave face on but seriously whats the point in trying to do right things if u just get hurt after?! ive tried so hard to be happy and it …
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Arranging Marriage
by Guest Guest- 2 replies
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Fateh I was wondering if anyone else ever been in a similar situation recently. basically two people have decided they want to get married whens the right time to tell the parents and how to approach them. Individually or as a whole?
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What Should I Do? 1 2
by Guest SERIOUS HELP- 18 replies
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Dear sangat I do not ever post on these sites for advice as i am a very private person, but now things are very hard and just wated a different unbias perspective on things. I have been going out with a sikh guy now for nearly three years. The relationship was not for fun it was with the aim of getting married. I told my parents, my mum met him everything was perfect couldn't get better...everyone got on great. He told his parents, however, his parents don't want to know bcos we are different castes. They have not even met me! I am undecided on what to do...do I keep fighting bcos we are perfect together...or do I walk away bcos I can't risk wating and waiting as i am…
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Bailiffs Rights? (uk)
by Guest Gareeb- 4 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! I'm behind on council tax payments, does anyone know what bailiffs can do if I refuse to open my door? I've heard they can't break in if all doors and windows are locked, but can they get a locksmith to pick the lock? Thanks for your help! Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!
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Well my parents ave a chip shop (they not Amritdhaari) and they do an indian take away and kebabs and all sorts there. Which means a wide variety of meat is there lol. My mum asked me the other day if i have Nitnem, Sukhmani Sahib and any other spare Gurbani on CDS. I told her i have and asked her why she needed them. She told me that they are going to start playing Gurbani in the shop. I told her that i cant do that as Gurbani should not be played near the presence of meat, alcohal (my dad has bottles there and gets smashed lol) and other nasha. My mum then just went mad and started houtin at me saying "OH THATS WHAT YOU THINK. WHO MADE YOU SO BLOODY IMPORTANT" and stuff…
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Sikhiwiki
by Guest _~singh~_- 3 replies
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is it a good place to learn about sikhism? i mean is the website objective and not biased.
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Lust Problems
by Guest gupt?- 4 replies
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ok i have a issue, i have a really bad lust problem i see all girls that are pretty as just objects for you know what and have bad thoughts i really want to stop this because i want to take amrit but lust is destroying me inside, singhs have told me i am going further away 4m sikhi. i do my banis i listen to as much kirtan as possible but it never helps me i always end up thinking about girls which i hateeeeeeeeeeeee doing. im 16 so obv im going true puberity but i hate thinking about girls like that i want to stop lust but how kirtan dont work well it does then about 30mins later a girls comes in to my paap head
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Should Vedanti Talk To Gujjar Leader, Convert To Sikhs
by Guest Guest- 6 replies
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One can see how hardworking gujjars in rajistan are discriminated and now bluntly daily killed in police firing. Can we Sikhs put in our fold. If they convert their religion from Hindu to Sikhs. Their children can get Educated in Sikh institutes Under minority certira. Also Sikhi swroop with enhance their character. Do our religious Sikh religious leader need having talk with their leader. Akali dal in Rajasthan will get Social political strength too. Also any future khalistan need to add parts of Rajasthan in its place as it give Nice place to do nuclear tests for weapons What sangat thinks. Should we send a request to our jathedar Vedanti to sen…
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What Background Music Is This
by Guest _Singhs_- 5 replies
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LgQP7X7Gt58 need background music what is it?
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Shiri Guru Granth Sahib: Sacred Or Not?
by Guest _Deep_- 7 replies
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Hello everyone, I just came across this site and thought it was great! I beleive strongly that it is good to have such sites at our disposal, so that we can strengthen our personal faith. but I do have question that have been plagueing my mind for a very long time: WHY (for given reasons) is the 'guru granth sahib' to be treated as a human and even named after a living entity (guru). An explanation as plain as; "we do it out of sheer respect", is what I have been receiving from many, but I find this answer inadequate and wrong (why: because similiar scriptures such as the bible and quran are treated with respect and given the label of sacred but not to the extent in …
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Does anyone know of any particular prayers for when your expecting? I would ask my mum but she's in India at the minute. I do my Nitnem and do my Simran through out the day (well i listen to it on my computer whilst at work). I was just wondering if there was anything more specific for this particular time in my life? I cant ask my mum in law as were going to wait till were further on before announcing it (and i have wait till my mum comes back from India, so we can tell them together!!).
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Gurbani Quote
by Guest smile- 2 replies
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VJKK VJKF SAAD SANGAT JEE!! Hope your all well!! Took a Hukam from the net, dont understand the message. Can someone please elaborate on it pls. Much appreciated. Thankx in advance. http://www.sikhitothemax.com/Page.asp?Sour...24&Format=2
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Waheguru Jee Kaa Khalsa Waheguru Jee Kee Fateh In this book, in the first few pages, I came across this: Humble servant Baba Sarabjot Singh 17th generation of Guru Nanak Dev Ji Guru throne of Baba Sahib Singh Ji Bedi Una Sahib (H.P) "Guru throne of Baba Sahib SIngh Je Bedi" what does this mean? Please explain to this ignorant fool. Waheguru Jee Kaa Khalsa Waheguru Jee Kee Fateh
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Wjkk wjkf, Sadh sangat ji, I have always had a problem with working, I just want to work and have an honest job, the other thing I have realized is what's the point of life, if we spend 8 hours doing stuff we dont' want to do, I just want to work an honest wage, and to have a family. It seems like money is my only impediment for this to happen, does anyone have any thoughts about this?