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Praying For Deceased
by Guest Jassi- 1 reply
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My cousin sister took her own life two months back. I know that people say suicide is a big sin but she was suffering from mental illness, depression. What paat can I do to ask for her peace? And what does SGGS ji say about people who die in this way?
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Do You Ever Wonder?
by Guest Singh- 5 replies
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Do you ever wonder if people actually care about Sikhi and Sikh issues i know its not our job to force anyone but i dont know i guess im just feeling disheartened from seva at the moment bcos no one is listening
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I dnt believe in Caste, but i would like to knw if Afgan Sikhs have castes???
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Reuben Singh
by Guest Singhfrmnorth- 2 replies
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WJKK, WJKF Do any of you guys remember a singh from Reuben singh from Manchester/Cheshire? He was well known in the 90's up to around 2006 because he was a big millionnaire. Back in those days, he used to bring loads of Ragi's to U.K with Jaswinder Kohli but Kohli stopped because due to charity work in India. Anyway I was just asking, what is he doing now because I heard he got bankcrupt (which is also on wikipedia) but that was 5 years ago or so. P.S I remembered him as I saw him at Manchester Gurdwara where Sant Baba Ranjit Singh Dhadiran Wale was doing a diwan and he was the one who drove baba ji to the Gurdwara in a royals royce...lol
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Lust?!?!?!?!?!
by Guest Confused- 0 replies
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Having problems with lust....masturbation n porn...when i was a younger i didnt even know what it was....i didnt even know porn or masturbating existed until i was about 15... that was the age wen i started experimenting, and when i found out i got addicted.. Im 17 now and im just really horny all the time. I can go about 2 weeks without doing it but when i do i always have weird lustful dreams. I want to get back into sikhi so badly but i cant because i feel like a fake...like i dont even deserve to say gods name.. I say back into sikhi because when i was younger i used to be very religious but ever since i started masturbation and stuff i feel bad everytime i go gurdwar…
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Importance Of Doing Nitnem
by Guest Guest- 1 reply
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What is the importanceof doing Nitnem? Is it better to do nitnem Paths without knowing their meaning or do a path with full meaning if time is a restriction or the other way?
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I Need Help. Please!
by Guest anonymus- 0 replies
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waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh. I am 16 year old girl. When i was 13 i found out what porn was and since then i have been watching it. I do not touch myself in any manner but just watch porn and get the feeling of pleasure, even though i dont touch myself. I know it is a sin in sikhi. How can i stop myself. Just this week i had stopped but i did it again. i did not do it for 10 days and thats the longest i have gone. in the heat of the moment i watch porn.. but after I regret it deeply. A lot of times i have promised god and told him that i wont do it but i always end up doing it. I WANT TO STOP. I dont want to be punished and i DONT want god to hate me. I…
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Benefits Of Salok Mahala 9?
by Guest SinghSaab- 0 replies
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Blood Test
by Guest kaur- 4 replies
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I know this is going to sound silly but I need to go for a blood test, is it okay? I'm sure they wipe the needle with something first, does that contain alcohol? If so is it okay ie does it count as a kurehit? Thi is probably silly cos I think its okay to have medicine containing that cos youre not actually doing nasha. And is there a possibility of anything happening to any kes when they put the needle in? Is this all just silly, I mean everyone goes for blood tests I don't want to do any bharm (probably not spelt right)
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Seek Advice 1 2
by Guest rasna213- 14 replies
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This may seem weird but I really need some assistance on the below. I am nearing 30 years, a Sikh girl. And will be meeting someone along with the family for a matrimonial alliance soon. Frankly have not met many people or had many rishtha for me to know what kinds of questions to ask. Too nervous & not good with putting up a confident outlook. All my family knows about them is through a matrimonial consultancy & their profile that we got to read. So as you can see we know very little. The profile seemed to give a decent overall picture of what we looking for. Although this person is a non-veg (i a veg), i thought i would have to let that be. I avoided people in …
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Have You Visited Http://discoversikhism.com ?
by Guest DiscoverSikhism- 0 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh Discover Sikhism http://www.discoversikhism.com is a non-profit website and has only recently started. Please support our efforts by making people aware of Discover Sikhism and by asking your friends and family to visit. We hope the Sri Harmandir Sahib Daily Hukumnama, Live Kirtan, Sikh Radio & TV Channels and other pages/ general information is useful. Our humble aim is to raise Sikh awareness and let people (Sikh and non Sikh) discover the Sikhs and their Gurus; the Gurus teachings, the sacrifices they made, their fight for freedom, their fight against inequality and injustice, the persecution they faced, and still fa…
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Bedabi Glasgow Gurudarwara
by Guest Gupt Singh- 0 replies
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Admin please let me reply and then is can be locked In darbaar sahib, and up stairs I saw that they had a joth on. Now I have read the SGPC maryada, they say no Joth so I asked a sevadar there why do we have a joth present. The singh sahib said Joth is a sorce of natural light and when there is parkash of maharaaj there should always be a joth on. He also said its not that we worship the fire, it the fact that it is there for maharaaj and another reason its on is to respect all the shaheed singh/ singhniya. In arti it says that the sun is the joth and it is doing arti of the nirgun saroop, but guru granth sahib is a sargun saroop we should have that respect. Bhai sahib…
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Bedabi Gurudarwara Glasgow
by Guest Gupt Singh- 6 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fathe! Saad Sangat ji A brand new gurudarwara that has opened in Glasgow has had many beadbis happening. Firstly the akhand path maryada has been ignored there is no dhoop, joth, jal or nariyal present. Secondly, <edited> Singh a committee member is doing parchaar in the gurudarwara is saying "if you cant get up at amrit vela its okay- dont feel guilty nitname does not need to happen at amritvela." They have a gay member in the gurudarwara committee (<edited> Singh) Who has been seen smoking and drinking in pubs before by many singhs. The parchaar they are doing is all missionary thinking based. So its a gupt bent…
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Is there any books or anything that can help you knw how to speak punjabi beacause dont know how to speak punjabi at all and need help plz learning punanations ant tht. I know the how to read punjabi but dont know how to speak at all plz help someone
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My Mind Is All Over The Place! Help!
by Guest MR. JS- 1 reply
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I was a Singh for about 3/4 years and had been blessed enough to take amrit, it was hard but I managed for a year or so.. but suddenly everything changed, how I thought about things, the things I done. I was smoking, drinking, having sex. I thought I didn't believe anymore, i thought long and hard for 5/6 months and so Like a pappu I cut my kes. my Singh friends pushed me away but afew are still close but I can't even look at them without feeling bad. It's been 2/3 years since and iv always had this feeling deep down inside that I cannot explain. I look back and think what a TW@T, what have I done. I think about what I have done and cry. I left everything that was good…
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